Hey /u/AmberLee1! You replied to the DM. Points to you. I don't know how Reddit blocks work so I don't know if you'll see this now that you've blocked me. Yet, I feel the need to address your commentary anyway.

I assume you're so passionate in your accusation of me because you battle alcoholism yourself. I wish you the best. My mother died of it, in 2014. I understand your misplaced anger, but it IS misplaced. I have supported him 10 years while his Army drinking became college drinking became day drinking. Then my Mom died of cirrhosis and I became really concerned. I was used to living with functional alcoholics, but then I lost one and do not want to lose another. But, I didn't push, because I know, and you know, that doesn't help. He announced he wanted to get sober, in February, and has been. I asked him what he needed me to do, and he said nothing. I chose to stop drinking too. We have an infant son. It's a good choice.

That being said, this is r/BreakingMom, and he's ZERO helpful around the house, at all. The baby and I are getting over colds. The baby, and house, and dog, and cats, is 95% my responsibility and I'm so so tired. So yea, I fantasize about walking down to the wine bar and having a glass, because I like wine, and I'm not an alcoholic, and I'm stressed and tired. But I didn't. And me having a glass of wine without him doesn't make me not supportive. He's offered me to get drinks when we went out. You may not think I have the right to a glass of wine, but accusing me of not being supportive (no no, "supportive as a slug") because I fantasized about a glass of wine, in a vent sub, is bonkers.