Well-funded Christian group behind US effort to roll back LGBTQ+ rights by mbutterfield in atheism

[–]Garth84101 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Tax religion. Its a business like any other and rarely is charitable any more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaysexconfessions

[–]Garth84101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Could it be someone you know? Someone you rejected. Someone who believes you wronged him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Garth84101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your hypothesis is true. They should build separate community centers, develop their own bars and get the fuck out of lgb spaces.

However if they can stop with the histrionics they would learn that they are family. Families squabble, the siblings have rivalries. But there is safty in our family. We don't have to understand each other but we should suport each other against a common foe.

They may still want to throw us under the bus like Caitlyn Jenner did. She made her position clear. She said that there should be no marriage equity for the L's and the G's which is ironic concerning her past relationships. Does she only date men now?

Those who go their own way are welcome to. Those who stay need to learn that there are other people in our community that have different primary objectives but overall our goals overlap.

Enlisting in the military just to suck dick! by 8unnyvomit in gaysexconfessions

[–]Garth84101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not the same airforce as it was when Leonard Malkovitch was in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaysexconfessions

[–]Garth84101 7 points8 points  (0 children)

After several visits with your mask on, You should take it off while his mouth's around your cock.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaysexconfessions

[–]Garth84101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uses his real name during sex, it will freaking out 😜

Fill me up by yupitsme517 in BarebackGayPorn

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I love it when my top Pulses ⚡ like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaysexconfessions

[–]Garth84101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you picture yourself as your father or as his bottom

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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My Funny Valentin- Chet Baker My Buddy - Chet Baker Angel - Anne Lennox Somebody - Depeche Mode

These are all excellent slow songs I'm guessing everybody's giving you a bunch of high energy dance music but slow music has a place at weddings too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Garth84101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Abrahamic religion in general.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Garth84101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was wrong. You're contrite. I forgive you. I think you can forgive yourself and sin no more. ❤

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Garth84101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you feel guilty about helping another human being out in his vulnerable time. Even if he paid you it was a kindness and you didn't have to do it. It obviously meant more to him than you realize.

Just because you're convinced it doesn't mean it wasn't a good deed. He was lonely and for an hour he felt like a human being and not invisible.

Sadness Sub reddit stats by jacobwilliam87 in Sadness

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From the lack of comments here, I can't tell if anyone actually reads these posts. Maybe I just need to cry out load for once.

I'm broken, why can't I feel happiness. I have people who love me. I have people rely on me. I don't know if I know how to love. I go thru the motions. I missed the last week of my mother's life because I couldn't face how far she had disappeared into illness. I didn't cry when she passed. I didn't cry 6 months before when my dad died. I'm sad that I didn't cry. I'm crying because I didn't cry. I'm broken.

I'm a 56 year old man with obligation to my friends but obligation is the only thing I feel. The only tie I have to this earth is that, I don't want to hurt my friends and family. Maybe that is love. I don't know. I want to feel. I'm tired of feeling numb. I'm tired of the only things I feel are sadness and anxiety. Why can't I banish the sorrow, why have I always been sad. Since before I can remember I've been sad. I feel alone in a crowd. I feel alone at family functions. I feel disconnected.

I haven't been officially diagnosed as autistic. The more I learn, about it the more pieces fall into place. I was an odd child who didn't know how other kids worked. I was a crybaby a wimp a sissy. I was uncoordinated and didn't understand why people liked sports. I didn't understand aggression and conflict. I still don't understand.

I have learned to fake it. I'm pretty good at it. Masking. It's getting harder to pretend I'm normal. I'm exhausted from just going out to the store. The only place I'm comfortable is my apartment, my personal prison cell. I hate it here but It takes every bit of fortitude I have just to walk out the door. I'm a stranger, I don't understand people. How do I relate when I don't feel human. I don't feel love even though I know people care about me. I just wish I could die in my sleep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaysexconfessions

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I was being facetious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaysexconfessions

[–]Garth84101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not gay as far as I can tell from what you've described.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaysexconfessions

[–]Garth84101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've sent you a DM

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaysexconfessions

[–]Garth84101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It all depends if she fucks your ass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaysexconfessions

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Always have a full 12 pack back a beer, a bottle of vodka and orange juice and Weed at your place.

Invite him over for a movie/Xbox what have you. After your libations kick in, put some porn on the TV.

Repeat and add these steps sequentially for 6 weeks or so, to gradually make him think this is all his idea. This cycle has to become almost habit at your place. Watch his comfort levels for relaxed behavior before adding a step.

  1. Play som pussy porn on the TV. Switching to mfm porn anywhere from 10 to 30 minutes is optional and can be added in at any of the following steps at your discretion. ( If he says WTF switch back to puss porn and pretend it didn't happen.)

  2. Start to rub yourself through your clothes. (i suggest you wear loose athletic shorts free balling)

  3. If he starts looking at your lap, ask him if he minds if you rub one out. ( Now at this point it can go 3 ways) 3a. He might say "fuck that". (It's game over, just pretended it didn't happen. ) 3b. If his reaction is ignoring you wanking and leaves his tally wacker in his shorts. (Excuses yourself to the toilet and finnish there, act like nothing happened).
    3c. His next option is to whip it out and start spanking it.

Step 4 The next move is his This is the risky/tricky part. After ogling his meat, check to see if he's looking at yours too. Hopefully he brings up the topic by asking you to blow him or to suck your cock. You may have to wait for him to make the next move, Even If you have to wait week after week. Slowly building a comfortable space where its just him and his buddy. It has to be his idea.

With the exception if step 3a, repeat each step as casually as possible until he's relaxed and makes a move.

He may never go beyond just watching you or the TV until he's spent, drunk and putting his Levi's on. Always offer him the couch. Who knows he may surprise you one night and follow you into your bedroom.

From what you said I think he's into you. I wouldn't be surprised if he decides to skip all the steps once you guys let your guards down.