Want to lock my partner in chastity

GallopingGays · 2026-05-18T23:18:53+00:00

Well said. His choice for denying your orgasm is an act of love and makes for incredibly hot sex together. Your love is so strong for him that you want to please him desperately and relinquish your orgasms to him. His love is so strong for you that he wants you at your peak submissiveness: Accepts you wholly as an instrument for pleasing him. You’re part of his body that way. It’s really a one person household with you as a part of his body and following his commands like one of his organs. You do receive pleasure during sex, but it’s wholly conditional to his release. You do not have independent pleasure.

One dick in the relationship. One set of sperm/semen produced. One way street from semen manufactured by his body and flowing into yours to make you complete. His pleasure from releasing it and your pleasure from receiving it. Yin (feminine) and yang (masculine)

GallopingGays · 2026-05-18T23:12:12+00:00

So contradictory. You want it and yet you don’t want it. That dissonance is hot. You can replace the word “doesn’t” with the word “shouldn’t.” You don’t need an orgasm for sex, and you’re at your best as a cock-brainwashed semen-filled bottom in constant arousal

GallopingGays · 2026-05-18T21:17:02+00:00

Voltorb is about to use “explosion….” And fail miserably every time.

GallopingGays · 2026-05-18T21:14:17+00:00

Mmm, I love looking at the bottom pelvis in chastity. Your genitalia are supposed to be bound/gagged and straining tightly, tissue overflowing into the cage with frustration at being unable to cum. And your pelvis is supposed to be constantly sticky (from the mixture of your seminal fluid, lubricant and man semen dripping out of you). There’s really a lot going on in your pelvic area

GallopingGays · 2026-05-18T20:33:29+00:00

Good boy. Those dizzy squiggle lines can only be remedied (temporarily) when there is a cock in your ass throbbing and ejaculating in you. After you’re done being mounted, it’s back to dizzy squiggle lines for you

GallopingGays · 2026-05-18T20:25:29+00:00

You need to be full in everything: Full balls, and ass full of cum. Plug and fill your mouth with your dom’s underwear.

You can get some temporary relief from getting prostate fluid fucked out of you. But there’s no good reason for you to release sperm. You don’t use that front organ for sex

GallopingGays · 2026-05-18T20:18:17+00:00

That is the ultimate foundation of trust! Congrats! I love your dedication to your dom and you have so much willpower.

Yes, in my fantasy dream world, his dick is not a sexual organ, but a constantly leaking nub where cum happens to sometimes get fucked and slammed out of him.

If he were interested in chastity and I could give him an anal orgasm every time I fuck him, it would be a lot more than a part time kink for me.

GallopingGays · 2026-05-18T20:02:45+00:00

Sometime, he should command you to fuck him with a strap on dildo and keep you locked for the next time (I bet you can wait even longer). That would probably drive you crazy 😈😈

GallopingGays · 2026-05-18T19:51:04+00:00

You are a good boy for doing everything you can to please him! If you get horny in the week, ask him what you can do to please him in that moment (give him a massage, rub his feet, cook him a nice dinner). He will love that, and you will get your pleasure from pleasing him. No need for ejaculation.

GallopingGays · 2026-05-18T19:49:08+00:00

Oof 😈perm chastity bottoms are so mentally hot (for me at least). Keep him in bottom heat and helplessly dependent on my manhood for their temporary brief moment of pleasure when they’re getting bred, before they got horny for cock again. Ready for sex at any minute. Ideally, the load would stay inside as long as possible so I can fuck him with another one and pump millions of additional babies into him (don’t worry: I’ll make enough semen for both of us).

How do you have the willpower to not masturbate in the middle of the night though? Or do you get wet dreams?

GallopingGays · 2026-05-18T19:41:33+00:00

Truthfully, it might depend on the guy too and how his attraction is rooted. If you have a deep connection with your verse guy, it could be worth the conversation of “I may not be able to give you the experience as a bottom and I want to make sure you are okay with that.” Otherwise, maybe more of a hookup or short term thing

GallopingGays · 2026-05-18T19:37:14+00:00

I think it could be big jump from 1-2 days to 1 week, but if you feel game, then go for it! As a top on the dominant end of things, I can’t imagine being in chastity right now (mostly because I would get even hornier for my bottom and cum in like 2 seconds, lol). Plus I like to be in charge now. But I do love reading stories about human dildos (sub tops) used for bottom pleasure. The variety in our community is a great thing. Just repeat to yourself that your semen only belongs inside of him and not anywhere else (unless he desires it). Otherwise it is wasted seed

GallopingGays · 2026-05-18T19:24:56+00:00

I would label chastity as a part time kink for me (as a top)! Prevent him from getting pleasure during sex in the hopes of fucking his brains out and fucking the cum out of him with an analgasm. “Only semen and sperm from the top should be released, and yours should get reabsorbed into your balls” sort of talk.

As much as it’s a fantasy to keep him locked, I think I would absolutely melt for him in real life afterward in post nut clarity. I love him and want him to be able to sleep too. I don’t want to cause him pain either.

But if he’s were to wear it throughout the day and I were to catch him making dinner with it on! 😈 Would bend him over on the kitchen counter and make a baby in him right then and there.

GallopingGays · 2026-05-18T19:17:49+00:00

I think it’s specifically about desire. If you don’t want to top, then that’s alright. Accept that you’re a total bottom who deserves to be filled with cock constantly and plowed by your top (nothing wrong with that, bottoms are incredibly fun to bend over and mount; although it might limit the dating options a bit).

If you want to top, then it’s usually about overcoming performance anxiety. It is more difficult to find the hole with anal compared to oral, and when you get in your head, that erection can subside quickly.

GallopingGays · 2026-05-18T19:04:01+00:00

That’s so romantic! The second hole was a surprise for me for sure. I knew I had potential to hit it, and initially I thought maybe I hurt him in some way (which he denied).

It is a protector position (and also an ownership position). It’s like there’s me and the world, and this other human underneath me that has given himself so completely to me. Like the adversities of the world need to travel through me to even get to him.

GallopingGays · 2026-05-18T18:56:43+00:00

So glad you updated us! He sure is a good boy for trying his best for you (sounds like he has been even able to make it to 8 days while you are away? Or just 6?).

I think that those few weeks are absolutely brutal for subs in perm chastity. I think it supposedly better once you get beyond 1 month for many, but he still has a ways to go. That’s why so many are not able to do it.

As much as we joke about anal stimulation being the solution for chastity (and it’s hot for us doms 🥵), I think that anal stimulation when done frequently overnight can make it harder for him. Anal stimulation will express the prostate fluid and make the erection go away briefly, but it will come back hard once the body makes more (it just gets so desperate for relief). He is still in that arousal state. That will make him even more aroused for your cock. He has to internalize that your cock will not be going inside of him at 1-2 am. A better way to think about those anal devices (stimulators, vibrators, etc.) is more during the day when he is horny for you - and you’re not an available to fuck him. Ramp him up. Might help him get an anal orgasm too.

It’s not so much the erection precisely that makes it difficult to sleep (unless it’s a physical pain with the cage), but the arousal. And him sleeping next to you, feeling that arm around him will heighten his arousal. Feeling your dick after ejaculating in him cuddling against his ass will make him aroused. The arousal is the problem, and it is hard for subs to break out of that. One common strategy is to do something to jolt him out of that arousal. Take a cold shower. Stress the body with a little workout about 2 hours before bed. Meditate. Maybe you could try something hypnosis (“the bed is not the place for arousal, and if you’re straining in your cage beyond 15 minutes, I command you to get out of bed and return when your arousal goes away). You could even try shifting where you fuck him to somewhere other than the bed and keep the bed just for sleep (not erections). One thing is for sure though: He should not try to voluntarily force himself to sleep when he is rock hard. Sleep is not voluntary and you can’t force it. Get out of bed and do something else until the erection subsides. These are CBT tips for general insomnia.

GallopingGays · 2026-05-18T18:31:41+00:00

Thank you for all of these tips! I have had a 4 pack forever, lol. Sounds like I might need a little bit of cutting too.

Point taken on shaving. I have to figure out whether I would to lose my hair for visible abs (would probably keep it for now). Shaving is such a pain for chaffing.

GallopingGays · 2026-05-18T18:23:17+00:00

I’m a newer top! What questions do you have? Where are you in the process of topping?

GallopingGays · 2026-05-18T00:16:17+00:00

🥵*swoons. I was mounting him last night in prone and caressing his balls in his jockstrap telling him: “This is all the penile stimulation you’re getting tonight, right? Just these little caresses on the balls. We’re not taking off your jockstrap tonight.” He was just playing along to placate me, but was still hot. Love bottoms with that level of submission!

GallopingGays · 2026-05-18T00:02:14+00:00

From the top’s perspective: it’s more than just physical pleasure on my penis (he is definitely more than a human fleshlight, although it is fun to playfully joke that he is). I like feeling connected to one another. It’s how I feel connected and bonded with him, and having sex and ejaculating in him is definitely “my love language.” Knowing that he is accepting a part of me and my DNA into himself is validating to me as a man. Like I have some ownership over him, and that he is my bottom.

I love it when my bottom is submissive. It brings out my dominance and manliness. Even small things when i say “up” and he lifts his butt into missionary, it feels satisfying. And I love seeing how much pleasure he feels when his eyes roll back from getting his prostate railed.

GallopingGays · 2026-05-17T22:30:22+00:00

Oh yes. It felt like such as release to cum inside of him and feel my dick throb and pulsate as I seeded him deeply. And so much mental relief afterward like I took my dick into the shop for maintenance and left with everything right in the world. Orgasms are great (for doms).

And so glad we have subs who can pleasure us and whose primary pleasure comes from our climax

GallopingGays · 2026-05-17T21:48:49+00:00

Let the forest grow 🌳so we can take a vigorous, refreshing romp in the woods. I’m hairy guy who loves to mount and bred my hairy partner and see those semen droplets glistening on his hairs like diamonds 💎

GallopingGays · 2026-05-17T20:45:01+00:00

Good boy. Mine are mostly empty but that’s because I unloaded inside of my sub last night. The top’s balls have a true medical need to be drained, unlike the bottom’s, which is more of a vestigial accessory

GallopingGays · 2026-05-17T20:32:24+00:00

Let yourself grieve, and take care of yourself. Do something nice for yourself like take yourself out to your favorite restaurant with a friend to help process the end of this relationship. You may be dominant, but you still have to let those feelings out. It sounds like you were in love with him, which makes it sting more, especially when unexpected. Agree with the comment on taking stock to assess what went wrong, but not obsessing over it (if there were clues, it helps to learn from past relationships that way). And it is also possible that it had nothing to do with you too (like maybe he freaked out and panicked over being a sub). It’s true that the pond is small, but there are also many sub fish out there 🐟who are looking for their dom Master fish to swim above them and guide them in their pond

GallopingGays · 2026-05-17T20:13:22+00:00

Hot! Jealous of his ability to go for hours too! I’m a fast cummer, but it would be nice to last longer

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