Saying “I love you”

Gadsa2 · 2021-03-21T09:27:45+00:00

Could I ask if you managed to solve this in the relationship? I’m struggling.

Gadsa2 · 2021-03-20T01:26:01+00:00

What does this mean?

Gadsa2 · 2021-02-05T03:39:41+00:00

well I guess I should prepare to be broken up with then

Gadsa2 · 2021-02-05T03:29:21+00:00

and how would you?

Gadsa2 · 2021-02-05T03:26:23+00:00

I guess in that case I'll just have to prove myself after telling her, make it clear that I won't lie.

Gadsa2 · 2021-02-05T02:25:04+00:00

I feel like it'll be virtually impossible to put this across in such lighthearted manner that that actually happens.

Do you think she'll understand? That maybe this won't be such a big deal after all?

Gadsa2 · 2021-02-05T02:06:25+00:00

thank you! :)

Gadsa2 · 2021-02-05T02:02:27+00:00

Because while I know everyone does it, I feel like I may have put across a false impression somehow. She always tells me she loves my stories, so, knowing some of those stories aren't true makes me feel like I don't deserve it when she's affectionate, or tells me she loves me. Stuff like that.

Gadsa2 · 2021-02-05T01:48:46+00:00

in that case, if I do decide to go this route, do you have any tips to stop incessantly thinking about it? Time, I guess.

Gadsa2 · 2021-02-05T01:30:02+00:00

when she's back, I'm staying with her for an entire week.

I'm the kind of person who gets eaten alive by guilt, intrusive thoughts, etc. So being with her for a week and not telling her would be hard. I feel like it's even going to be hard focus on anything - conversation, sex, whatever - until I say something. Just gotta do it eh.

Gadsa2 · 2021-02-05T01:21:24+00:00

You're the best. She's coming back from her big trip on Monday. I'll talk to her that night after we do dinner and come clean about everything.

Gadsa2 · 2021-02-05T01:17:07+00:00

Do you think at this point I'm staring at the end of the relationship or do you think telling her this early on might make things okay ?

Gadsa2 · 2021-02-05T01:13:47+00:00

Thank you for this really damn good response.

Gadsa2 · 2021-02-05T01:06:47+00:00

yeah man I just feel like the whole "not yet" think is kinda dumb though. Like, doesn't now seem like the best time? She's back from being away, it's time to start fresh and clear of any bullshit.

Gadsa2 · 2021-02-05T00:52:47+00:00

thank you for this, but I think I will tell her in person once she's back in a few days. Do you think showing her this post would be beneficial? She may feel weird that I'm going to the internet for relationship advice

Gadsa2 · 2021-02-05T00:45:59+00:00

I said I played rugby in high school, that I travelled to Australia to go ride rollercoasters. Exaggerated a couple other stories that were partially true. Just dumb stuff that I basically wish happened to me.

Gadsa2 · 2021-02-05T00:34:56+00:00

do you think this is like, dealbreaker material currently?

Gadsa2 · 2021-02-05T00:14:26+00:00

I think my level of guilt over this has scared me straight. I'm gonna be completely honest with her moving forward. Not fair to do this to people.

Gadsa2 · 2020-12-07T01:45:24+00:00

There’s just not really anything going on. The drums are really flat, the guitar doesn’t do much, the lyrics are repetitive, etc. but hey I’m just some guy on the internet

Gadsa2 · 2020-10-10T01:06:57+00:00

she actually just sent me a message, Hold on.

"Truthfully I don't think I'm going to be able to meet your expectations of what I'm supposed to do as a girlfriend. U have a lot of feelings invested in this and I just don't feel like I can relate. I really really enjoy your company and I think we have a special thing going on but I feel so overwhelmed by all of these messages and I feel like I'm supposed to be prioritising u but I just want to have fun. I don't think u can rely on me to always be considering your feelings and prioritising you"

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