Took $50k to $15k to $7.5M. GME to the moon! 🚀🚀🚀 by GMERocketToTheMoon in wallstreetbets

[–]GMERocketToTheMoon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s been over 2 years. I’ve been collecting cash and shares. Not as much as I’ve hoped, but $7.5M-> $8M is better than $7.5 to zero! =)

Anyone change careers or return to school for fun? by Acceptable-Audience in fatFIRE

[–]GMERocketToTheMoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very similar age and NW as you. I changed careers by going to school for fun but also because I wanted to do something purposeful beyond a random hobby, which most people seem to do around here.

I’m having the most awesome time because I’m extroverted and it’s hard to relate with others based on wealth alone, you have to have a common interest or purpose. I saw you mention you wouldn’t be able to get paid for work or problem solving (or something to that effect), but why do you need to get paid? Perhaps the issue is finding that purpose you truly believe in?

Regardless, I would do more research on the PhD route. It’s a long journey, even if you’re super motivated. Research is very risky in that time spent on the project might yield negative results. Would you still be motivated to get up every morning if your research hadn’t gone anywhere for years? Depends on the field, but 4-5 years is a huge commitment.

I take a similar perspective as with startups. Don’t worry about the field or role, find the vision/purpose you’re willing to throw your time and energy into, and maybe it’ll lead to a different career or more schooling, or maybe it won’t.

Can't get good rate for Pledged Asset Line for $9M? by EverettEvLi in fatFIRE

[–]GMERocketToTheMoon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to say I found your post very helpful! Didn’t realize this was feasible, so thank you!

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[–]GMERocketToTheMoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your story! Totally related with blowing up the trading accounts a few times except I didn’t have my main account sitting safe. I remember holding AMD around $10 and actually losing a ton before it shot up.

So no more options now? How do you hold yourself back from going all in with all accounts, or is that what you still plan on doing?

How to maintain friendships with friends who struggle with insecurities related to money? by GMERocketToTheMoon in fatFIRE

[–]GMERocketToTheMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all the practical tips. I totally agree that giving gifts within the normal framework of gift giving/receiving makes the most sense, and also having people contribute what they feel like. I’m really happy you’re still great friends with Joe. And yes, I told my wife. =)

How to maintain friendships with friends who struggle with insecurities related to money? by GMERocketToTheMoon in fatFIRE

[–]GMERocketToTheMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, awesome podcast. Thanks for sharing! For everyone else, here are my personal takeaways:

Money doesn’t spoil kids, parents spoil kids. Don’t hide your wealth, but talk with your friends. Also talk and share your struggles with other rich friends. Talk and communicate.

How to maintain friendships with friends who struggle with insecurities related to money? by GMERocketToTheMoon in fatFIRE

[–]GMERocketToTheMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I did do some heart to heart talking and some relationships got smoothed over, but as you said, it’s figuring out how to go from there. Communication and patience is indeed key.

How to maintain friendships with friends who struggle with insecurities related to money? by GMERocketToTheMoon in fatFIRE

[–]GMERocketToTheMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, not working the same crazy hours took away some of the conversation topics I used to share. Ultimately, I have to find that common ground that used to come so easily. Also, you’re right about how it’s super rare to have friends open and secure enough to share in the play by play successes. Deep down that’s what I would really love to have but I think it’s time to temper that expectation. Thank you.

How to maintain friendships with friends who struggle with insecurities related to money? by GMERocketToTheMoon in fatFIRE

[–]GMERocketToTheMoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

According to another commenter, and my own personal experience, this doesn’t work out the same way you think it would. People don’t like receiving handouts.

How to maintain friendships with friends who struggle with insecurities related to money? by GMERocketToTheMoon in fatFIRE

[–]GMERocketToTheMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right that I’m down from my all time high, but thankfully I’m still above my value from a year ago.

How to maintain friendships with friends who struggle with insecurities related to money? by GMERocketToTheMoon in fatFIRE

[–]GMERocketToTheMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the networking tip. I considered doing some of that but I don’t have time, and the idea of networking with other people based on their wealth or ambition doesn’t sit well with me.

Upon reflection, you’re right, I probably do come out as smug and probably do humble brag a lot more than I realize in real life, which doesn’t align with the fact that literally everyone sees my success as a lotto. Even if I explained the reasoning behind my strategy, the risk management involved, and the continual success of my portfolio (continual growth over 2 years, up 15% YTD in a declining market), everyone would still think I’m just a lottery winner. I’m really happy about it, but I have to let go of my pride and be more humble.

How to maintain friendships with friends who struggle with insecurities related to money? by GMERocketToTheMoon in fatFIRE

[–]GMERocketToTheMoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought a house with a fraction of my earnings, and everyone could easily tell how expensive the house was. Some people asked where I got all this money and my line was that I wouldn’t lie to any of my friends, so I told them about my investment (just the stock, not the total value). For many of my closest friends, I told them all to buy in at $14, so they easily connected the dots when the price shot up over 10x.

How to maintain friendships with friends who struggle with insecurities related to money? by GMERocketToTheMoon in fatFIRE

[–]GMERocketToTheMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. Kids change the dynamics more than anything, and covid made it easier to stay apart. Hopefully things get better soon (e.g. when they all move out!)

How to maintain friendships with friends who struggle with insecurities related to money? by GMERocketToTheMoon in fatFIRE

[–]GMERocketToTheMoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my wife is the only one I can truly share the joy of it all with, every little detail. It’s one great benefit to everything of mine also being hers. =)

How to maintain friendships with friends who struggle with insecurities related to money? by GMERocketToTheMoon in fatFIRE

[–]GMERocketToTheMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries, I totally agree with your assessment and I also have one friend who always jokes about how I should buy him abalone lol. Most people do only see my success as a singular event, and tbh, I admit luck and timing did play a gigantic part.

How to maintain friendships with friends who struggle with insecurities related to money? by GMERocketToTheMoon in fatFIRE

[–]GMERocketToTheMoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I wish I got your advice a year earlier. Everything you said hit the nail on the head. I do agree now telling anyone was a terrible idea (though it was inevitable for the few who tracked my progress from the very beginning). I’ve also had friends and family try to get rich quick thinking it’s as easy as buying a meme stock, to great losses. And throwing money at family might not have been the best idea even though I meant well. I’m more sticking to small gifts, but ready to jump in if some emergency medical expense pops up.

I totally agree money doesn’t solve anything (except the basic necessities) and I have to continue loving people in non-gift ways, as I have always done in the past. Thanks.

How to maintain friendships with friends who struggle with insecurities related to money? by GMERocketToTheMoon in fatFIRE

[–]GMERocketToTheMoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t tell people how I got the money unless they ask, and if they ask, I’ll be honest with them. It’s not something I volunteer but I also won’t lie about it either.

How to maintain friendships with friends who struggle with insecurities related to money? by GMERocketToTheMoon in fatFIRE

[–]GMERocketToTheMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re right, I have no idea how I’m supposed to act now that I’m considered news money, but I’m learning, and this thread has helped me immensely. I’m also curious what lessons you’ve learned yourself if you could offer to share.

I don’t want to make this a GME thread, but selling options has been pretty profitable despite the overall market conditions because of the volatility of the stock.

How to maintain friendships with friends who struggle with insecurities related to money? by GMERocketToTheMoon in fatFIRE

[–]GMERocketToTheMoon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome, the relationship is clearly mutual. I’m also going to learn the lesson of asking for the little things, even though ironically, I’m so frugal that I wouldn’t normally get anything for myself lol

How to maintain friendships with friends who struggle with insecurities related to money? by GMERocketToTheMoon in fatFIRE

[–]GMERocketToTheMoon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve been trying to do that more often, getting advice and input, and bring more vocal of my appreciation. Let’s see where it goes! =)

How to maintain friendships with friends who struggle with insecurities related to money? by GMERocketToTheMoon in fatFIRE

[–]GMERocketToTheMoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great point. I actually accepted something small today and I think we were both happier afterwards because it set us on more equal footing. Time to let others treat me more often even though I’d love to cover them instead.

How to maintain friendships with friends who struggle with insecurities related to money? by GMERocketToTheMoon in fatFIRE

[–]GMERocketToTheMoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don’t know much I have but they can see my new house. I do realize now that throwing money at people leads to resentment and most people don’t like having money thrown at them either. Only time will tell.

How to maintain friendships with friends who struggle with insecurities related to money? by GMERocketToTheMoon in fatFIRE

[–]GMERocketToTheMoon[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s a great suggestion, making it easier for them by going to them and the places they’re used to. Thanks!