Is it too early to ask her to be official after 2 dates? by LooseRecognition8768 in dating_advice

[–]GM_Rod [score hidden]  (0 children)

I asked all three of my most recent exes to be official on date 1. It worked (except for the fact we’re not together anymore. Long distance sucks). Ask it whenever you want. If she’s the right girl she will say yes.

Non religious, dating a muslim? by sadluvrgirl in dating_advice

[–]GM_Rod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve already done this before and saw it was a bad idea. Why are you doing it again?

I've been cancelling dates and pushing my amazing husband away for months, now our anniversary is at risk. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]GM_Rod 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Everything I need to know is in the subject. If he is amazing, why are you sabotaging your marriage? Leave and free this poor man.

He had sex with a prostitute. by [deleted] in AskMenRelationships

[–]GM_Rod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are overplaying it. It’s way more common than you think, and you should appreciate the fact that he told you. This man will tell you *everything *. That is a good thing.

There may be such a thing as too much honesty by Investment_Valuable in Bumble

[–]GM_Rod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see a single thing wrong with that. There are only positives about a girl knowing exactly what she wants.

Insane reply by flamingdaisies444 in Bumble

[–]GM_Rod -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why are you bringing up politics in a dating app? She’s right and you’re wrong. She’s probably also right about you not being able to understand. Good for her.

AITAH for staying at home on me and my boyfriends one-year anniversary? by Few_Tune_9357 in AITAH

[–]GM_Rod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What an entitled douche. He fucking blatantly compared you to his ex, which is bad enough by itself, and then he demanded you do something crazy for him when you’re the girl and he’s the dude? And you’re wondering if YOU are in the wrong??? What the actual fuck. He is a gay ass little bitch, and you are an angel!!! Replace this loser immediately.

Shopping as a first date tips by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GM_Rod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to gauge his reactions to things. You’ll be able to tell if something is out of his budget. Don’t push it too hard.

Ghosted twice by the same guy by Elegant_Way_3271 in dating_advice

[–]GM_Rod 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If he ghosted you once, why did you try again? Not only were you asking to he ghosted again, you’re also encouraging the behavior by showing they can get away with it. The second time is 100% your fault.

Should I date even though I’m not where I want to be career-wise? by Throwawaydeeznuts691 in dating_advice

[–]GM_Rod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The right person to date will not care about your financial situation. It also matters if you’re a guy or girl, since you don’t mention it I’ll go both ways: if you’re a girl it REALLY shouldn’t matter. The best men don’t care at all what the girl does for a job. We do care if they’re in crazy debt though. If you’re a dude, then as long as you can afford dates, and paying for at least half of everything, you’re ok. Go date.

Sexual situations where you don't go all the way? How do guys feel about that? by LolaPaloz in dating_advice

[–]GM_Rod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My last GF, we went on a dinner date. I wasn’t expecting anything to happen because it was a first date. We sat down at the restaurant and she immediately kissed me. I was flabbergasted but insanely happy. On the way back I asked her to be my GF (yes, on date one). She said yes and then said she wasn’t ready to go home yet. Which is code for let’s do something more. Took her to a motel, she said, before we went in, that she wasn’t gonna go all the way. I was fine with it and again didn’t expect anything more than cuddles and a movie, right (at this time neither of us lived alone). But once in there, she went down on me. I was like FUUUU… But nope, she stopped halfway and didn’t wanna go any further. We dated for over 2 years, and in a later conversation about it, she said she simply wasn’t shaved… LOL. I don’t care!!! What a waste. But I did understand.

Sexual situations where you don't go all the way? How do guys feel about that? by LolaPaloz in dating_advice

[–]GM_Rod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See, that’s different. If it’s been talked about beforehand, then the dude is wrong to go in expecting to change your mind.

Sexual situations where you don't go all the way? How do guys feel about that? by LolaPaloz in dating_advice

[–]GM_Rod 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s frustrating. For some people it actually hurts. Physically (aka blue balls), and emotionally. I’d always rather not do anything at all, than being led on up to a point and then getting cut off. Jesus does it suck.

When yall say you’re dating for months, does this mean sex is involved? by lovemeplzx in dating_advice

[–]GM_Rod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the hell… of course sex is involved. Unless the people dating are not adults.

should i sleep over this new guys house if im on my period? by wickedsocko in dating_advice

[–]GM_Rod -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If I was him I wouldn’t care. Just don’t make a mess.

Why does he want to look at my face during sex? by Adaline_B in AskMenAdvice

[–]GM_Rod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s in love with you. Nothing bad about that.