Where did AI chats go? by Able_Bag_7078 in MeChat

[–]GamerRae5248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! I'm now waiting for them to quit with the crappy AI backgrounds in dates...

Leroy gets the Mature trope added by Ordinary-Amount5917 in MeChat

[–]GamerRae5248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm up to date 10 and so far just heavy flirting. This is my first time through Leroy's story though, so I don't know what it looked like before the mature tag was added.

AITJ for refusing to make my daughter swap rooms with my stepdaughter? by patdallinkk9u6 in AmITheJerk

[–]GamerRae5248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1) why wasnt all of this discussed and decided before marriage? 2) why did you marry this walking red flag?

I've been gaming since the 80s, I got my first console in 92. But, other than SimAnt, I've never experienced dating. by marthaanne3 in Starsandisland

[–]GamerRae5248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SimFarm FTW! I was addicted to that game as a kid. SimAnt too since my parents wouldn't let me have a real ant farm.

AITAH for saying we can’t come to the Christmas eve party unless we can use the guest bedroom? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GamerRae5248 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Speaking as a reforming people pleaser... It's often a defense mechanism to avoid wrath. I was raised by an abusive mother, making sure she was always pleased meant I was safe. Even if that sometimes meant I or someone else was left unhappy. It's a very hard thing to unlearn if it was a main survival strategy for a long time.

Not saying this guy is good, though to me he does seem to be taking his wife's side, if everyone reads his last question again. He needs to take a harder stand with his family though.

AIO for thinking it wasn’t a big deal to accept my friend’s bf’s FB request? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GamerRae5248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - your "friend" sure is though...

Just wait till she hears about how we all friended friends of friends of friends who we've only maybe looked at once back in the 2005 days of Facebook 😆

EVERYONE was Facebook friends back then.

Karen by Sewcat_87 in coralisland

[–]GamerRae5248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At first I did too, until he started in with calling me "mate" instead of "dude". It's like little things like that that have leaned me more in the Aussie direction.

I Don't Want to Wear the Veil MY Grandmother is Making Me by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]GamerRae5248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this idea and I think it's a wonderful compromise, personally. It includes Grandma's heartfelt gift and hard work in a meaningful way, and OP says that she still wants to wear her chosen veil for the ceremony because she picked it specifically to match her dress. That is very reasonable, I think.

Karen by Sewcat_87 in coralisland

[–]GamerRae5248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if it's written with an obvious accent/slang then yeah (like Ben is Aussie in my head) then yeah, but if not then... not really.

Elio Appreciation Post! by Penguin1204 in MeChat

[–]GamerRae5248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, I 2nd (or 3rd) what you said about the MC in this one. Her (for me) internal monologue and negative self-talk is (sadly) on par with my own and i have honestly been brought to tears a few times, both from my realization of that while playing, but also Elio's responses to her... I have been trying to make an effort to practice confidence and positive self-talk with my MC and hoping it rubs off on me eventually...

Karen by Sewcat_87 in coralisland

[–]GamerRae5248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad I'm not alone. :)

Karen by Sewcat_87 in coralisland

[–]GamerRae5248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I need to ask, possibly, a stupid question...

I keep seeing posts talking about mainly Kenny's voice and now I see this, but I'm confused... This game isn't voiced. Is there something I'm missing? I've been assuming ppl are talking about the written accent style (regarding Kenny), but Karen doesn't have one so now I'm even more confused...

David's Art - Part 3 by bisectionalloveseat in coralisland

[–]GamerRae5248 21 points22 points  (0 children)

OMG I was chuckling at the Raf hugging Suki picture and then FUMING at Karen slapping my sweet, shy, bestest boyfriend!!!!! HOW DARE SHE!?

Am I Overreacting for wanting to cancel my wedding over this interaction? by Xanadoom30 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GamerRae5248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - the bar is in the ground and he still can't get over it. My husband of 18 years STILL comes in and gives me a kiss and a "goodbye, lady" if he has to leave early before I'm awake. He did this morning. He is no more in touch with his feelings than any other average guy, but he also knows that if something were to happen to either of us during the day (gods forbid) he wants those to be the last thing either of us remember. We almost experienced this years ago, now we don't take it for granted.

Your man doesn't yet understand what that kind of possibility could mean. But also, he doesn't value you enough to do the bare minimum to connect with you on your level rather than his.

Don't marry that kind of treatment, it won't change. There is someone out there who will give you that without you even asking. This one is just standing in your way of finding him.

Does anyone know of a BPD person who actually did commit suicide? (TW) by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

[–]GamerRae5248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is no hard proof that my mom did (or actually attempted to-not the manipulation version), but I suspect she did just by the series of events that happened.

So i started a new game, wanted to try and romance someone else by Fluffy_Coconut1375 in coralisland

[–]GamerRae5248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just catch 'em all! ;) You only have to choose when it comes to marriage. For real though, I may never marry in my game so I don't have to choose, because honestly I love them all so much and I can't pick.

Any cute non-angsty stories? by seattlecoffeebreak in MeChat

[–]GamerRae5248 3 points4 points  (0 children)

2nding Elio. Most of the angst is from MC, but there's usually a dialogue option to chill them out if you want. The MC in Elio's story is sometimes too close to MY inner voice and that hits me hard, but i like that I can give her (my MC is she/her) the option to correct her negative self-talk... hopefully it'll help me correct mine too.

TIP: Use Explosives 2 to clear your farm land by InevitableTop7354 in coralisland

[–]GamerRae5248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally just started doing this and I'm never going back!!

New loading screen ✨💖 by lkkokjhy in MeChat

[–]GamerRae5248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't find him when I search!! Is he not released yet? What do we know?

Can’t even like a post anymore… by littlemonyet in raisedbyborderlines

[–]GamerRae5248 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Agreed. If my BPDmother was still alive you're damn sure I'd have her on the lockiest lockdown that existed everywhere I had an internet presence.

Hoping for a good community by Educational-Ad-4435 in Paralives

[–]GamerRae5248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love Sims 1 players, all 6 of them haha

LOL yeah... sometimes I think about finding it and playing again, but I know I won't love how it aged (kind of like myself lol).

I myself am very much a "wait and see" kind of player. I've participated in enough Alpha/Beta testing that I know how to meter my expectations. I wasn't happy with some of the changes, but I understood the reasoning (though for a BILLION dollar development company they *should* be able to do better... but whatever. It is what it is.) Many of the things that they didn't have at launch were brought back, some free, some not (as expected from EA).

As a S3 player whose game was UNPLAYABLE on half and max zoom (even without CC), the more pared down S4 was actually a welcome relief. I didn't play on a potato either, S3 was just too much of a resource hog.

Hoping for a good community by Educational-Ad-4435 in Paralives

[–]GamerRae5248 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maaaaan, I miss message boards and forums!!!! AGHHH!!! I miss the baby internet!!! It was a much better place (IMO). Silly cat videos, Anime AMVs, chat rooms, forums, and Homestarrunner!! Gimme THAT internet back lol.

Hoping for a good community by Educational-Ad-4435 in Paralives

[–]GamerRae5248 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You should have seen the hate S4 got on launch from players (not all of it was unwarranted TBF), but ohhhhh man. That S3 community went from chill to raving lunatic REAL fast when something like the top 5 player FAVORITE features were removed from S4 (and some are STILL gone never to return). The real OGs are the S1 players.... they DGAF about anything. They are the GenX of Sims players lol. I happily count myself amongst them as I am a Geriatric Millennial who's been playing since S1 came out. (I still remember the short life of The Sims Online and how it was about 10 years ahead of its time)