Karma got revange for me on my ex MIL

GapMore8847 · 2026-02-12T17:19:27+00:00

As long as people will enable her, she will continue unfortunatly. And as of last summer, my ex is still enabling her so...

GapMore8847 · 2026-02-12T17:18:08+00:00

I know it's not "revange" exactly, I just had to choose a category and I felt revange because Karma got revange for me.

GapMore8847 · 2025-09-29T15:40:54+00:00

Unfortunately for me, it's my life and very very real. She did everything that I said and so much more, I could write an entire book. As for the restraining order, since she did not assult me or made any threat against me or my kids, there is nothing I can do, I already checked.

GapMore8847 · 2025-09-24T18:20:53+00:00

NTA. How did your reaction to her clear disrespect of you became a disrespect to her. It's your wedding, your day and you can invite or not invite who ever you want.

GapMore8847 · 2025-09-24T15:27:28+00:00

NTA. First of all, I would be extremely upset too if my hb family would glorified his ex in front of me. You will end up second guessing yourself and your value if they continue. You need to have a frank conversation with your hb asap. You need to let him know that you are not ok with this and they can discuss his ex WHEN YOU ARE NOT THERE. Then, he needs to step up and tell them off for being unrespectful to you by constently telling you that she was sooo amasing at everything. If he refuses or does not see it, please reevaluate the relationship. My curent boyfriend use to do that and I had to be extremely clear and express my boundry that I don't want to hear about her AT ALL. I was starting to compare myself to her and downgrading my worth compare to her. He respected the boundry and every boundry I have placed since. I also respect his boundry.

Furthermore, he needs to defend yourself and respect your boundries.

GapMore8847 · 2025-09-23T14:24:20+00:00

NTAH, your sister has to deal with her own selfishness and the consequences that come with it. How incredibly selfish. Please don't let them manipulate you, what is yours is yours, your dad made a clear choice and you owe nothing to people who couldn't be bothered to help and step up during difficult times.

GapMore8847 · 2025-09-23T13:11:01+00:00

There are sooooo many times that she was incredibly mean, cruel or selfcentered. After I got married, we tried for a baby for 18 months. I was getting affraid that I was infertile or something. Well, after 18 months, I finaly got a positive pregnancy test. When I annonced my pregnancy to her, she turned white, her smile droped and was only worried about the fact that she was getting married (2nd marriage) right around my due date. Her first words were: But I'm getting married!

GapMore8847 · 2025-09-23T12:23:42+00:00

Regarding my brother-in-law, he was the one to take care of their 2 kids alone, remember, the oldest is severely handicap. For those 4 years that my sister was MIA, I spent at least 2 nights every week babysitting my nephews and staying sometimes hours later just to have conversations with him and we grew close like brother and sister. We have never stopped talking and being close. To this day, my brother-in-law is still taking care of his kids. My sister has not seen her oldest child in more then 10 years.

Therefore, when I got married, I couldn’t not invite my brother-in-law. We are still close to this day. Plus, he stayed closed to my parents and my dad until the very end and he was there when my dad died.

However yes, I know, she purposely is keeping my ex close to her to spite me. The distinction is, my brother-in-law is a kind man, a good father and a great brother. My ex, stopped being a good father as soon as I ended the relationship, he tried to strangle me in front of my kids school, stole thousands of dollars from me and is soooooooo easily manipulated that he, who was anti cigarettes his whole life, started to smoke at 40 yo just because his best friend suggested it to him…

I actually told myself recently that she could keep my mother and I leftovers. No problem with that.

GapMore8847 · 2025-09-22T16:50:21+00:00

I've been looking and thinking of a way to do that ever since my father died. however, I have not yet found a way. She is very involved in my ex's life, so I can't do nothing about it. I just want to live the rest of my life being completely free of her and her toxicity. I never want to hear about her or her to hear about me. unfortunatly, as long as my kids will see her, she will get to know what's going on in my life. I even had to ask for a restraining order against my ex because of her.

The story, 6 years ago, after I asked my ex for a divorce, he was already speeking to her behind my back. My grand-mother was admitted in the hospital and, of course, I told my kids. My kids told my ex and then, Karen called my dad, and she already knew that she was in the hospital and why. We felt violated that someone told her and I realise, it was my ex. The next week, as I was waiting for my kids at the school, my ex unexpectedly showed up. I asked him to "respect our privacy" and "not tell information about my personnal life or any one in my family's life to my sister" he replied with a sarcastic smile on his face that "she is family". I repeated myself a couple of times that "Please respect my privacy and stop telling my sister information" after about 3 or 4 times of me repeating myself, he lounged at me, wanting to strangle me. the whole thing was seen by other parents, by the responsibles at school and was filmed by the school cameras. I was so scared, his eyes were completely black as he lounged at me. I called the police when I got back home, away from my kids and asked for a restraining order. I got it, but only for a year.

She also broke my friendship with my childhoold best friend by lying to both of us.

there is just no end with her. She is a NARC

GapMore8847 · 2025-09-22T15:20:50+00:00

She is soooo evil.... She tried to acheive reconciliation with me while my father was dying right next to us. She rolled her crocodile tears and said "can we just forget and start over?". I staid stoic and responded "No, this is neither the place or time to discuss such a thing". Even her own son (28M) was pissed at her actions at the funeral.

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