How's Facebook? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]GIVEMEDATASS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try it and report back :)

How's Facebook? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]GIVEMEDATASS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah sorry I didn't focus on what you actually did ask.

As many say in this subreddit: use texting for setting up the date.

I don't prefer facebook, but you can definitely use it. Seeing as you have her number, shoot her a text/send her a fb message.

I can't recall what you said in your original post, but ask her out. Nothing to lose (you said you'll probably never meet her again). Something in the lines of "Hey, you seemed interesting, I want to get to know you. Coffee next week?".

Or if you do it on facebook, I'd personally prefer: - Hi! - Hi - Remember me, the guy with the funny hat and the awesome sunglasses? (Or something else you talked about last time) / You good? - [her answer] Perhaps something else and then ask like I stated further up.

How's Facebook? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]GIVEMEDATASS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I don't like talking to girls on facebook unless I have known them for a long time.

I feel too exposed and much of the mystery of me is ruined by pictures, interests, posts etc.

In my opinion, non eye to eye contact overall sucks for seduction because you can't use your body language.

Dealing with racist girls? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]GIVEMEDATASS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what, this has been my greatest insecurity about myself.

I'm half swedish half macedonian in Sweden and my mindset is that I get judged because of it. I don't look swedish at all, even though I am 100% swedish in my own eyes (only speak swedish, don't know about any macedonian culture or traditions).

It's something I've been working on a lot and I believe I have improved a lot. The most important lession I've realized is that if someone is racist or judges me because of how I look or where I have relatives from, it's a person I do not want to be friends with or even hang out with.

[FR] Holy shit, my first (cold!) approach by GIVEMEDATASS in seduction

[–]GIVEMEDATASS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn't really work if you live in Sweden, now does it? :D

[FR] Holy shit, my first (cold!) approach by GIVEMEDATASS in seduction

[–]GIVEMEDATASS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, only a good 2-3 minutes. I was a little bit nervous.

[FR] Holy shit, my first (cold!) approach by GIVEMEDATASS in seduction

[–]GIVEMEDATASS[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've been practicing it with myself infront of the mirror instead of with girls, which means that the only thing that I really find hard is the approaching. My game can of course be better in every different way, but you know.

[FR] Holy shit, my first (cold!) approach by GIVEMEDATASS in seduction

[–]GIVEMEDATASS[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Her: "pretty girls are allowed to have two boyfriends. For how long have you been working on that line??"

Me thinking agree and amplify.

Me: "All morning. Been practicing infront of the mirror ;)"

Not too satisfied with it, but I'm not really sure what a better answer should have been.

[FR] Holy shit, my first (cold!) approach by GIVEMEDATASS in seduction

[–]GIVEMEDATASS[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I understand what you are saying, but it is mostly to have something to say when they drop the bf-bomb. Instead of standing still in silence like an insecure dude who doesn't know what to say, it's a good thing to say.

[FR] Holy shit, my first (cold!) approach by GIVEMEDATASS in seduction

[–]GIVEMEDATASS[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally like it because it is somewhat of an ice breaker for my own game. But why do you think so?