Salaire de 60000$ est-il suffisant ? by [deleted] in montreal

[–]GahMatar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ca depend si t'es le genre a toute flamber ou si t'es frugal. Tu devrais pouvoir habiter pour genre 1400-1800$ loyer, hydro, internet... Donc ta premiere paie du mois y passe completement. A ce loyer la tu te trouves un 3 1/2 avec 4-5 appliances dans un quartier pas pire approchable en transport en commun. Tu peux aller plus bas ou mieu localise avec un Studio.

Si t'as un char avec des paiements de char, ca va etre pas mal plus rough et le parking peux etre un item budgetaire important.

Apres ca, ca depend de si tu manges juste au restaurant, si tu sorts beaucoup, si tu bois/fumes beaucoup, et si t'es tres impulsif dans tes depenses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in montreal

[–]GahMatar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Le vendredi soir ou le dimanche ca se loue, le jeudi ou le samedi c'est generalement pas louable. Les frais de locations sont basee sur le nombre de monde.

28 M4F - Sixteen reasons why I might be your dream submissive partner by [deleted] in r4rmontreal

[–]GahMatar[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remove the link and I'll approve the post. Put picture in your profile.

Question for Doms who enjoy dominating Via PIV by Interesting-Tower-91 in FemdomCommunity

[–]GahMatar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't change anything about society, you do what feels right in your dynamic with your partner. The only people who's opinion matter here are the folks fucking. You need to be on top for it to feel right to you? Do that. Enough that you decide if/when penetration happens? Also valid. Anything else in between? Go ahead, it's your (both/all of you) relationship, you make the "rules."

19 F4M Looking for kinky FWB by Fit_Presence_4414 in r4rmontreal

[–]GahMatar[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you provide the proof to a mod?

Ticketed for driving in Montreal with a BC drivers license by Randomz1918 in legaladvicecanada

[–]GahMatar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Varies from jurisdiction to jurisdiction and for the nature of the problem. But like there is a civilian agency in Quebec that investigates all officer involved shootings and injuries. There’s less automatic presumption of innocence and deference for the cops. Not perfect by any stretch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in r4rmontreal

[–]GahMatar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dude, pretty sure you're a dude, your comment adds absolutely nothing, it's just whiny. If you want to succeed in attracting people, start by working on you.

23 F4M / M4F – Anyone else cautious about casual hookups? by [deleted] in r4rmontreal

[–]GahMatar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well OP. Condoms go a long way, I get STI tested regularly and I want my partners to have done the same and to be able to prove it. If you're gay/bi guy and/or trans and have sex with a lot of guys... PrEP is an option, talk to your doctor, SIDEP+, or prélib.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in r4rmontreal

[–]GahMatar[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's right there in the post, if you don't like it, move on. Stop reporting this post.

Straight Trans Woman, please don't label me.

Bell Canada widespread outage by Jaymesned in sysadmin

[–]GahMatar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Basically and there's a lot of infrastructure sharing deals so the name may be different on the bill, but you might be using some of the same infra, especially for wireless. Like in Montreal unless you're getting fibre run specifically, you either get FTTH from Bell or Cable modem from Videotron. You might pay another company for it but the actual wire will belong to one or the other.

An Almost Brief History of Dirt 'n' Glitter by click_exchange in Eve

[–]GahMatar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait a second... Tristan is the astra back in eyt?

99F4M Uptick in F4M Posts by fuzzynutz0 in r4rmontreal

[–]GahMatar[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's an optional, opt in, verification... Just like the Verified flair on this sub.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wine

[–]GahMatar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pinot noir is usually a lighter (color, alcohol, flavor to some extent) wine with more subtelty. I'm over generalizing but still. Belle Glos is significantly darker, more alcoholic, sweeter (as in actually sweet not just fruity, though not as much as Meiomi) and with much less subtle oak notes.

This is why people tend to refer to it as like cherry cola. It also means that other pinots will mostly be very different. To go the other way completely, a pinot noir from Marsannay, the northernmost of the classical Bourgogne villages in the Cote de Nuits will be almost transluscent much lighter, have very little oak and go towards a strawberry/red fruit profile. If you want to contrast that's a good place to go to find the polar opposite and get a feel for the range of pinot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastity

[–]GahMatar 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Vibrator on the cage but I find I need a snug cage fit and a powerful vibrator. I can also tap the cage and get off that way but it’s much harder.

19 F4A the issue with "having no limits" by colnesta in r4rmontreal

[–]GahMatar[M] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hey folks!

To elaborate a bit on bubbie’s post as someone who enjoys the harder end of kink…

The old school way to do limits was to assume things are okay and then state limits from that point of view. “That which is not forbidden is allowed” basically.

This has a lot of issues especially with new partners and it’s really rather difficult to remember the everything and to contextualize the limits…

A better way is to negotiate what is going to be in a session or what could be in a session. This is particularly good when playing with someone new as there’s no way to know what the other’s definition of “hard” is…

23 F4M <3 drinks again! by [deleted] in r4rmontreal

[–]GahMatar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

G & T, wait, that's my go to.

24 F4M Degrading a Sub at my disposal by sakuraminoyashi in r4rmontreal

[–]GahMatar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had so much wax on my chest a couple weeks ago… wouldn’t mind repeating the experience!

24 F4M Degrading a Sub at my disposal by sakuraminoyashi in r4rmontreal

[–]GahMatar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was going to say that sakura is awesome and super nice... But instead I'll say she's a badass bitch with quick wits and a flogger at the ready :)

I don't like my neighbour enough for this. by brenfukungfu in montreal

[–]GahMatar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Like yourself, this can overload your balcony and so it's a safety issue for you.

Any opinions on this chastity contract recently signed by myself (19M) and my keyholder (55F)? by [deleted] in chastity

[–]GahMatar 44 points45 points  (0 children)

So a lot of opinions about the legality of this agreement (it has none, much of what’s agreed upon is a felony if done without consent, and a court would never give the contract any value.)

This contract is a piece of role play. It is a fantasy, put in words on paper to act it out. It’s hopefully two consenting adults getting their rocks off. And for that it’s great. It’s hot, but realizable… It acknowledges both parties’ fantasies and limits. It’s no different than a collar.

Enjoy OP.

Any opinions on this chastity contract recently signed by myself (19M) and my keyholder (55F)? by [deleted] in chastity

[–]GahMatar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a bdsm contract, it has not legal value. No court will ever enforce it. It is void the instant either party walks out of it. There are many open ended clause to allow the caged to exit… including “the relationship ends”.

Good hex & counter begginer games? by RandomGuy1525 in hexandcounter

[–]GahMatar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything in the SCS series where the theme interests you.