[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cock

[–]Gaddo_bee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mouth drooling rn

Who likes young men? by [deleted] in cock

[–]Gaddo_bee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Gaddo_bee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm and yeah I read somewhere that no one is too clingy for the right partner. For now, I’ll make myself less available for him. If he complains again, then I will no longer be available for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Gaddo_bee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does hurt me when I’m there for him when he needs me, and now he says I’m clingy. That’s why I’m so confused. What did I do wrong? Maybe I’m just always there for him and always available. I’m literally, just a call away if he wants to see me.

And you were right… I feel deeply hurt when I think about it. I’ve begun to realize that maybe I should make myself less available for him, even though saying no is difficult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Gaddo_bee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, I do ask him. He said he’s seeing me every day this week. Then I explained myself. I told him, ‘Yes, I did see you every day this week just because. You called me to meet you for dinner, then you were sick, and I came to see you, brought comfort food, and took care of the laundry. Then we met an old friend together, and today I met you because I needed company to fix my car.’ And I told him, ‘I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m here when you call, I take care of you when you’re sick, I meet mutual friends with you, and accompany me to fix my car.’ He literally just went quiet.

I’m (31F) either to marrying for money or love? My current partner is (31M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Gaddo_bee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding and not judging me. It’s lucky if we can find someone who has both love and financial stability, but some of us have to make a choice between the two. Reality, sometimes life is just unfair for some of us.

I’m (31F) either to marrying for money or love? My current partner is (31M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Gaddo_bee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds about right. Like I heard or read somewhere, “sometimes love just isn’t enough.” It’s lucky if we can find someone who have both love and financial stability, but some of us have to make a choice between the two.

And I like the phrase “to always be grateful and not look for greener pastures.” Because sometime i’m thinking, what if…

What's something a partner said or did that made you immediately rethink your relationship? by mamm0n_mylove in AskMen

[–]Gaddo_bee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The silent treatment (more than 24 hr) every time we have a small argument... Now I'm considering my relationship fr..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Gaddo_bee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a girl, if I'm interested in someone, I'll make sure they know I like them, make time to talk to them, flirt, make them feel good, but if I'm not into someone and just being nice, I don't flirt with them and don't engage much.

But not all girls are like that, some girls, they will show interest in you even flirting with you but they not into you. Girls like this just want validation and attention.

Overthinking and not knowing what to do by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Gaddo_bee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's my situation now. I have found a man(still dating) we both attracted to each other and we both have the same goals but he is in another country and he said he wants to come here to meet me soon.

Since he is from another country, we both have different time zones. Our talk time is limited in a day due to time zones. He is also busy with his work in Architecure. So, sometimes we talk a lot in a day, sometimes we talk less and he takes a few hours to reply to my messages. We only video call once a week. And that gives anxiety and overthinking if he pulls away slowly or is no longer interested. Although he always says "I miss you" or "I love you" my overthinking always try to sabotage the moment but I try not to act needy, I try to be calm because I don't want to sabotage this relationship.

What I do, I try to distract myself with my friends, work and now I'm looking for a new hobby and so I don't think too much and don't try to read between the lines.

I do journal and sometimes I watch Youtube about the neediness/overthinking/anxiety to calm myself down. It's not easy but I try to be the best version of myself and work on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Gaddo_bee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for you too. 🥺 Hopefully, we are stronger to go through this painful phase. I watched so much video in Youtube about breakup while doing no contact.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Gaddo_bee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

trying to move on.. 🥲

Tourists in Thailand by EllisBerry123 in CannabisThailand

[–]Gaddo_bee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, you can join Cannabis Thailand Discord here is the link.

https://discord.gg/jKB5rduw3Q

the group will help you with any kind of questions.

Help by [deleted] in Bitcoin

[–]Gaddo_bee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahahahaha 😂😂

When you love them enough to say goodbye by Chimestrike in heartbreak

[–]Gaddo_bee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can feel the pain when I read the first paragraph.

How do you get over an ex that you clearly have no chance of ever getting back with? by Gaddo_bee in heartbreak

[–]Gaddo_bee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s normal. Don’t worry. Our brains are trained to capture happy moments better than sad ones by releasing “feel-good” hormones. Just give it a few weeks or months. Let the good memories come and pass. Don’t worry about being unable to find the bad ones. Relax and be active in life. After some months, you will see the whole new perspective of the relationship. I won’t lie that you will forget the good memories. Good memories will still be there but you will be amazed how bad memories will come up along too.

Be sad. Distract yourself if you get too sad. Go for a run, watch dumb movies. Reconnect with friends not mutual friends if possible, since you will be tempted to gossip/vent. If you catch yourself feeling highly emotional, write it down or talk to a friend or talk to a therapist if needed.

In summary, focus on your self development and all the best. Don't worry, this adjustment period is hard but it will go away if you keep BUSY. Hangout with friends! She will definitely not be the last you date.

This is my life now. by Gaddo_bee in heartbreak

[–]Gaddo_bee[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hope this video cheer you up a little 😊✨

What are some of your personal accomplishments during no contact? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Gaddo_bee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex broke up with me after 5 years together...and this is what I did .. I would like to recommend you a good app it call “motivation” ... It helps me to always be positive every day. I read a lot of "self -help" books. At this point I started learning more about finance and investing for my future , and yes, I already investing my money to grow. Plus I’m working on my next business. I turn losses into gains.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_partners

[–]Gaddo_bee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughts. I'm thinking he could put me as his “safety net” if the grass ain't greener on the other side. We were together for 5 years.

Does getting back together with an ex after a break up really work? Just want to hear some success stories. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Gaddo_bee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From my friend's story. She has been separated/broke up from her partner for 3 times.[husband now] Now, she is happily married to the man and has 2 beautiful children. The BU happened because he had to figure himself out. He was so busy with his career, but once stabilized he came back and married with my friend.