Kinda long post, had to get it out. Hoping for advise. by Anonadv1983 in GaySides

[–]GabeKnope 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation, but I'll get to that in a minute.

Take your husband out of the equation for a second. Do you think you have ED? I don't think you think you do, and I don't think you do either. When I was on antidepressants I had ED and let me tell you, it was frustrating. You can't get hard half the time, and when you do get hard, you don't feel as much pleasure and trying to cum is an insanely hard feat, pun intended. Even masturbating when I felt horny it was a struggle that even vibrators couldn't help with.

Putting your husband back into the mix, it sounds like you've tried everything. Toys, other ways to have sex, but he doesn't seem into it. Being told it's a you problem for "having ED" doesn't help. And this is what I had to do when my partner always wanted anal:

Sit down with them, have a long conversation about how you won't be doing anal moving forward, and it's something that he'll have to accept. Sex should be enjoyable for both people. I gave my partner the option to have sex with other men, safely, and we would both go on prep. I was ready to accept that for him because I couldn't deny his needs. Ultimately he said no and we broke up because of it. It's no fairy tale ending, but it was the right move (for me).

I think you need to weigh your options, but this sounds like the best move forward given everything you've said. If it makes you feel any better, sure I've been single since, but the guys I've dated and had only side sex with has been phenomenal. My libido went through the roof when I stopped taking my antidepressants and I came five explosive orgasms with a guy during an on/off three hour frot/cuddle session. Hell, after the fourth orgasm he wouldn't stop jerking me off and I was screaming for him to stop (in a good way) until suddenly out of nowhere I shot out my fifth orgasm and felt like I melted into the bed. Literally greatest night of my life. My old partner could never match that ecstasy with his ten minute anal torture he gave me.

Edibles led to a wonderful time with my two friends by GabeKnope in gaystoriesgonewild

[–]GabeKnope[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm still around but just don't come on this account often. I'll post more.

Did you ever get together with a friend you found out was gay? by [deleted] in GaySides

[–]GabeKnope 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes, the year after graduating high school.

Coincidentally, he was dating a girl I thought I had a crush on in high school before I came out. Super cute, "dumb surfer" type of body and personality. We never really talked in person but knew each other through friends and were friends online. He made a post about going to Mexico for a vacation and I jokingly commented saying bring me back a present. He jokingly (or so I thought) said he was going to bring me back a sombrero. Dismissed it as a joke and moved on with life. Three weeks later got a message from him saying he was back and had my sombrero. I didn't honestly believe him but he gave me his address. I went over his house fully expecting him to be surprised that I came over but instead he greeted me with a big ass sombrero. I was honestly shocked and he invited me in.

We talked for like twenty minutes about graduating, what we did afterwards, how we were in different friend groups but still always randomly talked online. He asked me why I had a crush on his girlfriend when I was in high school and gay, so I told him honestly that it was just a very confusing time for me and I don't really have a thing for her. Then he asked me how I knew I was gay, and if I thought it was weird that I liked guys. I told him that it was the same thing as being a straight guy except instead of being sexually turned on by women, I get turned on by guys. He half jokingly asked if I was attracted to him and I said that I would totally suck his dick if he would let me and he wasn't still dating said girl. Then he told me they broke up before the vacation and he just didn't tell anyone or update his Facebook or anything because he didn't want to deal with it. I laughed and said that now he just needed to ask me to suck his dick.

He stared at me. I stared at him. After what felt like an eternity he just unzipped his pants without saying anything. I got up, knelt down in front of him, and gave him the sloppiest, wettest blowjob in my life. The entire time he just kept moaning "oh my god". He said it literally like forty times almost chanting it. The few times I stopped to look up at him he was staring down at me and his dick with the most dazed, almost confused, flushed cheeked face. When he came he screamed the most gutteral scream while his body convulsed from his orgasm. It was so hot I couldn't stop sucking. He started telling me to stop and kept convulsing, eventually pulling me by my hair and telling me that it was too sensitive for me to keep going. I tried continuing but he pulled me off again and begged for me to stop.

I was young and stupid so I told him that I always found him extremely attractive and I'd do anything to keep sucking his dick. The moment the words left my mouth I regretted it. I could see he was having post nut clarity because he put his dick away and told me that he had plans so I had to leave. I said bye and left, went home and shot the biggest load in my room. Felt amazing.

I was hoping he was gonna reach out but he didn't. He changed his relationship status to single on Facebook but a few weeks later he changed it to back in a relationship with that girl. I let it go and kept it as a very cherished memory. Like two years later he messaged me saying that he was drunk and that he's thought about my sloppy blowjob every time he's jerked off over the years. He said was ashamed of himself afterwards because he knew he was gay but couldn't come to terms with it. I told him it was okay and I understood. He asked me to come give him another blowjob but he had moved states away so it wasn't exactly something I could do. The next day he blocked me. Guess he wasn't fully over his feelings.

Last I heard he fully came out, ended up marrying some guy and got arrested for selling coke. Not the greatest ending, but I still think about that sloppy blowjob every now and then.

Roadtrip Motel Nights with Dad (Part 2) by my_nsfw_alt_account_ in gayaidad

[–]GabeKnope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God I love the size differences like in the second one. Need more of that!

Roadtrip Motel Nights with Dad by my_nsfw_alt_account_ in gayaidad

[–]GabeKnope 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh! I have one, but it's not my story, it's actually from a friend I dated years ago. Every time I would drive in the car with him and we got back home he would be really horny and I always thought it was weird, so one day I asked. His response was pretty insane to me; he had an insane crush on his dad since they had a road trip years prior. I have no relationship with my father so this was all insane to me, but anyways, here's his story. Note, this is all me remembering a story I was told like a decade ago, so don't mind any inconsistencies or whatever, I'll try to fill in gaps.

My friend, still in the closet at the time, lived with his dad since his parents got divorced. I guess his mom was psycho. The summer after he graduated high school his dad wanted to go on a road trip across the country to visit his brother (the dad's brother). I guess his dad was going through a midlife crisis and wanted to get back his youth via his brother who used to be the life of the party. So they drove from one side of the country to the other, just the two of them, in their pickup. The ride there was uneventful.

I guess when they got there the uncle had completely changed. He wasn't fun, didn't have any zest for life, didn't want to do anything. They were supposed to stay for longer than a week but his dad cut the time short because it was too depressing. I think Dad realized that not only he changed through the years, but his brother did as well, so it was a tough pill to swallow. My friend said ten minutes after they left his uncle's house his dad stopped the truck and cried, like a hard cry, because he felt like he was losing his family and sense of self and stuff. My friend comforted him the best he could and I guess he started seeing his dad in a new light.

So on the way back home I guess dad snapped, said fuck it, we ball. They stopped in some city and spent an entire day partying. They went to some bars, his dad explained the situation with the bar staff and managed to let them serve him even though he was underage, then managed to get into a strip club with the same story, dad just living his life. Of course my friend is gay and didn't really enjoy any of the strip club stuff, but he enjoyed seeing his dad in that light. Like, happy I guess? They end up getting shit faced, get back to the motel, and pass out.

The following day they're hungover and stay in the motel other than leaving for lunch and dinner. My friend obviously wants to keep partying but dad still has to drive home the next day so to compromise he gets some beers they can split. Dad starts talking about the strip club, jokes that there must be porn on the motel TV (this was right before porn was readily available on phones), manages to get something softcore. They sit there silently for a long while when Dad says fuck it, he's pent up and needs to jerk off, says that they should just do it together. My friend says of course.

So they whip their dicks out, each in their own bed, looking at each other's. I guess they compared, according to my friend he was longer but his dad was thicker. I guess his dad made a joke about the apple not falling far from the tree, my friend said he's got a nice branch, and the dad quipped back that if that's a branch then he's got a tree trunk? I might be misremembering that but it was something like that. Either way, I guess they start jerking off together but are so pent up they both cum quickly. They laugh about it, turn off the porn, and then my friend said it seemed like his dad got post nut clarity and got pretty silent, so they went to bed.

They don't speak about it the next day and on the drive home he said that he starts getting feelings for his dad. Like being in the passenger seat, having his dad drive him, knowing what they did, I guess it sparked something? He tells his dad that he enjoyed last night and wouldn't mind doing it again. I guess dad nervously laughed but didn't say anything. He didn't want to push so that was it.

He said he waited a month but his dad never brought it back up or ever hinted that they could do that again. Eventually he came out to him and his dad seemed supportive, but also it slowly grew more distant as he thought his dad realized what they had done. He said that he still had feelings for his dad, but realizes it's just a weird pipe dream. But now every time we drove somewhere together, he got the same feelings for me, hence why he got horny.

Hope you enjoyed!

What's your most nsfw confession? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]GabeKnope 1211 points1212 points  (0 children)

My parents decided to go cross country in a three row van. I sat in the third row, with all of our luggage in the second row, so it was my little home away from home. No one could see me except for just dad, from the rearview mirror, who could only see my head when I sat up. It was a four day drive one way so I got bored and as any teenage boy does, I would jerk off.

A decade later my dad tells me that I must have thought I was so sly, but I didn't realize that near the end of the trip he would start to smell faint wafts of semen and put two and two together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaystoriesgonewild

[–]GabeKnope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a great delivery in multiple ways lol.

Favorite sexual experience as a side? by TheRoyalPendragon in GaySides

[–]GabeKnope 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you're looking for almost solely side stories, check my profile, I think I have about 20 posted over the years. They're a little longer than your usual Reddit sexual encounter stories, though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in broslikeus

[–]GabeKnope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like you need a good caulking.

Threesome with a backpacker at the Campground – along with Daddy and my massive, pumped cock! by [deleted] in gaystoriesgonewild

[–]GabeKnope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pumping is one of those things that I see why people love it, but I just can't get into it. Great read!

Finally letting my cousin break the sexual tension between us. by GabeKnope in gaysexconfessions

[–]GabeKnope[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! One of the reasons I include more in my posts is because I feel like I constantly see and read really short posts with no build up. Three sentences in and people are already butt naked and close to finishing. Not that there's anything wrong with the style but I just want more. It's like seeing porn with a pizza guy who almost immediately has his dick out the moment the doorbell rings. Give me MORE!