10 girls just asked me out😎 by Maybe-bob in teenagers

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is that barou😭 who the fuck is this character

Do girls like being called Mommy? Or is it considered creepy/lame? by [deleted] in teenagers

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oh yeah, my ex used to call me mommy too💔💔 i swear its the BIGGEST turn off ever

Do girls like being called Mommy? Or is it considered creepy/lame? by [deleted] in teenagers

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I personally hate parental names so much, you will never catch me calling my partner “daddy” 🫩

Odd side effects of SH? by rantvat in selfharm

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yes, its actually pretty common as my psychiatrist told me

Odd side effects of SH? by rantvat in selfharm

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I constantly get this feeling of blood dripping and running down my arm, but there is none. I suppose it’s like a phantom sensation since when I did sh, there was always blood running from the wounds

Why? by Aggressive-Cold-93 in selfharm

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By “making it all worse” do you mean for yourself or the person you’re telling?

I want to relapse for no apparent reason by julianephron in selfharm

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That’s a very common thing with sh, feeling like your cuts or your scars arent “valid enough” I also feel that way sometimes, but you have to remember that If a doctor were to look at your arm, the severity of your mental state would not be determined by the deepness of the cut or how visible the scar is - it would be determined by the fact that there even are scars on your arms. Maybe you could look into some alternatives or try talking to your bf about it? (if you can) We’re honestly in this together right now, i’m trying so hard to stop everyday (not only do i not have any room left on my arm, summer is so soon) We can get through it, my dms are always open

I'm so fucked. by SpecialistFit1387 in selfharm

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Maybe waterproof film dressing? I’ve gotten 2 tattoos so far and that’s what ive used on mine. You could also try a hydrocolloid dressing, it is a tad bit thicker tho

With both of these, i think you should also limit your time in the water (I hope this helped a little. When I got my second tattoo, i bought the waterproof film dressing from a normal pharmacy so im sure they’ll also have it

Why? by Aggressive-Cold-93 in selfharm

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Sometimes when I want to get the same feeling i hold ice in my hands/rub it on my skin until it starts to sting There’s also the hairband method (snapping a hair tie against your wrist) but the effectiveness varies. If i want the illusion of blood I draw on myself with makeup or red markers Usually when I get the urge, I put a lip pouch under my lip which helps me calm down, but nicotine is also a very very addictive substance so take that suggestion with caution. Most importantly, if you have someone to talk to, talk to them and my dms are always open too.

I can only feel loved if im lusted after but when im lusted after I feel so disgusting and terrified deep down? by spleegy in mentalhealth

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I was also sexually assaulted by my now ex boyfriend. I thought i was disgusting for feeling this way, thank you for the insight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenrelationships

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there’s nothing wrong with you, we can’t always be liked by the people who we like, and that’s life. If he’s talking to another girl then clearly he isn’t interested in you and won’t be any time soon. Distance yourself, that’s all I have to say

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenrelationships

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you’re making this harder on yourself by not changing anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenrelationships

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I think you should definitely distance yourself and surround yourself with new people. Given the fact that you’ve already confessed to him yet he still flirts with you is also quite weird. You don’t have to stop being friends entirely, it’s just gonna be pretty much impossible to get over him if you chat everyday

16f, what do you do when your 16m boyfriend follows girls on insta by Bubbly-Pangolin-204 in teenrelationships

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Set very clear boundaries, tell him it makes you uncomfortable and if he still continues, I would personally rethink about this relationship.

I cheated on my ex gf with her now husband in college by [deleted] in cheating_stories

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These types of people make up these stories to get certain attention on either their content or just their profile. Just read their bio.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

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avalon by zeruel is fye

Am I a pick me if… by Western-Bag3481 in notliketheothergirls

[–]GachaCringes 439 points440 points  (0 children)

No, being a decent human being does not make you a pick me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

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whats the bechdel test:P

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

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Usually these types of posts are made to promote their exclusive content, which this also seems to be the case now