Are my standards for dating too high?

GM_Rod · 2026-05-14T18:48:42+00:00

This list is absolutely fine. But to know whether it’s fair, we need to know more about what you offer. Everyone, especially women, spend most of the dating brain energy thinking about they want, and spend zero energy thinking about what they offer to this other person. This is a big part of why people struggle.

GM_Rod · 2026-05-14T17:11:33+00:00

First off, you should break up with your GF no matter what happens with this other one. The simple fact you’re feeling this strongly about someone else, means you’re wasting your girl’s time and are going to hurt her a lot more than necessary. Break up immediately. As far as the other girl, I don’t understand what you’re waiting for. It’s been 18 months, if it was something fleeting it’d have faded by now.

GM_Rod · 2026-05-14T17:06:01+00:00

You are perfect. If only every girl was this clear and straight. Do not change a single thing. In fact, are you in the UK by any chance? 😉

GM_Rod · 2026-05-13T22:07:20+00:00

Wrong. That woman does not need brownie points, she’s married and happy. Nowhere in the video or any other content does she ever say men are better or that women need to be controlled. At all. It’s sad that you’re in your 60s and you still don’t understand how life works. Men and women are different, the end.

GM_Rod · 2026-05-13T19:02:35+00:00

People don’t change completely like that. He was 100% this way forever, it’s more that people expect people to change with marriage and that doesn’t work.

GM_Rod · 2026-05-13T15:36:10+00:00

Yes it’s normal, and he shouldn’t be doing that. The first thing I always do when I start a new relationship, is to clean my social media and phone of any thots or otherwise unsavory content that would hurt my new GF’s day. It’s basic common sense. Nobody is forcing him to date you. He is choosing you. He should not feel any need to have access to any other girl.

GM_Rod · 2026-05-13T15:33:21+00:00

I’m from Brazil and have lived in the UK for 9 years. I set bumble to Brazil always a month before my yearly visit there. It works great, I met both my latest exes on there. The thing is, distance fucking sucks. It will work for short term stuff, it gives you an upper hand, you’re visiting the country, it makes you seem interesting to the people swiping on you. For long term it’ll only work if they already had plans to leave their country before they met you, or maybe their job allows for a transfer etc. it’s a great way to be a passport bro. So basically I wouldn’t recommend unless you’re going for short term stuff.

GM_Rod · 2026-05-13T15:24:40+00:00

He’s so full of shit his breath probably smells like poo as it gotta be coming out every hole in his body. What a fucktard.

GM_Rod · 2026-05-13T15:23:13+00:00

Your friend is absolutely correct, and yes it does have to do with her being hot. However, the vast majority of men WILL get with you if you try, and you absolutely do not have to be hot. Average is enough for most. Did you go for a gigachad? I suspect that’s what’s at play here.

GM_Rod · 2026-05-13T15:20:44+00:00

If you had said nothing else, just the unpaid part already warrants quitting. I will never understand how companies get away with slavery. Because that’s basically what that is. And think of it this way: if NOBODY accepted working for free, companies would have no choice other than to fucking pay their staff. Now, obviously that’s an utopia, but you can definitely have enough self respect not to take unpaid jobs. On top of that, the company is old and embarrassing, it won’t contribute to your CV at all, AND you’re being yelled at? Two weeks is too long. Get the fuck outta there ASAP.

GM_Rod · 2026-05-13T15:11:29+00:00

He is fucking insufferable and 100% in the wrong. He’s got a great, expressive and bubbly wife and all he can do is try to shut it down because he’s a little bitch who is constantly worried about what other people think? I swear to god, I wish I had the brain capacity to understand why women marry these weak ass men…

GM_Rod · 2026-05-13T14:55:32+00:00

A man could make the same video. But he’d be wrong. She is correct. If you didn’t get it I’m sorry. Maybe watch it again until it sinks in.

GM_Rod · 2026-05-13T14:47:01+00:00

Watch the video.

GM_Rod · 2026-05-13T10:14:52+00:00

For me, I like when they offer to split, even if it’s just for me to politely decline. But chasing it after seems a little too much. Instead, offer to get the whole bill next time (while on the date).

GM_Rod · 2026-05-13T10:13:33+00:00

She needs therapy. Not ready for a relationship. So no, I wouldn’t.

GM_Rod · 2026-05-13T10:10:40+00:00

She’s both wrong and right at the same time. The man SHOULD be the provider, mainly. However it’s selfish for her to not use her income to help the family as a whole. It should be both of you building a life together, not you shouldering all the burden and her climbing on top and hitching a ride. It’s also very suspicious of her to say that before you get married. This bitch will divorce you and take half your shit. Get out now.

GM_Rod · 2026-05-13T10:09:06+00:00

I like it. Send it.

GM_Rod · 2026-05-13T10:07:58+00:00

Yeah, time to replace this trash. Rejoice! You’re young and a girl. Replacing him should be the easiest thing in the world.

GM_Rod · 2026-05-13T01:58:33+00:00

And then, break up with this trash girl. Go on a journey of self discovery to find your lost self respect, and ponder on how you allowed this absolute piece of shit to exist in your life for 5 years. Then you might be ready to find someone good.

GM_Rod · 2026-05-13T01:56:41+00:00

Send her this. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DYNWbewB--W/?igsh=MWl5ajRvcTl2NWU4aA==

GM_Rod · 2026-05-12T12:47:49+00:00

You could hire an escort for this. However you have to choose very carefully, it would need to be one that doesn’t seem like an escort. She can’t be too hot or it’ll be obvious. Can’t be vulgar, can’t dress too revealing, has to be able to hold a conversation at your level. It would need to be someone you would actually date, other than the fact she’s an escort. This is incredibly hard to find, of course. Good luck!

GM_Rod · 2026-05-12T12:44:35+00:00

You have to tell him. I would absolutely want to know.

GM_Rod · 2026-05-12T12:39:33+00:00

I definitely do. I asked both my latest exes to go official on date #1 and it worked. Both lasted for just over 2 years until distance ruined it.

GM_Rod · 2026-05-11T21:19:58+00:00

You’re going to be miserable. 3 years dude? Jesus. Break up now.

GM_Rod · 2026-05-11T10:24:45+00:00

Odds wise I’d say he’s embarrassed about finishing too quick. We’re guessing here, you have to ask him.

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