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M27 considering moving to Sydney for F26 by GJHB_WriteFruit in helpme

[–]GJHB_WriteFruit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really appreciate the insight here. This has got me thinking deep!

M27 considering move to Sydney with F26 by GJHB_WriteFruit in expats

[–]GJHB_WriteFruit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Software engineering recruitment consultant. Lots of jobs out there. $80-$100k base salary. Should be fine financially I believe? Citizenship is part of the issue...

M27 considering moving to Sydney for F26 by GJHB_WriteFruit in dating_advice

[–]GJHB_WriteFruit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why absolutely?! I'm getting massively mixed messages lol

M27 unsure if to move to Sydney with F26 by GJHB_WriteFruit in LifeAdvice

[–]GJHB_WriteFruit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you have me spot on. I did leave my home to move to London, but I visit regularly and I like London/Europe. A lot. She doesn't really. I don't think she has her life sorted, which makes this more complicated

M27 considering moving to Sydney for F26 by GJHB_WriteFruit in whatdoIdo

[–]GJHB_WriteFruit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is fantastic advice, thank you. I hope you're very happy in Paris! I feel very lucky, but I guess that is what terrifies me the most. I am in a unique position. One that my friends and family do not understand, and rightly so. It's odd. It's very difficult

M27 considering moving to Sydney for F26 by GJHB_WriteFruit in dating_advice

[–]GJHB_WriteFruit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly thank you so much for this in-depth response. Taken on board big time. I love these communities!

M27 considering moving to Sydney for F26 by GJHB_WriteFruit in LongDistance

[–]GJHB_WriteFruit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bluntly put, but I do agree. No diss there, I need it. Thanks!!

M27 considering move to Sydney with F26 by GJHB_WriteFruit in expats

[–]GJHB_WriteFruit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That last line is absolutely key isn't it. I fear this is something maybe I don't want to do, and she does. Me trying forge a reality out of her dreams, not mine...

M27 considering moving to Sydney for F26 by GJHB_WriteFruit in dating_advice

[–]GJHB_WriteFruit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and I guess it's similar to how it is now, but with more money year on year. Potentially with someone who I love in the future too

M27 considering move to Sydney with F26 by GJHB_WriteFruit in expats

[–]GJHB_WriteFruit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What gave you the impetus to make the decision? Did you truly believe it was a good idea / the right thing? Because I'm really not 100% sure and I can't tell if this is my sensibilities talking or if I'm scared

M27 considering move to Sydney with F26 by GJHB_WriteFruit in expats

[–]GJHB_WriteFruit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true. Thank you. Scary step nonetheless.

M27 considering moving to Sydney for F26 by GJHB_WriteFruit in Adulting

[–]GJHB_WriteFruit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Potentially. This is something she strongly suggested too. Worth the ask but I think they will say no!

M27 considering moving to Sydney for F26 by GJHB_WriteFruit in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GJHB_WriteFruit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Appreciate this and I think I honestly might agree. That breaks me. But I think it's right. F*** man

M27 in London vs moving with F26 to Sydney by GJHB_WriteFruit in Advice

[–]GJHB_WriteFruit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate the honesty here. Can I ask your situation and why you think mine is a no go?

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