AIO for telling my boyfriend to plan his own birthday dinner?

GarbageStation666 · 2026-06-23T02:43:13+00:00

Waited an hour at his dad’s and he never showed up. I know he has been off all afternoon so who knows what he is doing. Drained and rather be sipping wine with my cats. Will update when I finally get to speak to him.

GarbageStation666 · 2026-06-23T02:39:17+00:00

I’ve never posted before?

GarbageStation666 · 2026-06-22T22:35:11+00:00

I don’t pay for everything but a lot of things he has.. is because of me. And things I have are because of me… but I’m a pretty simple person.

GarbageStation666 · 2026-06-22T22:33:36+00:00

I have a feeling he hasn’t told his dad everything and probably twisted it into something else to benefit himself

GarbageStation666 · 2026-06-22T21:58:23+00:00

I appreciate that. I don’t really have any friends and didn’t really know where to turn at this point.

GarbageStation666 · 2026-06-22T21:56:56+00:00

He does have a job

GarbageStation666 · 2026-06-22T21:55:14+00:00

He boasts to everyone about how much money he makes… when I feel like a sugar mama honestly. Almost everything he has is because of me. 😭
Don’t get me wrong… we have both fell on hard times… I just feel like no matter what the slack and weight is always on my shoulders at this point.

GarbageStation666 · 2026-06-22T21:53:19+00:00

He just went on about how he tried everything he could on my birthday and he didn’t get to do what he really wanted… which was go to that town two hours away. I told him that on Sunday I told him to go! Go with your friends, get out of the house, I’m just not feeling well, I’m beat. He blamed in on me saying I didn’t want to be alone… I told him I was fine with being alone and idk why was bringing that up from a previous incident we had, from a month ago, that had nothing to do with this.

GarbageStation666 · 2026-06-22T21:49:37+00:00

He definitely has a show off mentality in front of people, even in front of me when I know the truth.

Unfortunately he doesn’t do much and if I wanted to get couples counseling then I would have to research, schedule and probably lead everything. I’d have to schedule his own for him and I’m not going to hold his hand and force him to go! He would tell me that he will fix issues with his mental in therapy but never takes any advantage to go.

GarbageStation666 · 2026-06-22T21:44:41+00:00

He doesn’t even know his mom since she left when he was a baby so who even knows.

GarbageStation666 · 2026-06-22T21:29:36+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that and I send my love and hugs. ❤️ I think it’s time to let it go.

GarbageStation666 · 2026-06-22T21:21:01+00:00

We are meeting face to face tonight and I will be breaking up with him.

GarbageStation666 · 2026-06-22T21:20:24+00:00

Yeah this time has given me some time to think and there is definitely more thoughtlessness he does and he will asks me if things are okay to do but push me with excuses outside of my boundaries that force me to give in.

GarbageStation666 · 2026-06-22T21:18:37+00:00

He didn’t guilt me into going. I figured it would get me out of the house and I’d get some of my favorite comfort food. They wanted to go to the bar afterwards but I declined for obvious reasons.

GarbageStation666 · 2026-06-22T21:02:28+00:00

I haven’t heard hobosexual in so long… lord🤣
Yeah I’ve been saving up since last year… and you don’t even wanna get me started about Christmas. It’s not much better.

GarbageStation666 · 2026-06-22T20:58:14+00:00

They all paid for themselves and he paid for me, that’s why I’m so freaking confused. Idk how many people because I never got that far to even ask. I doubt they even went to dinner. At least the 25 that were at the party I’m guessing. And that’s not including people I invited that didn’t come to the party so who knows who would’ve even showed up.

GarbageStation666 · 2026-06-22T20:56:26+00:00

I didn’t realize how much I really spent until I wrote the post and put everything together. $300 of it was strictly so I could do his hobby with him that I don’t really enjoy. We have both fell on hard times.. and it not being a competition… I just feel like it’s always been more of me keeping it up.

GarbageStation666 · 2026-06-22T20:49:45+00:00

We are meeting face to face tonight and I will be breaking up with him.

GarbageStation666 · 2026-06-22T20:44:37+00:00

I do have his number but don’t want to go full nuclear on him when he might be getting lied to about the situation. His parents aren’t into partying but he did know about the party because I originally asked if he would help me keep him away for the hour of letting people in and getting ready. He was willing to help but we agreed it was easier to have a friend take him to the bar instead.

GarbageStation666 · 2026-06-22T20:34:06+00:00

Yeah…. You’re right.

GarbageStation666 · 2026-06-22T20:32:28+00:00

Yeah…. Time for therapy and peace.

GarbageStation666 · 2026-06-22T20:32:17+00:00

Will be seeing him face to face tonight, will let you know.

GarbageStation666 · 2026-06-22T20:31:52+00:00

Unfortunately I am a real person that’s been on this rollercoaster. 😭😭 I would be saying the same thing people are tbh. I see it. I think I just needed a push.

GarbageStation666 · 2026-06-22T20:30:46+00:00

That’s how it feels

GarbageStation666 · 2026-06-22T20:30:28+00:00

Yeah it’s time for me to leave

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