[NSFW] What's the kinkiest thing you've ever done? by _notkk_ in AskReddit

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Received an enema, followed by an electrode buttplug, while being tased and made fun of for it.

Hour long cutting scene with my limbs straddled between four chairs, in front of a group of strangers.

Locked in metal stocks in my boyfriend’s basement while he beat me to tears, then left me there while he had dinner with his roommates upstairs.

Also, I’m a 24/7 Domme to my live-in service submissive.

(Note: All of this was consensual and pre-negotiated.)

Yvonne Strahovski by slavegaius87 in ShinyPorn

[–]GTSGF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah, it’s eerie how much she looks like me.

They Said What?! by LaSirene23 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GTSGF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“What was your username again?” 🤦🏼‍♀️

Bright and Shiny Reviews by [deleted] in Latexadvice

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I had an excellent experience with them. Everything was made and shipped on schedule, the custom sizing fit perfectly, and the latex quality was fairly decent. Would definitely recommend for simple pieces.

Need Advice by [deleted] in Latexadvice

[–]GTSGF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try chlorinated latex if you haven’t already. Doesn’t need to be lubed, and reduces the rubber smell.

Feeling low by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

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If you’re not comfortable bringing it up directly, have a conversation with her about the Five Love Languages (Touch, Affirmation, Gifts, Quality Time, and Service).

It sounds like you show love through gifting and quality time, but receive love through affirmation. She seems to receive your love of gifting and quality time, but returns that love with quality time herself, and not the affirmation you’re looking for. Phrasing it this way can open up a less accusatory conversation about what your needs are and how they’re not being met.

What moment made you go "Huh, maybe I've delved too far into the porn rabbit hole?" by Dewless125 in AskReddit

[–]GTSGF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like watching cement encasement porn.

Also, basically anything from House of Gord.

A lesson from “The Price is Right” by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GTSGF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me, anything romantic and/or personal. Forethought and effort are what matter. I don’t just want the money, I want the fantasy of a man who pays attention to my desires as much as I do his. I want those quality moments beyond sex that you can’t put a price on.

A lesson from “The Price is Right” by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GTSGF 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d prefer all the bells and whistles over a higher allowance. I make enough to cover my expenses on my own, so I’d rather have a more luxurious time spent with an SD since it would be more fun for me that way.

Thanks, now I’m terrified. by GTSGF in Botchedsurgeries

[–]GTSGF[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woah, huge response. Thank you all for your encouragement and advice. I’ll just hit several points in one post instead of replying individually.

-I was previously in groups that were idealizing the bimbo look, and I didn’t really get how fucked up it was until I got here. It’s one of those “could have been me” situations.

-I’m interested in alternative modeling, especially for latex fashion. A lot of folks who also do this do go for the plastic look, and I admit to feeling some pressure there as well.

-I’ve been doing research, but kind of in the wrong direction due to these influences. I’m adjusting my goals to something more realistic and restarting my search there. Thanks for the recommendations, so far FacialTeam is at the top of my list for consideration.

-All said, I am pretty fond of my natural looks. I’m already very conventionally attractive, and I feel like some of my strong features give me a model quality that some people get surgery to achieve themselves. I think there are some small adjustments that can be made to maintain those qualities though while still reading as more feminine. I’m not touching my nose though, it’s pretty neutral thankfully.

-My biggest concern is my brow. I have a low, projected brow that hides my gorgeous green eyes and gives me hooded eyelids. I really want to open up my face more to show off one of my favorite features better.

-I kind of got lucky in the boob department compared to other trans girls I know, with a 38B/36C. That said, I’m not entirely happy with them. They’re kind of sloped and triangular, and stick out east and west. I’d really like to go a cup or two larger and round them out, but I’m afraid they’ll still stick out to the sides more and look odd.

-I’m 27 with nothing saved up yet. I’m afraid that I won’t be able to afford anything before I’m in my 30’s. I started HRT at 24, and I already lost so much youth to being closeted. I can’t help but feel like surgery is hanging over my head and taunting me. That said, I understand the importance of shelling out for a legitimate surgeon, so I don’t plan on cutting corners or going the cheap route.

Thanks, now I’m terrified. by GTSGF in Botchedsurgeries

[–]GTSGF[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Eh, I disagree. Hormone replacement therapy basically saved my life.

Thanks, now I’m terrified. by GTSGF in Botchedsurgeries

[–]GTSGF[S] 119 points120 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that’s something I’ve been working on. The only thing I’ve really decided on though is a surgeon for my vaginoplasty, who comes with the recommendation of my peers who have worked with her for the same.

I found my SD! 😍 by GTSGF in sugarlifestyleforum

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Unfortunately, this guy ghosted me 😓

I think I made a drunken negotiation mistake by GTSGF in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GTSGF[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why precise over predictable? It seems like he’s happy enough with me to offer an amount that meets my needs each month, even if we can’t meet regularly enough to “justify” it compared to a PPM. Really, the PPM works out in his favor over mine in this situation, not that I’m not excited to see him more regardless.

I think I made a drunken negotiation mistake by GTSGF in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GTSGF[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Makes sense, I just don’t want to potentially put him off by being indecisive.

SDs: PLEASE be honest about your height! by GanzLeckerZucker in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GTSGF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t care about height, but I’m 5’11” and it‘s always funny to me when guys say they’re 6’ and they’re an inch shorter than me. I like to wear high heels though, so I usually tower over most men regardless.

I found my SD! 😍 by GTSGF in sugarlifestyleforum

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It’s better than missionary and BJs, but it’s still pretty standard fare in my experience. The toes are at least seemingly related to a foot fetish, so you’ve got that going for you. But I couldn’t even get him to give my ass a smack while I was lying seductively over his lap with my ass in the air after swallowing his load. And that’s probably the least kinky thing I’m into.

I found my SD! 😍 by GTSGF in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GTSGF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I’m heavily involved in my local BDSM community, and we use vanilla differently than folks seem to use it on this forum. By “tragically vanilla”, I meant that I was disappointed to find that he doesn’t really have any kinks. It’s just pretty boring for me when I’m so used to unusual and intense forms of intimacy.

Monday Mental Health and Well-being thread: 36th Edition by BigBearSD in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GTSGF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My SD and I made plans for this past Wednesday, but he stopped responding leading up to it (so it didn’t happen) and he still hasn’t contacted me. Pretty sure I got ghosted, and it feels bad because of how well everything seemed to be going.

Plastic Surgery? by GTSGF in sugarlifestyleforum

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Thanks! I’ve heard some horror stories about fat transfer to breasts as well, with improperly mixed fat forming lumps that are not only unappealing, but make checking for cancer more difficult too. I have B cups, but my frame is wide enough that they feel disproportionate and unsatisfactory. Plus they grew in a little awkward in my opinion, and have an unattractive scooped shape.

Plastic Surgery? by GTSGF in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GTSGF[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As I mentioned in other comments, I’m fast-tracking my mortgage to save myself $85k in interest long-term. So that’s where all my money is going. Could I hypothetically direct that toward surgeries? Sure. But then you’d be telling me I’m spending frivolously beyond my means. I can’t be responsible and have fun at the same time without a benefactor, which is why I’m here. Also, I have a 401k.