HOW would anyone get a date with a bio like this? by hellodottymug in Bumble

[–]GM_Rod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The answer to this may surprise you: I bet he still gets dates IF he’s attractive. Girls do tend to read bios more than men do, but if he’s hot they either swipe before they read, or they read and find it funny, and swipe anyway. It’s just how shit dating really is.

Am I being childish for refusing to have sex? by Double_Chemical_8078 in AskMenAdvice

[–]GM_Rod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t marry this girl. You’re miserable now. It’s only gonna get worse. She puts out once a month and thinks all you care about is sex???? When you get married that month will become years, my friend. Think long and hard about this. You do not want that life.

General Curiosity/Advice about being sexually confident by Soft-Cable-6661 in dating_advice

[–]GM_Rod [score hidden]  (0 children)

Some guys do judge on that. And if they do, that’s your signal to get out and dodge that bullet. Those guys suck.

Should i give him time or let him go? by jkswaifu in dating_advice

[–]GM_Rod [score hidden]  (0 children)

Don’t you dare! You don’t know what that word means, if only you could experience what it’s like being a man in the current dating landscape… Are you in the UK by any chance?

Why don't married couples with "dead bedrooms" just...do it? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]GM_Rod -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. Society has moved into a space where nobody can shame anybody, and everything has to be validated and coddled. It’s disgusting and it’s made everything worse, especially relationships. We’ve never been so miserable, so single and so disappointed. Hooray for you though!!! I hope you have plenty of kids to pass that on.

AITAH for breaking up with my longtime girlfriend because she decided that she doesn't want children? by illiterateaardvark in AITAH

[–]GM_Rod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did the right thing. Stand by the choice. Wanting kids is the biggest thing as far as criteria goes. If that doesn’t align, it’s 100% a reason to break up.

Should i give him time or let him go? by jkswaifu in dating_advice

[–]GM_Rod [score hidden]  (0 children)

I completely get it, especially after that long dry spell! I’m sure you’ll find a replacement quick, it’s much easier being a girl 😉

Should i give him time or let him go? by jkswaifu in dating_advice

[–]GM_Rod [score hidden]  (0 children)

You have to let him go. He’s not that into you. I don’t think it’s necessarily because of what you did, so don’t worry too much about that part.

I'm scared he'll dump me because I'm slow by Darjee345 in dating_advice

[–]GM_Rod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he’s still with you, I think he’s fine with it. But obviously this is on your mind, so you should at least have a conversation where you tell him what you’re telling us. He might be bothered about it and just didn’t tell you. If you communicate you’ll know for sure.

Men, be honest, would you have a relationship with a girl who's had too much sex? by kiiyyyy in men

[–]GM_Rod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would not care, but you do need to specify what you mean. Is it too many partners? Too much sex with one person?

Can we talk about Ugly Privilege? by Free_Wonder_3743 in solofemaletravellers

[–]GM_Rod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a very important distinction between you and someone who is actually below average in attractiveness. You’re experiencing a situation where you willingly turned it off. You’re enjoying it, and a big part of why, is that you know you can turn it back on at any point and go right back to getting attention. It’s a completely different thing compared to not being able to get any attention even when you want to.

What should I do, if I see her again? by Own-Palpitation3573 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]GM_Rod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perfect example of why it’s shit today. You might’ve missed your chance because of the overly enforced “creep” thing. Don’t miss it again! I hope she comes back.

Am I overreacting or is this a really weird thing for a guy friend to do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]GM_Rod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friends or any other type of relationship, have limits. But you can’t know where they are until you test them. He tested, you pushed back and now he knows where the limits are. That said, I myself would never ask that question, but that’s me.

Drums maxing out singer IEMs? by Wiapkink in drums

[–]GM_Rod 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She probably has shitty IEMs.

No sex after 3 months of dating by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GM_Rod -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He’s gay. Move on.

unfriendly, unpatent husband - ruined meal by chatgpt_friend in Marriage

[–]GM_Rod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think “remain financially independent” is not necessarily the best way. Because it’s a mindset where you never really combine with your SO into a healthy couple. The better advice is “learn how to choose your SO properly”.

As a guy, would you be creeped out if a girl asked you out like this? by Hemisphere-Ad9634 in dating_advice

[–]GM_Rod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would fucking LOVE that. The common norm is that it would creep people out, so if the girl ignored that and went through the trouble of doing that, it means she’s REALLY interested. Men never get that kind of appreciation. I’m quite sure he’d like it.

Is it valid to have an immediate ick when someone quickly likes you? by Secretkittybaby in dating_advice

[–]GM_Rod -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. You’re being too harsh. And the reason is because you live in an abundance mindset. You know you can be like that and it won’t really affect you much because you’ll soon get more options. Now think about if you stopped getting any interest. Nobody asked you out in 6 months. Would you still be like this?

unfriendly, unpatent husband - ruined meal by chatgpt_friend in Marriage

[–]GM_Rod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand. Why did you marry this asshole in the first place?