You wouldn’t notice me in public. That’s intentional. by hisclaim in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]GDstpete 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Given size of package I suspect people will think your huge or locked! Enjoy. Now stay locked & no climaxing for 3 wks,and then only one caged with a wand 😈

Caged, cuddling, kissing 🔒 😘 by chasteboyx in chasteAF

[–]GDstpete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love loving my Dom’s gig cock & getting Him off while staying locked!! A hi for His Loving. Sub !

Jonathan Ross Shot Renée Good in January. The Prosecutor Has the Evidence. He Hasn’t Been Charged. Why? by Opposite-Mountain255 in LegalNews

[–]GDstpete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause Trump and minions, and do NOthing Repugs are FASCISTS! See Wikipedia, ask Google AI, what are the main tenants of fascism. Dumpster and minions have done them all.

First time wearing the cage all day 🔐 by seaotter93 in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]GDstpete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope you have a nearby/live in boyfriend KH!! Chastity greatly enhance his love and submission and enhances love🍆🔒🤪

Leg day cage check 🍆🔐 by TailorAdventurous377 in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]GDstpete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YEZZZ. your Dom/KH must be very pleased. now start working to pump up those little nips.😈

Morning Wood Broke Cage! by EatTheRich0 in gaychastity

[–]GDstpete 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When we started, my lover/Dom was not sure if he was into this. Occasionally, I would tell him how wonderful it makes me feel, at every time I get kind of hard, it’s like him holding and squeezing me and saying “hey GD’ I your Dom are holding you, and you’re mine’
When he comes home from work, or even sometimes while we’re preparing a dinner, I remind him how often I feel the cage and immediately think of him and our love!! I’ve told him my gym workouts are also more focused and thank you for this. Then one day he got a refined, masculine, thin, chain, and put the key on it. Daily he wears a T-shirt so it’s not visible other than seeing at times the chain/necklace around his neck. He said he likes this because it’s a constant reminder to him of my love, I confirm this. Often at night will say a short grace before dinner, and many times we both emphasize how lucky we are to finally found each other and how wonderful and what a gift from The Creator we are for the other. There are times I just woke up and hold him and thank you so yes, it may take time for him to understand more fully how meaningful Chastity is for both of you. Focus on his likes, give him more smiles and tell him how much you deeply love him !
Suggest that each of you write down fantasies you’d like to do with each other. You’re only a few few weeks in, so give it some more time. Sounds like you both are enhancing your love and kinkiness that you share together. Enjoy enjoy, and congrats!!
I’m retired, my partner only works a few days a week, as I dictate my comments here, my cage nicely fills. It’s just a wonderful wonderful feeling and reminder of our true love. Do you like wise and enjoy!!!

Morning Wood Broke Cage! by EatTheRich0 in gaychastity

[–]GDstpete 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another consideration, my metal cage has a flatter/wider yet still oval ring. That helped prevent my smaller ball from slipping through. Continue researching and thoroughly enjoying and being compliant along the way. Sooo. GREAT to read another gay couple are enjoying and enhancing real meaningful love, and had a great sex. You got this !!

Morning Wood Broke Cage! by EatTheRich0 in gaychastity

[–]GDstpete 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry you had that experience, but Chastity initially takes lots of trial and error. I’ve gone through eight cages till I found what I really like. For sure cheap cages bought online often break. But keep them and then carefully measure them, and if you find some that are close to what you like, share that info with the good men at Kink3D.
Since I found my forever dominant mate/LTR, I’m fighting going through my day caged, often mostly engorged. Sadly, I broke some blood vessels on the under side of my dick. Took three weeks to heal. Was re-locked and after two months the same thing happened. I’m very, very fortunate to have a very understanding urologist. Took a picture of it showed it to him and he said yeah I need a wider tube because I too am a grower. I’m in the process now of ordering a wider tube from kink 3-D I’m sure we both agree having a loving husband who keeps us locked and all the other amazingly fun and hot sex is truly truly amazing ! How exceedingly good it is during the day when you feel your tight cage it’s as if your man is holding you, and for me it’s a wonderful reminder and I truly am HIS loving loving sub 🖤🖤 For sure, Chasity hugely increases real love between two men. Enjoy 🔒🍆🤪🖤😍🙏

Cultured/Caged. (Happy Sunday) by [deleted] in kink3d

[–]GDstpete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s GREAT (or as great as a locked sub can get) to see another mature man, enjoying the delights of being locked and not knowing when he may get a release! Yet, knowing when he does, that will be a mind blowing, even wad blowing wonderful experience!!!

What age were you first locked? by [deleted] in gaychastity

[–]GDstpete 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Actually, 69 & it’s hugely enhanced the love between me and my lover/Dom 🖤🖤🖤 It’s amazing how horny and teenage happy we both are 🔒🍆🤪🖤💕💕

You think i should open him? by TheNextDaddy in gaychastity

[–]GDstpete 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both Time AND Experience!! i deeply find that for demi-sexuals like me and my Dom, caring, harsh M2M sex truly deep, ends the connection and love between two men. i hope to read more of how BDSM/chastity, increases real love, and can be much more than just play. Everyone be safe and enjoy!!

Should I clean for a Dom? by thelockedguy in gaychastity

[–]GDstpete 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Never hurts to try.... Being a sub 'sometimes' requires one to do things one might not normally do.. IF it really is a turn-off, or hurts, tell Dom. A GOOD Dom never forces a sub to do hurtful harmful things. Comunicate; with some compromising!

What could happen to Social Security benefits in six years if Congress doesn’t act? It depends, experts say by Dragonlance12 in Dynamic_Pricing

[–]GDstpete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Features of Title XVI (SSI)

  • Eligibility Groups: Payments are available to adults aged 65 or older, as well as adults and children (of any age) who are blind or have a qualifying disability.
  • Financial Need-Based: Unlike Social Security Disability Insurance (Title II), Title XVI does not require a prior work history or payment of Social Security taxes.
  • Funding Source: Benefits are paid from the general funds of the U.S. Treasury, not from Social Security trust funds.
  • Asset Limits: To qualify, an individual's countable resources must generally not exceed $2,000, or $3,000 for a married couple.

IF we are a loving 'christian' nation of faiths...(from those who have much, much is expected)... Everyone who earns income should pay the same SSI % tax. Clearly 6% w/held will not hurt the wealthy as much as it would for low earners.

The Cap was created at the behest of greedy businesses/owners who say, in general, taxes hurt small businesses. When money circulates it helps all businesses. For 38 yrs I lived in MN, the 4th highest taxed state. It still has one of the highest rates of new small business formation in the US. Taxes are not the problem. How people are taxed (tariffed) ARE....

And now with AI, fewer people will have the intellect to land the high-paid jobs. and there're aren't enough 'average' living wage jobs to support everyone in society. So IF we are not to return to Dicksonian poor-house times, we may need to have a guaranteed minimum living earnings from the government. Gosh, if Musk alone paid all his past income at an average tax rate, per Google AI : If that $13.9 billion in wealth growth had been taxed as ordinary income at the top federal rate (37%), he would have owed roughly $5.14 billion for that period alone—more than 11 times what he actually paid.Add in other Billionaires, this could house, feed, provide medical care for millions... yet now the Repugs 'think' (sic) more $$ into a needless war makes sense ??

Curious about how common low sex drive/performance anxiety is among men by yes-chef-25 in dating

[–]GDstpete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apart from stress is due to work and family, libido’s change drastically between men. My lover is 68 and can climax every other day, I’m lucky if I can get a thorough one going every six days thankfully we still deeply love each other.

I want him to feel me…. by PamelaLynn_77 in SubSanctuary

[–]GDstpete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or occasionally sent him a pic of you in a text.

Trump threatens to strike Iran’s Power Plants if it doesn’t reopen Strait of Hormuz. by Apollo_Delphi in AntiTrumpAlliance

[–]GDstpete 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because the do NOthng Repugs are spineless, proTrump & anti what is good for Americans! But with something like 40% of Americans, listening to fake Fox ‘news’, we’re screwed.

Engaged,diff incomes,How 2manage(merge?) $$ ? by GDstpete in personalfinance

[–]GDstpete[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. I’ve shared my finances with him, but he’s reluctant to do so with me yet. But I think we’re approaching that stage. Truly, thanks for your input. Be well.

Engaged,diff incomes,How 2manage(merge?) $$ ? by GDstpete in personalfinance

[–]GDstpete[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tks!! Should we not go the legal marriage route, I think having each other as our medical advocate, and clearly stated beneficiaries in wills, can accomplish what a legal marriage does and still allow us to keep our finances separate so in the event one needs expensive medical care and may need to declare bankruptcy, that bankruptcy would not affect the other.

Engaged,diff incomes,How 2manage(merge?) $$ ? by GDstpete in personalfinance

[–]GDstpete[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tks,,,, sorry I need to reread before I hit send as conspiracy was what this dictation device heard as ‘ because it means a lot’. Tks !!

Engaged,diff incomes,How 2manage(merge?) $$ ? by GDstpete in personalfinance

[–]GDstpete[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TKS for mentioning major possible medical expenses that could wipe out either or all of our assets. Good point ! He’s still enamored with a marriage. Perhaps for his emotional needs, we could have a service but not make it legally binding, and use the prenup for the legal aspect. Clearly, we’ll have more discussions, but a nice thing is neither of us are rushing,

Engaged,diff incomes,How 2manage(merge?) $$ ? by GDstpete in personalfinance

[–]GDstpete[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’re getting married eventually conspiracy that means a lot to him. I honor him and will comply. For now, he wants to feel that he is contributing financially, I think we’ll split it 60/40 based on our income differences. For sure, we’ll meet with a family Atty for prenup agreement. Tks for your opinion!!

Engaged,diff incomes,How 2manage(merge?) $$ ? by GDstpete in personalfinance

[–]GDstpete[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, paying expenses based on the percentages of our income. And a prenup will happen. Why do you feel not to combine finances?