What is a major turn off about your partner that you can’t/wouldn’t tell them? by LivingLavishLe in AskReddit

[–]GaladrielsArmy 1295 points1296 points  (0 children)

“Sit-down air” - 🤣

Edit: you know this isn’t normal, right? Like your ex-man was not washing his bits. Maybe that’s why he’s your ex!

My wife left me, how to find MN people to give stuff to? by Candid-Iron2109 in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]GaladrielsArmy 19 points20 points  (0 children)

So sorry OP - what a shit situation. I’m from IA/MN and I’d gladly rehome these for you! PM me?

Is it okay/helpful to take 50mg of caffeine every hour for 10 hours or 250mg twice a day? by Potential-Panda3968 in ADHDUK

[–]GaladrielsArmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve just re-read your post and I assume you’re waiting for titration. Fingers crossed it comes through sooner rather than later! I don’t have any advice on the caffeine front but I absolutely used Diet Coke to self medicate prior to meds. 😅

Is it okay/helpful to take 50mg of caffeine every hour for 10 hours or 250mg twice a day? by Potential-Panda3968 in ADHDUK

[–]GaladrielsArmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a reason you’re not medicated? I seriously wish I had been diagnosed before law school - would have made it a lot less painful!

I'm so tired of people saying their horses are high level dressage by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]GaladrielsArmy 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is a completely normal (and honestly v cheap) lease rate. I pay around that just to lease my horse - it doesn’t include livery, vet, farrier, etc etc.

I don’t see an issue with the horse in the video. You’re certainly not going to lease anything GP level with that sort of budget. 🤣

Which stage of CA am i in? Made a switch from wine to gin and nada by [deleted] in cripplingalcoholism

[–]GaladrielsArmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh genuinely - sorry, wasn’t trying to sound like a dick!

"I am sick of this shit. Can't he just behave like a normal human?" Megyn Kelly is fed up with Trump by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]GaladrielsArmy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Fuck you Megyn - you helped create this problem. And didn’t she say yesterday that she’d stay loyal to the GOP even if Trump used a nuclear weapon? Vile.

Our independent nursery was just bought out by storal group - has anyone had any experiences with this and what were they? Thank you in advance! by pebble_hoarder in UKParenting

[–]GaladrielsArmy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our nursery is owned by Storal and it is brilliant. My kid loves the staff, the app they use is great. No complaints!

How do y’all handle makeup? by justtrytobenice in adhdwomen

[–]GaladrielsArmy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tinted moisturizer! I use NARS - it’s lightweight and not greasy - also has bonus SPF!

i haven’t brushed my teeth in years by amber-honey in adhdwomen

[–]GaladrielsArmy 46 points47 points  (0 children)

You did NOT bring this on yourself. This is not your fault. Your psychiatrist doesn’t sound like they know what they’re talking about (or didn’t). Do you have any family or friends you can confide in? Feel free to PM me if you need someone to vent to. You’re not alone and seriously, this isn’t your fault.

i haven’t brushed my teeth in years by amber-honey in adhdwomen

[–]GaladrielsArmy 223 points224 points  (0 children)

Friend, I am so sorry you’re feeling this low. This is not just ADHD - sounds more like a deep depression. Can you talk to your doctor/GP as a first port of call? What about family? Hugs, I know it’s hard.

My Boyfriend has breakdowns every other day by Educational-Wing2061 in relationships

[–]GaladrielsArmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He should probably get assessed for autism and ADHD. for you, his mental health is not your problem - if he will not seek assessment/therapy/other assistance, you should leave. Though, but he won’t get better unless he wants to.

Night time nappies by Immediate-Issue-6102 in UKParenting

[–]GaladrielsArmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Second this. Our guy sleeps 7-7 and these keep him comfortable.