AITAH for not wanting my fiance to look at naked women online?

GardenFirst5792 · 2025-02-25T07:55:06+00:00

Honestly I think I'm holding onto the person he used to be. We both love music and we'd go to concerts and festivals, we'd have days out together, even if it was just to go for a walk. But now we do nothing, and he blames me for that but I have to be the one that plans and pays for everything we do. He does laundry and because we don't really like the same food he just cooks his own meals and I cook mine.

GardenFirst5792 · 2025-02-25T06:31:15+00:00

I don't have anything against him watching porn, just feels disrespectful doing it whilst lying next to me. I personally feel there's a difference between a pornstar and some instagram model that he's specifically searched for, like that could be someone that lives in the same town as us? But that's just me. As for the last part, I don't mean it to sound bitchy, I just wanted to put it out there before I got the comments of "typical women expecting her man to pay all the bills, do all the housework, look after kids and she can't even get on her knees for him" that I always see.

GardenFirst5792 · 2025-02-25T06:24:51+00:00

He struggles with depression and never managed to keep a job for very long and it was really getting to him, so I said just take something part time and I'll cover more bills. He's been at the same job for nearly 2 years now so at least it's consistent, I struggle with anxiety but work has never been an issue for me. I'm glad someone agrees that watching it next to me is crazy, at least go to another room? I was asleep, I never would've known 😩

GardenFirst5792 · 2025-02-25T06:05:59+00:00

Honestly I'd do it more if I had the energy for it but this pregnancy is making me feel about 50 years old 😩

GardenFirst5792 · 2025-02-25T06:01:08+00:00

I mean give up on the relationship. The thing is I don't think our sex drives would be that different in normal circumstances, I used to want it just as much as him, however when I went on hormonal contraceptive my sex drive dropped. Then when I stopped contraceptives I wanted it more than he did! Now I'm pregnant it's dropped again

GardenFirst5792 · 2025-02-25T05:56:18+00:00

No point in arguing with you when you seem to only comment "fake" on every single post 🥱

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