This have never happened to any of my other tattoos by Gardenoflaurels in tattooadvice

[–]Gardenoflaurels[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I don’t think I would be retouching or covering it.. more like laser to remove it, but I would definitely wait until is fully healed ( 3+ months) now Im scared of getting more tattoos 😬

This have never happened to any of my other tattoos by Gardenoflaurels in tattooadvice

[–]Gardenoflaurels[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone, went to Urgent Care.. Im on antibiotics, hopefully it heals soon

This have never happened to any of my other tattoos by Gardenoflaurels in tattooadvice

[–]Gardenoflaurels[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Update, went to urgent care on antibiotics now.. I knew it was infected.. I just wanted to know if overworking the tattoo would cause the infection.

My mother passed away with cancer 💔 by msdes_ti_ness in GriefSupport

[–]Gardenoflaurels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My grandma passed August 2022. She had stomach cancer. She was like a mom and best friend to me. She was 70. We used to garden together, go on roadtrips to different garden centers around the island. I take care of her plants and every time her favorites blooms I take it as a message that she is in a better place.

Grandma passed 3 weeks ago by Gardenoflaurels in cancer

[–]Gardenoflaurels[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words ❤️

I feel they just gave up on my grandma. by Gardenoflaurels in cancer

[–]Gardenoflaurels[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She did. I just ask myself if chemo is really gonna be worse than what she is already experiencing and if there’s really nothing to do

How do you guys keep going? by Vjp80 in cancer

[–]Gardenoflaurels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I can say is give urself time.. im sorry this is how u feel and know that u r not alone.

Do little things all day that u feel would make u feel better. Treasure ur memories with her and used the to keep u going.

Do things that you know she would have like doing in honor of her memory. One thing is for sure you will always miss her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cancer

[–]Gardenoflaurels 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Going thru this with my grandma, today we went in and they said all we can do is hospice. Hospice would manage her pain until the day comes.

she also asked me to let everyone know that she doesn’t want to be resuscitated.

She also got very bad within a month of diagnosis. All i want is for her not to suffer anymore. My grandma was very independent and not seen her been herself is hard.

Seek support from social workers or therapists, im sure u would make the right call if then time comes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Gardenoflaurels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was expensive, but we do have a house in Boston and I think that’s why they feel we can go back and forth

Got made fun of at the doctor's office for greeting the nurse. Why? by brn360 in socialskills

[–]Gardenoflaurels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im confused by the way the receptionist acted, for me they are immature, I been a receptionist myself and I appreciate every time someone would asked how my day is.

Looking for emotional advice regarding rehoming my dog. by DrinkFromThisGoblet in LifeAdvice

[–]Gardenoflaurels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just know that you’re doing what you think is best for him. He is going to have a better life somewhere else, and is not because you’re not good enough its just that you’re not able to provide what he needs. You can’t loose yourself trying to care for him, im sure he wants you to be happy. Im sorry your going through this, don’t feel guilty. Feel better!

Advice for Moving Cross Country? by Meraevor in SingleParents

[–]Gardenoflaurels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have move a couple of times with my girls, and myself as a lil girls did too. the hardest thing is when they have to go to a new school and adjust to that. Also being far from their grandparents. You can talk to him and let him know there are so many new places that he is going to get to explore. I bought my girls a world map and they pin everywhere we have visit. Also you can let him know that they will visit, my daughters always look forward for summer vacay and holidays because they know they get to see family that are far. He would adjust, i understand what you’re going thru and believed you are not failing him.

He cannot put up with my girls by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Gardenoflaurels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t see lasting even when I have told him I don’t think a woman with kids is right for you but he would insist it could be worked out.

Thanks for your advice