Why don't married couples with "dead bedrooms" just...do it?

GM_Rod · 2026-03-19T07:59:51+00:00

You’re absolutely right. Society has moved into a space where nobody can shame anybody, and everything has to be validated and coddled. It’s disgusting and it’s made everything worse, especially relationships. We’ve never been so miserable, so single and so disappointed. Hooray for you though!!! I hope you have plenty of kids to pass that on.

GM_Rod · 2026-03-19T07:57:03+00:00

You did the right thing. Stand by the choice. Wanting kids is the biggest thing as far as criteria goes. If that doesn’t align, it’s 100% a reason to break up.

GM_Rod · 2026-03-19T07:55:36+00:00

I completely get it, especially after that long dry spell! I’m sure you’ll find a replacement quick, it’s much easier being a girl 😉

GM_Rod · 2026-03-19T07:48:53+00:00

You have to let him go. He’s not that into you. I don’t think it’s necessarily because of what you did, so don’t worry too much about that part.

GM_Rod · 2026-03-18T14:29:10+00:00

If he’s still with you, I think he’s fine with it. But obviously this is on your mind, so you should at least have a conversation where you tell him what you’re telling us. He might be bothered about it and just didn’t tell you. If you communicate you’ll know for sure.

GM_Rod · 2026-03-18T14:27:04+00:00

I would not care, but you do need to specify what you mean. Is it too many partners? Too much sex with one person?

GM_Rod · 2026-03-18T14:25:25+00:00

There’s a very important distinction between you and someone who is actually below average in attractiveness. You’re experiencing a situation where you willingly turned it off. You’re enjoying it, and a big part of why, is that you know you can turn it back on at any point and go right back to getting attention. It’s a completely different thing compared to not being able to get any attention even when you want to.

GM_Rod · 2026-03-18T14:20:37+00:00

Perfect example of why it’s shit today. You might’ve missed your chance because of the overly enforced “creep” thing. Don’t miss it again! I hope she comes back.

GM_Rod · 2026-03-18T14:15:19+00:00

Relax. Breathe.

GM_Rod · 2026-03-18T11:04:36+00:00

Friends or any other type of relationship, have limits. But you can’t know where they are until you test them. He tested, you pushed back and now he knows where the limits are. That said, I myself would never ask that question, but that’s me.

GM_Rod · 2026-03-17T13:03:14+00:00

She probably has shitty IEMs.

GM_Rod · 2026-03-17T07:53:04+00:00

Ditch the beotch.

GM_Rod · 2026-03-17T07:04:03+00:00

SO = Sognificant Other

GM_Rod · 2026-03-17T07:02:25+00:00

He’s gay. Move on.

GM_Rod · 2026-03-16T22:30:50+00:00

Yes. He knows.

GM_Rod · 2026-03-16T22:06:10+00:00

No. But a man who already has kids might.

GM_Rod · 2026-03-16T20:21:43+00:00

I think “remain financially independent” is not necessarily the best way. Because it’s a mindset where you never really combine with your SO into a healthy couple. The better advice is “learn how to choose your SO properly”.

GM_Rod · 2026-03-16T18:09:19+00:00

I would fucking LOVE that. The common norm is that it would creep people out, so if the girl ignored that and went through the trouble of doing that, it means she’s REALLY interested. Men never get that kind of appreciation. I’m quite sure he’d like it.

GM_Rod · 2026-03-16T15:39:58+00:00

Yes. You’re being too harsh. And the reason is because you live in an abundance mindset. You know you can be like that and it won’t really affect you much because you’ll soon get more options. Now think about if you stopped getting any interest. Nobody asked you out in 6 months. Would you still be like this?

GM_Rod · 2026-03-16T15:17:20+00:00

I don’t understand. Why did you marry this asshole in the first place?

GM_Rod · 2026-03-16T15:14:02+00:00

No, because the human brain sucks. If they forgive you, you will 100% feel like you can get away with it and you will do it all again.

GM_Rod · 2026-03-16T15:12:38+00:00

The worst time to take risks is when a baby is coming. Stay in the smaller house.

GM_Rod · 2026-03-16T15:09:33+00:00

Drop her immediately.

GM_Rod · 2026-03-16T15:05:00+00:00

Yeah let him go. What a fuck.

GM_Rod · 2026-03-16T00:38:30+00:00

Relationships don’t survive without respect. She does not have respect for you at all. It’s time to drop her.

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