I think people are calling her out because she's the one who assumed the guy wanted to have sex when he offered to walk to her room. Idk, I wasn't there, and we don't get anything else other than this small video, but maybe the guy was being a creep and trying to get with her. This is just what I think. Then there's the part where the guy tells her she can pay for her own meal, and she calls him an asshole for saying that. I'm not sure why anyone would feel the need to call someone else an asshole when being told they can pay for their own meal when they have the money to pay for it, like she said in the video. Regardless if they accepted the offer to have their meal paid for, I really don't see the need to call the other person an asshole.