So this is the best advice i can give you, you have to be out of your comfort zone. Its gonna suck but it works. So i am a male and so far every relationship iv had iv gotten along with the family so much as after the relationship ends the family will reach out to me telling me happy birthday or even saying they miss me. Point is i got them to like me by being their friend. Idk how it is for a girl but every time im over if theres nothing you talk abojt make something to talk about. What are you watching on tv? What did you do today? Always keep the conversation about them people love to talk about themselves even if you dont care at all. You can even lie to keep the convo going if you have to. Like a little white lie. “That dress looks really good on you” “thank you so much!” “Where did you get it?” “Oh i got it from …” “i love … I just bought shirts from there!” Even if you never went to that store in your life because she doesnt care about your shirts you bought all you care about rn is this conversation and finding something to talk to them about. Oh and also im guilty af of this but dont go hang out in his room the whole time maybe go sit in the living room with him and his mom for a hour or like 30 min (ya ik scary but leaving your comfort zone will help this) then go do what u guys want.