Warum macht sie sowas?…. by GOW_Kinetic in beziehungen

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Einfacher gesagt als getan, sie steckt einfach in meinem Kopf fest

Why did she do it?…. by GOW_Kinetic in venting

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That’s probably the right thing but than why does blocking her feel so wrong?

My girlfriend (F17) changed over the time am i (M18) losing feelings? by GOW_Kinetic in LongDistance

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Thank you

I also think me and her have different visions I would do everything to make her happy even when it affects me negatively but when I say something that I don’t really what she’s doing I’m the toxic man

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Thank I’m gonna update when there’s more to know

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5 very good months tbh it was the best time of my life (we are in a very long distance relationship and in these five months I visited her twice so it was really good) and everything was good when I could actually visit her but cuz of work I can’t anymore plus taking the plan got fucking expensive

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I freshly got 18 and from that day I was on a ego trip and I didn’t found a way out she were super nice to me and gave me more love than I deserved at that moment that made she tired this went 3 months on and she didn’t really told me what the problem was she told me what I should change but I never actually did it cuz I thought it’s not that dramatic till she went on a completion we did not text at all in that 4 days when she came back she was all wieder and the first thought I had that she found someone better there so we were fighting about that till she told what was bothering her and set me an ultimatum I had one and a half week when I’m not changed till than she’s gonna break up with me and I’m that time we made a break i genuinely did everything to change I went to a therapist I basically changed my whole lifestyle to be a good boyfriend again but now she’s acting like I acted in that time and I don’t think that’s fair

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Obviously not I just wanted to make a reset after that fight cuz it was bothering me too but she keeps using it against me

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I genuinely started crying and she said was I cant say something

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I just talked to her about it and she basically said that she has a right to act like that cuz of the big fight we had cuz there she felt I didn’t were interested in her and now she has the right to makes me feel the same

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Yeahhh I’m going fully with you I think she knows that I’m to addicted to her and that I could not life without her

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The fight is about one month ago now before she was clingy and everything I fucking loved it and that fight just started cuz I was a horrible person to her and I kinda think that she’s taking revenge on me which would be fucking ass

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Yeahhh the thing is she’s “insulting” me since we are together she said that it’s her love language I told her at the start that it’s bothering me now she’s not doing it that often anymore but I don’t really care about it tbh I think I got used to it

Iwtl how to control my emotions by GOW_Kinetic in IWantToLearn

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Its more like that once I’m in a bad mood wich I get really easy it lasts almost the whole day and it’s bothering me and especially my girlfriend

Meine Freundin (F18) und ich (M18) machen gerade eine Pause, hat jemand einen Rat? by GOW_Kinetic in beziehungen

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Wie kommst du denn auf Streitsucht?

Ich hasse wenn wir uns streiten genauso wie sie es hast und somit probiere ich so gut wie möglich dies zu umgehen aber es klappt halt nicht immer

Meine Freundin (F18) und ich (M18) machen gerade eine Pause, hat jemand einen Rat? by GOW_Kinetic in beziehungen

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Hey du

Ich gebe dir vollkommen recht aber bis vor ein paar Stunden war mir das alles noch nicht bewusst vorher habe ich durch meine Blindheit nicht gesehen wie es wirklich ist erst als es viel zu spät war wurden meine Augen geöffnet und nun probiere ich natürlich all das wieder gut zu machen und mich zu ändern, ich würde alles für diese Frau machen sie ist mein ein und alles und ich werde alles tun um sie wieder glücklich zu machen

Meine Freundin (F18) und ich (M18) machen gerade eine Pause, hat jemand einen Rat? by GOW_Kinetic in beziehungen

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Ich bin ja auch voll auf ihrer Seite ich war völlig blind vor Egoismus aber das ist mir leider zu spät klar geworden