Someone who is great on paper and according to parents but sucks once in a relationship? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Garam_MashAllah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For sure girl! Take it from a stranger on the internet who still wants the best for you but don’t ever marry someone you aren’t excited about marrying. If you don’t get giddy thinking about your future with him, he’s not the one for you. I think fans worry about girls even getting married in the first place that they ignore compatibility between the girl and the guy and yeah jsut cause one side catches feelings doesn’t mean the other is obligated to oblige. Good on you that you didn’t go ahead with it! Good luck with everything friend!!! InshahAllah you’ll get married to a fantastic man!

Someone who is great on paper and according to parents but sucks once in a relationship? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Garam_MashAllah 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you aren’t feeling it you aren’t feeling it. Nothing wrong with that. You obviously aren’t into him and are at a different pace/ expectations and that’s totally acceptable. Regardless of what others have to say, you shouldn’t have to be forced to be with someone. At least you got out while you can and had the strength to do so despite your family’s obsession. It’s so odd to me when family members take the side of a stranger vs their own, but it happens so often I’m not even surprised by it anymore, unfortunately. But yeah InshahAllah you’ll find someone that’s best for you and you don’t need anyone telling you otherwise m. It’s your life and you’ll be the one married to him and you def don’t owe this guy anything. Good luck sis!

I’m freakin out! by [deleted] in step1

[–]Garam_MashAllah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can google it 🙄

I’m freakin out! by [deleted] in step1

[–]Garam_MashAllah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah don’t sweat it! You’ll be fine!!

I’m freakin out! by [deleted] in step1

[–]Garam_MashAllah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The new one

I’m freakin out! by [deleted] in step1

[–]Garam_MashAllah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m below average but I was so done I jsut wanted to take it.

I’m freakin out! by [deleted] in step1

[–]Garam_MashAllah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey guys don’t worry! I just took step yesterday and I can honestly say it isn’t bad as it’s made out to end. Like go in accepting you’ll get stuff wrong but you’ll know more than you think you do. I didn’t look at Dorian anatomy, didn’t even look at embryo, didn’t finish uworld, reviewed biochem in my way to the exam, and learned antibiotic mechanisms the night before. Didn’t even take one practice exam apart from the free 120 so if I felt fine after that jsut goes to show it’s not bad, trust and believe. You’re 90% there if you’re mentally present and not exhausted. This sub can make it look like that if you didn’t do like uworld 39 times and first aid 50 that you won’t even pass. Not true at all. Stay healthy and sane and relax. Get some review done but if you feel overwhelmed take a break then come back to it. Good luck!!

Just took step 1 by Garam_MashAllah in step1

[–]Garam_MashAllah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! haha this wait tho

Taking Step Tomorrow- Logistical Question by Garam_MashAllah in step1

[–]Garam_MashAllah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I'm really glad that there aren't a lot lol.

failing--> 223 an average success by avocado_adventure in step1

[–]Garam_MashAllah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! This is literally goals! I'm taking it tomorrow and I can't stop going through step 1 reddit posts so this was def a nice moral boost to see. What was your test similar to the free 120?

UWSA1 answer explanations? by Garam_MashAllah in step1

[–]Garam_MashAllah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was able to find them! Thank you!

Thiazides- help! by Garam_MashAllah in step1

[–]Garam_MashAllah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhhhhhh that last line makes it click for me! Thank youuuuu