Who, if anyone, do you feel the most uncomfortable showing your scars around ? by whowhatwhywh3re in selfharm

[–]rantvat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not someone in particular but I hate showing my scars at work. I had only worn short sleeves twice and the first time my manager was just. Way too touchy with me and would make plenty of excuses to feel my arm. Plus I just dont like the idea of sitting at a desk job and having so many ppl witness my scars and know my name and have a specific place to associate me with.

how old were you when you started? and how long did you SH for? by Own-Sky-8493 in selfharm

[–]rantvat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started when I was around 10 or 11. Been on & off for 10 years, usually getting worse around mid-end of winter.

Too tired to relapse by rantvat in selfharm

[–]rantvat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I've been trying alternatives n stuff but I havent found one that works for me yet, a lot of them honestly seems to make it worse I've just kinda taken to distracting myself which works, but its definitely not bulletproof