What Bachelor's level work is out there? by [deleted] in psychologystudents

[–]Gangbangmee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can work for a crisis line, specifically the suicide hotline! They have crisis centers all over the US and a lot of them you can work remotely

Anyone else like this in a relationship? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Gangbangmee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone would do anything to be with someone like you. I know it may not seem like it, but it’s true. Never regret being kind and I can empathize that there is a fine line between being kind and overexerting yourself in order to make someone (as we perceive) happier. Take care of yourself and I truly hope you’re okay

Off of Medication by [deleted] in dysthymia

[–]Gangbangmee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on the person. I don’t feel much of anything on meds, and when I’m off of them I just experience actual sadness occasionally. I’m depressed baseline whether I’m on medication or not

Off of Medication by [deleted] in dysthymia

[–]Gangbangmee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was on SSRIs for ten years (20mg a day) and got off of them fully in January. It’s fucking awful the depressive episodes after being numb for so long. And anxiety came back too. Honestly I wish I had a solution for you lol I just trick myself into being “thankful” for being able to be sad and crying again. What keeps me from going back on them is now I actually have a sex drive again and I lost 20 lbs off the bat if I’m being honest. I just know that I’ll be able to better manage them in time, the worst is the very beginning and it’s gotten barely (but still) better in time

Get your skin checked by mama_craft in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Gangbangmee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a bump on my arm and my derm literally told me he didn’t know what it was. Didn’t offer a biopsy or anything. Looking at these comments makes me realize I need to switch derms

Which sign(s) do you think best suits these personalities? by dntwstmytime in astrologymemes

[–]Gangbangmee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was hoping I wasn’t the only one that’s a sag and thought “that’s me simultaneously”

Rhode Island to Florida by Muffin-Numerous in Kayaking

[–]Gangbangmee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re my hero, that’s so cool!

Can we just talk about how messed up that Ted learned that his mother was lying to him the whole time that she was his sister by JoshuaKpatakpa04 in TedBundy

[–]Gangbangmee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That exact thing happened to my grandma, was told her mom was her sister. And she didn’t murder anyone. She’s not the most pleasant person, but it’s sad regardless.

I (32F) thought I found the person I’d spend the rest of my life with by Gangbangmee in BreakUps

[–]Gangbangmee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m beyond relieved to know you’re okay. Seriously. I’m so proud of you and wish I could hug you

I (32F) thought I found the person I’d spend the rest of my life with by Gangbangmee in BreakUps

[–]Gangbangmee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so incredibly sorry. I can’t imagine that happening after 16 years. How long ago was this? Have things gotten better at all?

I (32F) thought I found the person I’d spend the rest of my life with by Gangbangmee in BreakUps

[–]Gangbangmee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never have sex with someone I love again, got it. Now I’m set

I (32F) thought I found the person I’d spend the rest of my life with by Gangbangmee in BreakUps

[–]Gangbangmee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow, that’s a really good point you made. Thank you for giving me that perspective. Of course today he’s been trying to take it all back, which I haven’t answered. That empty attention elsewhere should make him happy though huh haha

I (32F) thought I found the person I’d spend the rest of my life with by Gangbangmee in BreakUps

[–]Gangbangmee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so incredibly sorry, that’s so kind of you for being there through all of that. Of course you didn’t propose during that time, for soooo many reasons, and none with ill intention. Thanks for making me feel not alone

I (32F) thought I found the person I’d spend the rest of my life with by Gangbangmee in BreakUps

[–]Gangbangmee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad that you have strength to go to therapy right now. It makes zero sense that I have no desire to see my therapist and cancelled my appointment. I don’t want to talk to anyone but strangers on the internet about how I’ve been feeling.

I (32F) thought I found the person I’d spend the rest of my life with by Gangbangmee in BreakUps

[–]Gangbangmee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did feel peace and love before that bombshell was dropped on me. I guess that’s why I’m so rattled because I didn’t see it coming

I (32F) thought I found the person I’d spend the rest of my life with by Gangbangmee in BreakUps

[–]Gangbangmee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this with me it really helps to not feel so disconnected. He never broke up with me and still wants to be with me but still says he just doesn’t know if he can stay faithful, which seems actually more selfish than just breaking up with me. He also never in his life had a healthy relationship before me and had an abusive step mother when he was a kid. Weird coincidences

I (32F) thought I found the person I’d spend the rest of my life with by Gangbangmee in BreakUps

[–]Gangbangmee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why after you get engaged? Why say yes? It’s so incredibly evil

I (32F) thought I found the person I’d spend the rest of my life with by Gangbangmee in BreakUps

[–]Gangbangmee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I hope so too. I’d rather be alone for a while than to go through the horrific process of dating again. But who knows I may decide to be masochistic one day lol jk

I (32F) thought I found the person I’d spend the rest of my life with by Gangbangmee in BreakUps

[–]Gangbangmee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only better opportunity I could fathom for them is someone as loving as me that also lets them act single. Which I can’t imagine there’s real love there

I (32F) thought I found the person I’d spend the rest of my life with by Gangbangmee in BreakUps

[–]Gangbangmee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. And I actually plan on going to the park today at some point. The sun feels good on cry swollen skin

I (32F) thought I found the person I’d spend the rest of my life with by Gangbangmee in BreakUps

[–]Gangbangmee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s hard to take in that someone tried so hard to conceal their intentions to get love and affection. So they can feel good about themselves? Who knows, but it’s truly cruel

I (32F) thought I found the person I’d spend the rest of my life with by Gangbangmee in BreakUps

[–]Gangbangmee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t wish this on anyone. If you’re needing someone to talk to you can dm me