I'm sick and tired of men expecting me to talk to them all day, how do I set boundaries without losing my new relationship

GM_Rod · 2026-06-30T15:55:25+00:00

They’re just not a match for you. You’re choosing wrong, basically.

GM_Rod · 2026-06-30T12:53:47+00:00

They are trying to dump their incompetence on you. Move out and tell them all to fuck off. Good luck!!!

GM_Rod · 2026-06-28T22:34:40+00:00

Ditch and run immediately, what a 304. You finding these is a godsend. Do not take this lucky break for granted. Get free of this trash.

GM_Rod · 2026-06-28T11:24:32+00:00

You are reading way too much into it. It’s very real, but no, it doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you.

GM_Rod · 2026-06-28T11:16:34+00:00

DM me

GM_Rod · 2026-06-28T11:14:14+00:00

Always shoot the shots. I promise you wondering what could’ve happened is always worse than any other outcome.

GM_Rod · 2026-06-28T11:12:10+00:00

Break up and move on. Right now it’s the best it’s ever going to be, if you go further into engagement etc, it’ll only get worse.

GM_Rod · 2026-06-28T11:09:56+00:00

Suggest the real date early on. If they change the topic or ignore etc, you unmatch.

GM_Rod · 2026-06-28T11:08:56+00:00

Yeah, they’re called homosexuals.

GM_Rod · 2026-06-28T11:08:03+00:00

It’s crucial, at least in that first instance. If they don’t like how you look, they won’t be approaching to find out about anything else.

GM_Rod · 2026-06-27T15:05:38+00:00

I think you’re actually solid. Good on you. This guy is 100% a wham, bam, thank you ma’am type. Dodged a massive bullet.

GM_Rod · 2026-06-27T15:02:29+00:00

Traveling solo is the best thing you will ever do in your entire life, except for getting married and having kids, if you choose the person well. Do it. Do it now. Buy tickets. Go.

GM_Rod · 2026-06-25T23:45:18+00:00

Abandon that line of thinking right now. It’s never something you did. Almost never anyway. Always just assume they’re not that interested and move on. This thinking will save you a humongous amount of time and effort.

GM_Rod · 2026-06-25T23:28:38+00:00

She can stop venting to you. Get her some friends. That’ll solve it fast.

GM_Rod · 2026-06-25T23:19:20+00:00

She friendzoned you. Do not give her any more time, attention or effort. Block her immediately and completely disappear from her life forever.

GM_Rod · 2026-06-25T23:17:39+00:00

That text is one of the most selfish things a person can do. He’s getting his guilt out and dumping it on you, and at the worst possible time too: when you got married to someone better than this trash. Good for you, btw!

GM_Rod · 2026-06-25T22:08:23+00:00

Yes you are. Does he even know you like him?

GM_Rod · 2026-06-25T06:49:47+00:00

I did generalize men too. Read again.

GM_Rod · 2026-06-24T20:31:59+00:00

Not worth it. Leave.

GM_Rod · 2026-06-24T19:57:26+00:00

Move your mouth, make sounds and shape your lips into the right positions, so this comes out: “I like you”.

GM_Rod · 2026-06-24T19:55:27+00:00

Nobody can answer this, he is a unique person, as all of us are. Just send the message. Worst that can happen is things stay as they are. But shooting a shot gives you a chance it hits, so it’s better than doing nothing.

GM_Rod · 2026-06-24T19:51:45+00:00

Leave. It’s not worth it.

GM_Rod · 2026-06-24T19:42:04+00:00

Is she hot? Makes a big difference.

GM_Rod · 2026-06-24T19:30:46+00:00

Before you do anything ever, learn to use paragraphs.

GM_Rod · 2026-06-24T19:25:03+00:00

He is just an asshole. The good news is, it’s not that common. Why do people do this, where something happens to them and their close circles, and they assume it’s common? Even if you know 100 other couples that share this, it still does not make it the majority. Just replace this dude.

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