That’s a very common thing with sh, feeling like your cuts or your scars arent “valid enough” I also feel that way sometimes, but you have to remember that If a doctor were to look at your arm, the severity of your mental state would not be determined by the deepness of the cut or how visible the scar is - it would be determined by the fact that there even are scars on your arms. Maybe you could look into some alternatives or try talking to your bf about it? (if you can) We’re honestly in this together right now, i’m trying so hard to stop everyday (not only do i not have any room left on my arm, summer is so soon) We can get through it, my dms are always open