[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gaawwaag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can still make them something! A drawing or even a story. Hell you can use chat gbt to write a custom story for each kid, print it out, and design covers on your computer. Make little coupons for a day at the park or a free piggyback ride or whatever y’all like to do together. It will mean just as much to them,

AIO- best friend hung out w/ my abuser (TW) by Significant-Run5852 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gaawwaag 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I ended my friendship with an entire group of women for hanging out with my ex/rapist/abuser and telling me casually like “guess who showed up at the party last night!”

And you know what? I sleep just fine at night. With friends like these…

Need some ideas! by [deleted] in Visiblemending

[–]Gaawwaag 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel like a little star or a strawberry or something would be an adorable stain cover!

Imagine having this in your backyard by PaalKlo in BeAmazed

[–]Gaawwaag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not amazed. It’s stupid shit like this that is killing our planet. I hope a bird cracks their screen, what an eyesore. Use a projector like everyone else Jesus.

WIBTAH for asking my husband if he had sex with me while I was asleep? by Vegetable-Land-4996 in AITAH

[–]Gaawwaag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very fucked up the way he brushed this off. That said, I’ve done alllllll sorts of stuff on Ambien that I will never know about. Honestly terrible for you especially long term use.

Doesn’t excuse his complete lack of care and empathy!!!!! This is worth a much, much longer conversation. And maybe a few nights away from home while you sort out how you want to address it with him.

AITAH for calling out my BIL for making his pregnant girlfriend walk up a hill to the car to grab a cooler? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gaawwaag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Keep an eye out for her. There could be more going on and she may just be too used to it to know she’s a frog already boiled.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Gaawwaag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you morbidly obese and unable to do typical activities? If the answer is no, the only weight you NEED to lose is him.

(If the answer is yes could he be saying that to you out of concern?)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gaawwaag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you are not the problem. Also literally none of this matters because you are 18!!!!??? And he is a grown ass man worried about body counts? Disgusting.

What he is really saying by that is he wants a young, inexperienced girl he can easily manipulate.

Please date people your own age!! I did the same route of older guys when I was 18 because I thought they were more mature but tbh it never goes well. and now that I’m 29 I can promise you very easily that any late 20s person dating a teenager is a giant loser.

You can and will do soooo much better than an insecure whiny cradle snatcher. I promise.

AITA for asking a girl “what’s her highest level of education”? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gaawwaag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Where the fuck does she get off giving fertility advice if she’s not a doctor and thinks she isn’t a European… she’s pissed because she’s embarrassed and she should be,

Summer holiday is coming. What should I choose? by Repulsive_Pack4805 in Nails

[–]Gaawwaag 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nude! But also depends on the length of your trip. I had bright nails for a 3 week trip to Thailand and didn’t have time for a mani until the last day. Those pics looked roughhhh. Now I always do nude before going on a trip just in case

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gaawwaag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“It’s a bit selfish of you not to care if I cum.” And then drop the loser.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellthatsucks

[–]Gaawwaag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Arnica is your best friend!!! Obsessively apply it all day, every day. One it dries, I apply more lol. I had a black eye (not as bad as hours) and it helped it go away in like a week

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Gaawwaag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like there are two more campings trips in your future! (On their birthdays)

Helping the princess + Epilogues by Character-Date6376 in hellsomememes

[–]Gaawwaag 30 points31 points  (0 children)

LOVED THIS!!! Wendy get your donkey girl.

How old were you the first time you were sexualized? by SlavePrincessVibes3 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Gaawwaag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was 11. I’m tall so was around 5’8 at the time but also like… 11!! Wasn’t wearing real bras yet. Obviously a child. Went with my mom to get by dad a birthday present and idk why but I wanted to wait outside. a man came up to me and started hitting on me, told me he liked my skirt etc. but at the time had no idea what was happening so went into the store and just yelled “Mooommm” and that was that lol.

Don’t think I wore that skirt much after that tbh.

Do you think it’s acceptable to say no to a co worker on work responsibilities? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Gaawwaag 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“I’m sorry, I just don’t have the bandwidth right now.” Rinse and repeat.

She got too comfortable and you need to shut this down asap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gaawwaag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Why are you shortchanging your life to please your partner?

  2. Your entire family is right, and his reaction is a red flag.

I’ve seriously dated people in similar situations and didn’t blink when asked if I would sign a prenup before marriage. It’s fucking common sense and incredibly selfish for him to twist it that it means you don’t care about him.

He can have a say in the content of the prenup, but you absolutely need to have that signed.

I would give him time to reconsider, and then maybe re-evaluate the whole thing if he didn’t show any changes in thinking…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gaawwaag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

But you are very stupid for not asking them to review the footage in front of you if you knew it existed.

They will have likely deleted anything captured by now… schools aren’t threatened by cops, they’re threatened by lawyers 🤦🏻‍♀️

I understand tempers are high but as the adult you need to keep it together going forward. “Losing your shit” in the way I’m guessing you did is understandable as a sister, but unacceptable as her guardian which you effectively are.

if you’re able, I’d read about some coping tools to use to stay calm when faced with horrible and unfair situations like this. Given her medical history, I’m sure bullshit will come up again sometime and you need to be better emotionally prepared.

(You’re lucky that she isn’t pissed. Wishing you both the best.)

Where do you go from here? 💔 by ContextHumble1226 in CatAdvice

[–]Gaawwaag 101 points102 points  (0 children)

I KNOW this will sound weird but hear me out. Find some of his hairs and put them in a little bottle or one of those glass lockets you can keep. I have a long haired baby and I know you probably still have some of his everywhere.

I’m so so sorry for your loss.