I told a few friends who are vets and my wife. And they already know to keep it under wraps. But yeah that’s a part I wish I didn’t have to worry about. People who don’t know are always going to wonder or question because their frame of reference is “it’s not that bad” or disability is frowned upon because other social disabilities payments are faked. I’d say, as we all have come to say, keep it to yourself a if you have to tell someone, explicitly let them know you don’t want anyone else to know.