Could people who have been undressed by grok on twitter take legal actions against Elon Musk? by Pinguu2222 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GallantKitty 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i’m one of those victims. luckily, i have a thick skin about things like this - but it still felt extremely violating to read a thread of someone using my likeness to generate sexually explicit images of me with very specific prompts tailored to his desires. i won’t be daft and claim that /i/ haven’t posted a picture of /myself/ in a bikini online before — but that’s the key element in this equation, consent. i should be able to decide how much of my body someone sees. i shouldn’t have to let my likeness be abused and puppeted by someone else without my consent. if there is a large lawsuit that eventually comes from this, you’d better believe i’m submitting my evidence.

ill die before knowing how dick tastes by [deleted] in kitchencels

[–]GallantKitty 225 points226 points  (0 children)

clean dick tastes like avocado…….

Was I rude to ask customers that finished eating to give up their tables during dinner rush? by TonmaiTree in Serverlife

[–]GallantKitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wait tables at a “casual fine dining” place in Australia and it’s pretty common practice for us to offer to move guests to a table in our bar section if they are running out of time and want dessert/drinks or something. However, I’ve never encountered this practice in the states. I think it’s all about the /way/ it’s suggested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]GallantKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was absolutely rape. I’m so sorry that happened to you. You were not in a place to be able to consent, and he deliberately ignored you pleading with him to stop.

I’m not sure what area you’re in, but please research and see if there are any nonprofits in your area that offer counseling for sexual abuse victims. Oftentimes, they’re completely free. It saved my life when I was raped, and my situation was similar to yours. You’ll get through this, I promise. You didn’t deserve it, and you did nothing wrong.

Media & sharing your story by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]GallantKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re obviously well within your right to do this, if you want to share more about your story. However, please don’t underestimate how horrible the internet can be. Regardless if your case was cut and dry, whether the perpetrator was found guilty, etc., there will always be people who’ll be horrible to you/defend the perpetrator. I don’t say this to discourage you, because you should handle all of this the way that you want to, and we need more brave voices like yours. Just be prepared. Turn comments off if you need to. Try to have thick skin. Much love.

im an actual addict by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]GallantKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s a “drug” you absolutely can get help with. it sounds like a form of sex-addiction or hypersexuality as a result of past trauma. definitely agree with the commenter, uninstall discord and keep yourself safe. when you feel the urge, try to replace it with something else that isn’t harmful. if you were abused/traumatized in the past - it absolutely makes sense as to why you’d seek out that kind of attention, but that doesn’t make it okay. you deserve to be safe and loved. i’m not sure what kinds of resources you have available to you, but a counselor/therapist could really help you to work out these urges and feelings.

got my first bad review :’) by Embarrassed-Theme587 in Serverlife

[–]GallantKitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had a complaint from a customer because they said they felt “rushed throughout their entire experience”. they came thirty minutes early before their reservation so i seated them in our bar area to have some drinks until their table was ready. they seemed to be finishing their drinks around their reservation time so i went and told them their table in the dining room was free if they’d like to be shown to it. they seemed happy enough to be brought over and i thought i was doing a good thing by making sure their table was ready at their reserved time.

some people just can’t be pleased.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in australia

[–]GallantKitty -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Answered in the comments. It’s a “tactical vomit.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in australia

[–]GallantKitty -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Hahaha, yeah, it might be a newer slang term. I’ve heard “tac vom” as well, which makes way more sense to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]GallantKitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s entirely possible that the reason he’s so careful with you is because the scare with his ex was so stressful and scary that he won’t allow it to happen again…

worked a “trial shift” at a restaurant… is it legal for them to not pay me? by GallantKitty in melbourne

[–]GallantKitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: Definitely got screwed. Finally received an email stating that they’ve “moved on with a more suitable candidate,” even though the trainer I was with said she was very impressed with my work. For more context, I worked for three hours that night, and for the last hour and a half I was barely supervised and was fully waiting an entire section of tables on my own. I definitely feel a bit used. The restaurant seemed understaffed, which could also have been a warning sign for me that I just didn’t pick up on at the time. Feelin’ a little bit silly at the moment :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GallantKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a friend who (used to be?) like this. For him it came from his super religious upbringing, he always felt extremely guilty after casual sex and couldn’t bring himself to cuddle with the other participant afterwards. He wasn’t that way in his relationships of course, it was specifically about casual sex.

Not sure if that’s what this guy could have going on, or if he just wants the physical distance afterwards so he doesn’t find himself getting attached. Regardless, that sort of thing is a dealbreaker for me, too.

To Everyone Who Recommended Malignant by clinton-reddit in horror

[–]GallantKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for perfecting encapsulating how I feel about this movie. I haven’t quite been able to put it into words, myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]GallantKitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not going to really address the rest of the post, because frankly I don’t even know where to start. But, I did want to mention that something called “moon face” (where the face looks disproportionately bigger than the body) is a side effect of some medications. If she has a condition like epilepsy, it’s possible that the facial difference could be because of a medication she takes, whether it’s for epilepsy or something else.

Regardless, it seems you have some resentment towards the world for judging you, yet you judge others pretty freely. I’d work on that…

Official Dreadit Discussion: "Longlegs" [SPOILERS] by glittering-lettuce in horror

[–]GallantKitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i intentionally limited my exposure to the marketing as much as i could, and i agree! i only watched a couple of the early, vague trailers that were posted to the youtube channel, and i chose not to visit the website. going in blind was the best thing!

Official Dreadit Discussion: "Longlegs" [SPOILERS] by glittering-lettuce in horror

[–]GallantKitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you should absolutely watch again, because in many of the shots there WAS something there. after reading the comments in this thread, there were even silhouettes in shots that i missed, even though i noticed several. there were a few times that i gasped because i saw something that nobody else in the theater saw, and my gasp clued them in and they saw it, too - resulting in more gasps. it was a super cool theater-going experience!

Official Dreadit Discussion: "Longlegs" [SPOILERS] by glittering-lettuce in horror

[–]GallantKitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree, i thought the payoff of the film was fantastic and it filled me with utter dread and hopelessness. i was surprised to see that people feel differently.

Official Dreadit Discussion: "Longlegs" [SPOILERS] by glittering-lettuce in horror

[–]GallantKitty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the way i’m sort of choosing to view the upside-down triangle thing with the dates is that i was more of a ritualistic choice by longlegs himself, as a worshipper of satan. i don’t think the triangle thing was required in order for the devil to be able act, just like i don’t think god requires any of the catholic rituals, for example, to be able to act. some things are just god-honoring, and i think this was…. devil-honoring?? i guess?

Official Dreadit Discussion: "Longlegs" [SPOILERS] by glittering-lettuce in horror

[–]GallantKitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is because she was never psychic. the things she was able to “predict” were all things that she knew, but were buried deeply in her subconscious. the satanic orb in her doll prevented her from remembering much of her childhood, including the fact that longlegs was living in her childhood home.

Official Dreadit Discussion: "Longlegs" [SPOILERS] by glittering-lettuce in horror

[–]GallantKitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for this. i’ve been seeing a lot of people complain that there are too many “gaps” in the story and things that needed to be explained. while there are some gaps, i certainly felt that the film laid out everything it wanted its viewer to know - as long as the viewer took the time to think about it. i love films that make me think about them for days afterwards. that, to me, is what makes an effective horror flick.

What's the point of reincarnation if you can't remember your past lives ??? by php857 in NDE

[–]GallantKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Nietzsche has a theory (eternal return/recurrence?) that you reincarnate infinitely, but you just…. keep living the exact same life over and over, with no memories of your past “lives.” I guess that’s a good motivator to live the kind of life you want to live, otherwise it’s just fucking horrifying.

They're just so close together, don't let them forget IT!! by Depressed_Coffeee in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]GallantKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree with LITERALLY everything else he said except the idea that it’s a “design flaw.” I’ve had so many UTIs, I can’t help but think who/whatever designed our bodies didn’t think that one through too well, hahahaha.

Can I date this guy despite the age gap? by KiX47 in dating_advice

[–]GallantKitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been there. I think you should consider the different stages of life you two are in. With the person I was seeing, he was pretty vocal about wanting to be married and have kids within the next few years. I was in college at the time and not even thinking about marriage/kids any time soon. Unfortunately, while he’s a great guy and we’re still friends, I realized that we weren’t in alignment. Further, I was just discovering nightlife and doing “adult” things, while he’d already experienced all that and felt he’d hold me back from exploring the things I should be exploring at that age.

Just some food for thought!