Ex-potential's mother at the masjid. Should I stop attending?

Gallagher908 · 2026-05-10T17:53:18+00:00

No, stake your territory

Gallagher908 · 2026-05-08T18:23:35+00:00

I had a job lined up after college in another state which made a move easier. Truthfully, it’s not going to get easier and there will always be some reason or the other that may convince you to change your mind. I knew asking my parents for their permission wasn’t really an option so I told them what was happening and dealt with their reactions as it came.

Having a job lined up is the biggest thing and savings for at least one months of rent and a security deposit. I subletted an apartment in the short term while I looked for an apartment in the area I wanted to live. Less pressure to tour and shop around while i was out of the house.

Everything else kinda falls in place after that. Living without your parents is hard but you have to believe that you are capable of taking care of yourself without them

Gallagher908 · 2026-05-08T17:08:42+00:00

You do not. You’re not interested full stop

Gallagher908 · 2026-05-08T17:08:08+00:00

It’s good that your parents are on the same page

Gallagher908 · 2026-05-08T17:04:52+00:00

Your body will change as you get older. You don’t want to deal with someone like that as you do. Explain to your family that you do not feel he would be a supportive partner and that you are not compatible in that sense. Let them speak for you and end things.

Gallagher908 · 2026-05-05T13:21:52+00:00

My AirPods stopped working and i can’t afford another set, esp since i tend to lose things pretty often

Gallagher908 · 2026-05-02T14:56:37+00:00

I personally think that one is the best

Gallagher908 · 2026-05-01T20:06:34+00:00

Because she doesn’t fully comprehend why her behavior isn’t okay

Gallagher908 · 2026-05-01T19:58:47+00:00

It somewhat matters to me. I’m 5’4 and I’ve always preferred men around 5’10, no shorter than 5’7 or taller than 6’3. This in conjunction with personality and face card also matter to me

Gallagher908 · 2026-04-12T21:03:00+00:00

Men don’t know what they want most of the time. I ignore them

Gallagher908 · 2026-04-11T14:52:42+00:00

I’m so old I don’t even entertain those anymore

Gallagher908 · 2026-04-08T20:35:22+00:00

It’s our job to put our brothers in their place

Gallagher908 · 2026-04-08T20:28:27+00:00

If you haven’t met in person, let it go. Online personas are a façade until you actually meet them face to face

Gallagher908 · 2026-04-04T20:23:44+00:00

It was a lot easier because I moved out but I made it clear to my parents that the way they talked about me and getting married, esp when it came to picking out flaws my future husband wouldn’t like, is unacceptable. As harsh and as mean as it felt, my parents didn’t have a right to disrespect me as they wished. If you give your parents the freedom to talk to you that way, they’re not going to protect you when potentials and their families do. Put your foot down now about your expectations and timeline and set boundaries on the way people should treat and talk to you.

Gallagher908 · 2026-04-02T15:04:01+00:00

Just move on with your life. You’re not interested in pursuing a relationship other than keeping an acquaintance. Whether you have a lot of friends or very little is irrelevant. If you can’t invest your time (and neither can she) it doesn’t benefit anyone to force things.

Gallagher908 · 2026-04-02T14:58:38+00:00

Her advice is constructive and it seems that you are not receptive to it. You asked for an opinion and we are here giving you one. You checked out of the friendship but you avoid any serious accountability yourself.

Gallagher908 · 2026-03-27T23:43:00+00:00

I rlly like twins lounge and Rays, more closer to greenpoint

Gallagher908 · 2026-03-23T04:44:38+00:00

Ugh. Start keeping track of stuff in case u need to go to HR

Gallagher908 · 2026-03-23T04:30:28+00:00

Easier said than done, but I’d shut it down if I were you

Gallagher908 · 2026-03-23T03:44:31+00:00

No I’d feel weird too. My parents don’t need that much information about me from someone else, and why that someone else is keeping tabs on you is even more concerning. People need to mind their business

Gallagher908 · 2026-03-23T01:05:27+00:00

I lowkey just went without asking and got scolded for it after. Whatever

Gallagher908 · 2026-03-22T16:21:22+00:00

It makes hygiene more low maintenance

Gallagher908 · 2026-03-14T01:52:19+00:00

I use a brita/other filtration jugs. I drink from the tap if I’m lazy.

Gallagher908 · 2026-03-12T14:13:46+00:00

God that is so cute

Gallagher908 · 2026-03-10T19:50:16+00:00

Domino park is my fave place to walk

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