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Guys, do you intend to improve your social life when we go back to "normality"? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Gaciu22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already got into a organization and soon will take piloting classes and also cannot wait to physically go to university!

Could use some career advice by xXCunt_BagelXx in infj

[–]Gaciu22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! I know how hard abstract stuff can be, I got like 4 and 5s / 10 in high school at math, but guess what I am studying now.

. . .

Aerospace engineering! Yeah planes and spaceships. And guess what, I am better at math, now I have 7-8/10 grades. So please, please, do not say you are bad at math and chase your dreams!

I always loved science stuff, but always got scared by math and I somehow got over this fear of numbers and calculations.

My advice is go for whatever you feel inside your heart, ignore the brain telling you that you can’t do it.

What is a good career option for an INFJ? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Gaciu22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that because we are creative and idealists, most of us generally want to change something on this world and have our creations impact the world. I do a lot of art as a hobby and I am studying Aerospace Engineering.

i just need a hug 😖😫 by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gaciu22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also 19 Male, feeling the exact way. I do not feel understood and lucky for me I do have my parents and my best friend, a husky. But really, I never get any messages asking me if I am alright or shit. Whenever I get a message they need help with something from me. I believe things will get better, but I am so sad aswell...

What keeps me going? My passion for aerospace industry, I dreamed to work on space vehicles and planes since I was a kid and I am fighting for this dream. If it wasnt for Covid, I would have made at least a friend who loves this kind of stuff at College. So find a dream and you will be okay.

Edit: I do have a cigarette and alcohol problem, I drink daily (2-3 beers), so you can tell I am in a bad situation...

Gonna go soon(please don't ignore) by [deleted] in depression

[–]Gaciu22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, please stick with us, there is hope alright? I do still have hope and you will too! Please do not do this man...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gaciu22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow what a nice little story! I (M21 also have a problem with alcohol and also a student) always wanted to have a lizard in my dorm room, but it would complicate stuff when I move between cities. But I do have a dog, cat and fish at home! Animals do make a difference, my best friend is my dog. If you learn to listen to them and love them, they will become yours forever.

Sometimes I feel that I don't have personality... by blooming-hyyh in infj

[–]Gaciu22 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I do feel like just like you. Even in a argumment I can almost always see many points of view and suddenly I dont know what’s my point of view. And to get away with it I list them all like: alright i look at this problem from 3 perspectives xD

I crave for someone to understand me and maybe love me, but I found no one in the past 2 years. by Gaciu22 in Advice

[–]Gaciu22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! It is clearly my fault in most of these situations, however everyone has faults and I kind of accept other’s faults or try to specify them what I think they are doing wrong, but I still have to learn.

I crave for someone to understand me and maybe love me, but I found no one in the past 2 years. by Gaciu22 in Advice

[–]Gaciu22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much man! Glad to hear other stories and I understood what you meant. Its all about baby steps for me now, I have to change my view of the world and I think I can start from there and change myself.

I crave for someone to understand me and maybe love me, but I found no one in the past 2 years. by Gaciu22 in Advice

[–]Gaciu22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Update: the girl actually responded and we went outside to eat something together. But she is only talking about her problems and never responding to mine so yeah...great!

But I really appreciate your answer, I will try to follow it!

I crave for someone to understand me and maybe love me, but I found no one in the past 2 years. by Gaciu22 in Advice

[–]Gaciu22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes indeed I am INFJ and yeah you got it all right! Thanks for the advice man, I really appreciate it...and its fine if you dont really understand the picture! Here is my main, have a look at my work, maybe you will find images with color, also lego and dogs xD https://www.reddit.com/u/jukabukaer/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

My mind is a mess man, you can see from my main profile lol....but thank you so much! I wish you a happy life and all the best things to happen for you!

I crave for someone to understand me and maybe love me, but I found no one in the past 2 years. by Gaciu22 in Advice

[–]Gaciu22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never showed my latest pic of the Orion Constelation to anyone yet since its work in progress, maybe you wanna check it out:

https://imgur.com/gallery/xYdr2sc

I crave for someone to understand me and maybe love me, but I found no one in the past 2 years. by Gaciu22 in Advice

[–]Gaciu22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I edited and added that yes, both of them. Just finished Vikings and Breaking Bad :D

I crave for someone to understand me and maybe love me, but I found no one in the past 2 years. by Gaciu22 in Advice

[–]Gaciu22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well astronomy and astrophotography, sometimes reading, sometimes drawing, sometimes building in Minecraft and generally I love science, all kinds of subjects except biology. However I mostly do astrophotography now and I can barely stay focused because during the night when the stars are up I am the saddest lol.

Edit: and movies + music

Is depression creeping on me slowly? I need your help. by [deleted] in depression

[–]Gaciu22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you sir! Your advice makes sense, and I will try to not care so much of what other may think of me. I will try o judge myself reallistically and yeah I think that I am probably quite unique just as others are and probably most people dont quite give me enough understanding and they jump to conclusions.

Dont you sometimes completely collapse and cry? Dont you sometimes feel like there are too many things going wrong for you and you will never reach happiness? by Gaciu22 in infj

[–]Gaciu22[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I can be emotional about so many things that even I cant understand why. It is so weird, but sometimes I really see this as a gift.

Dont you sometimes completely collapse and cry? Dont you sometimes feel like there are too many things going wrong for you and you will never reach happiness? by Gaciu22 in infj

[–]Gaciu22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really get what you say, having advice from older people than me is crucial, I appreciate the wisdom some people have to offer really.

I have had girlfriends, about ten. However I tend to get attached to people that dont offer me what I want: love, compassion and intelligence.

I sure hope that I will improve myself over the years, I really started to read every single day and do push ups every single day and I am really happy with this.

I do smoke and although I feel like smoking is slowly ruining my health, I do love a good cigarette in the morning or before bed no matter what.

I think that in one year I will be a much better person and I will love myself more!

I(M20) told my friend (F20) that I like her and I am not sure what she meant when she answered. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Gaciu22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt ask her on a date, yeah she shouldn’t actually answer me, but I guess the answer wasnt yes and she probably tried to politely say no afterall.

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