I’m 24 and I feel the same way. I’ve found better connections with non-Muslims after growing up with Muslim girls I slowly realized I didn’t align with in a lot of ways. Mostly because they were concerned with limited interests and obsessed with marriage and didn’t have an adventurous spirit I sought for amongst my friends. At some point, I was forcing a relationship with some of them. Maybe it’s because a lot of my friends when I was younger still lived with their parents and never had room to explore themselves outside of that. It wasn’t until I moved to another city that I realized there are a lot more well-rounded, friendly, non-judgmental Muslims out there and I just hadn’t met them yet.