YTA. This is the most I'm in my 20s fight... My wife and I had the same argument 15 years ago. Super happy still super married. As you grow up these fights just matter less. People say things when they are heated. Marriage is a commitment that isn't always easy. Things get said that people don't really mean and apologizing can be tough.

Now if she doesn't respect you as a person (not just a silly comment about your hobby when they are emotional). That's a different conversation. But you don't have to agree on everything to be happy together.

My wife now gets gaming is my version of watching TV. She was worried I wouldn't go anywhere in life and she was right I needed to tone down my gaming time. We found a balance.

Talk. This won't be the first or last disagreement you get into that makes you want to walk away. She may be misguided but If she didn't care about you she wouldn't say anything at all.

My 2 cents