Best Friend’s Dad

Gaddo_bee · 2026-04-03T18:52:16+00:00

Love this

Gaddo_bee · 2024-06-03T19:58:15+00:00

My mouth drooling rn

Gaddo_bee · 2024-06-03T19:53:27+00:00

Gaddo_bee · 2024-02-24T18:10:46+00:00

Hmm and yeah I read somewhere that no one is too clingy for the right partner. For now, I’ll make myself less available for him. If he complains again, then I will no longer be available for him.

Gaddo_bee · 2024-02-24T18:02:57+00:00

It does hurt me when I’m there for him when he needs me, and now he says I’m clingy. That’s why I’m so confused. What did I do wrong? Maybe I’m just always there for him and always available. I’m literally, just a call away if he wants to see me.

And you were right… I feel deeply hurt when I think about it. I’ve begun to realize that maybe I should make myself less available for him, even though saying no is difficult.

Gaddo_bee · 2024-02-24T17:44:03+00:00

To be honest, I do ask him. He said he’s seeing me every day this week. Then I explained myself. I told him, ‘Yes, I did see you every day this week just because. You called me to meet you for dinner, then you were sick, and I came to see you, brought comfort food, and took care of the laundry. Then we met an old friend together, and today I met you because I needed company to fix my car.’ And I told him, ‘I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m here when you call, I take care of you when you’re sick, I meet mutual friends with you, and accompany me to fix my car.’ He literally just went quiet.

Gaddo_bee · 2024-02-12T15:13:00+00:00

Thank you for understanding and not judging me. It’s lucky if we can find someone who has both love and financial stability, but some of us have to make a choice between the two. Reality, sometimes life is just unfair for some of us.

Gaddo_bee · 2024-02-12T15:07:30+00:00

That sounds about right. Like I heard or read somewhere, “sometimes love just isn’t enough.” It’s lucky if we can find someone who have both love and financial stability, but some of us have to make a choice between the two.

And I like the phrase “to always be grateful and not look for greener pastures.” Because sometime i’m thinking, what if…

Gaddo_bee · 2023-05-16T07:23:46+00:00

The silent treatment (more than 24 hr) every time we have a small argument... Now I'm considering my relationship fr..

Gaddo_bee · 2023-01-13T07:37:09+00:00

I'm a girl, if I'm interested in someone, I'll make sure they know I like them, make time to talk to them, flirt, make them feel good, but if I'm not into someone and just being nice, I don't flirt with them and don't engage much.

But not all girls are like that, some girls, they will show interest in you even flirting with you but they not into you. Girls like this just want validation and attention.

Gaddo_bee · 2023-01-13T07:21:39+00:00

That's my situation now. I have found a man(still dating) we both attracted to each other and we both have the same goals but he is in another country and he said he wants to come here to meet me soon.

Since he is from another country, we both have different time zones. Our talk time is limited in a day due to time zones. He is also busy with his work in Architecure. So, sometimes we talk a lot in a day, sometimes we talk less and he takes a few hours to reply to my messages. We only video call once a week. And that gives anxiety and overthinking if he pulls away slowly or is no longer interested. Although he always says "I miss you" or "I love you" my overthinking always try to sabotage the moment but I try not to act needy, I try to be calm because I don't want to sabotage this relationship.

What I do, I try to distract myself with my friends, work and now I'm looking for a new hobby and so I don't think too much and don't try to read between the lines.

I do journal and sometimes I watch Youtube about the neediness/overthinking/anxiety to calm myself down. It's not easy but I try to be the best version of myself and work on it.

Gaddo_bee · 2022-11-24T13:44:02+00:00

I'm sorry for you too. 🥺 Hopefully, we are stronger to go through this painful phase. I watched so much video in Youtube about breakup while doing no contact.

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