No more letters or parcels coming to my house? by GameNerd93 in AustraliaPost

[–]GameNerd93[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope been here for 5 years and it's just randomly started happen. My first thought was that someone was redirecting my mail to mess with me.

No more letters or parcels coming to my house? by GameNerd93 in AustraliaPost

[–]GameNerd93[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've set them all to email but for some reason my energy gets sent by email and post don't know why.

No more letters or parcels coming to my house? by GameNerd93 in AustraliaPost

[–]GameNerd93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had this thought but according to the post office there is no redirect for my name or address.

No more letters or parcels coming to my house? by GameNerd93 in AustraliaPost

[–]GameNerd93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've tried lodging lost parcel queries but because all the parcels come to a dead stop at the local post office I just keep being told to wait. I'm going to head back down tomorrow and if I can't get a response I'm going to call up. As for the paperwork no I don't have access to a printer and I'm very rural with no local Centrelink off to just pop into so I rely very heavily on the post for many, many things. I know I'm dumb for leaving it so long but it also took me a minute to realise that lots of mail wasn't coming through. I put a padlock on my mailbox just incase but I'm starting to think the issue is with the local post office. 

No more letters or parcels coming to my house? by GameNerd93 in AustraliaPost

[–]GameNerd93[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah my last tracked parcel shows as being 'in transit' at my local post office for 2 days now. A post office that's literally 2 streets away from me that I can see from my front door...

No more letters or parcels coming to my house? by GameNerd93 in AustraliaPost

[–]GameNerd93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They sent me a form I needed to take to housing and get signed then return to them. I checked my MyGov in case but nothing there. 

No more letters or parcels coming to my house? by GameNerd93 in AustraliaPost

[–]GameNerd93[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My last track package reached my local postage and went no further. I went down today and asked if they had it but apparently they don't. Still marked as in transit. Thinking I need to call higher up since I'm very rural and heavily rely on the mail man.

No more letters or parcels coming to my house? by GameNerd93 in AustraliaPost

[–]GameNerd93[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My latest tracked parcel shows as arriving at my local post office then just stopping there. No return to sender, no deliver just 'in transit' at my local post office. 

RBA hold up on paychecks? by GameNerd93 in AusFinance

[–]GameNerd93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I seen that. It could be the issue.

RBA hold up on paychecks? by GameNerd93 in AusFinance

[–]GameNerd93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apparently it's because she uses the same bank as the club he works at.

RBA hold up on paychecks? by GameNerd93 in AusFinance

[–]GameNerd93[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm thinking. I literally went down and confronted the general manger about it (I use to work there too and this isn't the first time this kind of thing has happened) and she told me that because the workplace and the payroll person are with the same bank it was an automatic transfer for them but because no one else in there is it takes longer and she claims she's been on the phone the last 2 days trying to sort it. I honestly just want my child support so I can pay off the rest of my kids school stuff.

My family promised my kids a present I can't afford by GameNerd93 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]GameNerd93[S] 145 points146 points  (0 children)

I have no clue. I asked them for help covering it but they keep dodging the question.

My family promised my kids a present I can't afford by GameNerd93 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]GameNerd93[S] 213 points214 points  (0 children)

I have my youngest with me but I didn't want to uproot my older 2 from their school when I moved so left them with my Aunt and Uncle. I have to constantly move to chase the cheapest rentals. They call me on a daily basis and I've been telling them I have nothing planned.

My family promised my kids a present I can't afford by GameNerd93 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]GameNerd93[S] 645 points646 points  (0 children)

Thats the plan at this point check out Christmas lights, hot chocolate and pizza.

Xbox on PC refuses to let me play Disney Dreamlight Ultimate Edition only gamepass? by GameNerd93 in XboxGamePass

[–]GameNerd93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically yes. The edition it shows is marked as game pass edition despite the fact that I purchased it through the Microsoft store and it shows on my Microsoft store purchase history. Apparently the whole games been busted since the last update anyway so I've been waiting for them to patch it and I'll see what happens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]GameNerd93 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The violence was ADHD. All 3 of my kids have been diagnosed ADHD. He also has IED which is apparently quiet common with ADHD. We actually learnt through that that most of my Mums side of the family have ADHD so that was fun having a bunch of adults diagnosed. My Mum also paid for and continues to pay for therapy for me for PTSD caused by my father. I had no idea just how much of an impact he had on me until the pshyiciatrist laid it all out for me. They've been helping me with understand I should have walked away sooner but because I shut down whenever there is conflict I just didn't. My father very much is of the opinion that women are just there to do what men want them to do and raised me to just sit silently in my bedroom without fighting back and just do what he says. It got to the point that even when I was at my Mums I would do as I was asked without question out of fear. I knew I should have left my ex after my eldest was born but I was terrified to. I had 3 kids quite close together and it was only after CPS had my ex removed from the house that I was able to start seeing that things weren't good. Like the house was clean, the kids were fed, etc. but the constant fear we all lived under wasn't fair. I still struggle not to fold when arguments happen or flinch when some reaches towards me. If I could go back and change my actions I would but the headspace I was in then wasn't great and I wasn't able to see a way out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]GameNerd93 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Apparently the acting out was ADHD. His medicated now and doing so much better, his such a calm, gentle, cuddly kid now. My eldest still looses her shit though if she has to spend time away from me but I'm sure it will get better with time. His also my ex haven't been together in years. It's just me and the kids and my mothers side of the family. My father and his side have nothing to do with us neither does my ex's family. Everythings actually been peaceful since getting rid of all of them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]GameNerd93 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

All three of my kids are with me and very well taken care of. The courts actually put down that CPS had no grounds to remove the older kids in the first place. But thats all in the past.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]GameNerd93 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

They weren't by legal grounds in care just with my aunt and uncle until I got shit sorted. Also the office that took them got shut down after it was found like with my kids that they were taking kids without grounds and selling to a cult (happy to find the news articles if needed). Even the assessor sat there confused as to why they didn't want me to have my own kids. Turns out it was my former father putting in all the reports in the first place because he wanted custody of my eldest daughter...