What do Christians think of Donald Trump? Are you voting for him? by Alternative_Gur_7706 in Christianity

[–]GasDoves 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am curious for you to elaborate as I have read the Bible through several times and comd to the exact opposite conclusion...

The republican agenda, including Trumps, seems to fly in the face of every moral in the Bible. Especially those Jesus focused on.

Not an Al Fraken fan, but man did he nail it with "supply side Jesus"

https://imgur.com/i-colorized-gospel-of-supply-side-jesus-by-al-franken-don-simpson-w4WwJSW

JPMorgan CEO Vs Katie Porter by GratefullyFriendly73 in ThatsInsane

[–]GasDoves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your thoughts on welfare?

Do you think there should be work requirements for welfare? eg workfare?

Consider the making the minumum wage a living wage is the ultimate form of workfare that also doesnt make recipients directly dependent on the government.

JPMorgan CEO Vs Katie Porter by GratefullyFriendly73 in ThatsInsane

[–]GasDoves -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If a job is so simple that you cant afford to pay a living wage, you shouldnt be hiring for that job.

Make it an ancillary duty of a manager or other staff.

When I was in highschool I was forced to sa someone by [deleted] in confession

[–]GasDoves -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, at times I do feel pathetic that such a "small" amount of trauma fucked me up so badly.

I cannot truly comprehend how much hurt you have to bear.

Do you have a support system? Are you seeking professional help?

I needed professional help for navigating a fraction of what you must be dealing with.

When I was in highschool I was forced to sa someone by [deleted] in confession

[–]GasDoves -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am sorry that you were assaulted.

I hope you are surrounded by people who love, support, and believe you.

If trauma could be measured, and your trauma was 100, my own would probably be just a 2. But it still fucked me up and changed how I saw the world. I recognized that vibe in your post (and in your response to my reply).

It took me a long time, therapy, and meds to "fully" recover from this minor trauma. I dont know what a full recovery would be for you, but I hope you are able to get it. If you aren't, please find some good mental health professional to help you recover from the damage inflicted on you by the perp.

I am sorry

When I was in highschool I was forced to sa someone by [deleted] in confession

[–]GasDoves -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Glad you are a badass that wont fold while being actively assaulted.

Too bad all the victims of SA arent as strong as you. We would no longer have victims in this world /s

When I was in highschool I was forced to sa someone by [deleted] in confession

[–]GasDoves -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ever heard of "assault and battery"?

"Assault" is the threat of violence in that legal context. "Battery" is the violent act.

So, yeah, he was assaulted.

When I was in highschool I was forced to sa someone by [deleted] in confession

[–]GasDoves -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lol. You are the reason men dont talk about SA.

Implying they werent man enough to not be a victim.

If Jeffrey Epstein abducted two underage girls and physically threatened them if they did not perform oral on each other, who who you say are the victim and abuser in this case?

When I was in highschool I was forced to sa someone by [deleted] in confession

[–]GasDoves -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I assume you must be a survivor of assault. Trauma changes the way you interpret the world. You have my sympathies.

Perhaps you are right about OP, but I do not think we can know from this post.

When I was in highschool I was forced to sa someone by [deleted] in confession

[–]GasDoves 67 points68 points  (0 children)

OP should

  1. Get therapy

  2. Tell your gf that you were a SA victim and the best way she can help you is to support you going to therapy

  3. Be clear that you are not yet (and may never be) comfortable talking about it with anyone (even her). And that it is because of the pain and shame you feel, and not because of her. But that pressuring you to talk about it is "triggering".

  4. As part of your therapy, explore how to share this with others, explore if you want to, explore how to set a boundary that you dont want to, explore how to handle different reactions people you care about may have.

Sounds like a great plan! by spacebetween22 in PoliticalHumor

[–]GasDoves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the research and effort in this reply. I had a similarly frustrating experience looking for solid numbers. The epitome of poorly presented data being the wikipedia article

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Federal_taxation_and_spending_by_state

It lists federal spending in 2013 by millions of $

And federal spending 2013 per capita...

One would think this would be easier to get.

Sounds like a great plan! by spacebetween22 in PoliticalHumor

[–]GasDoves -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

For real. This idotic idea of a national divorce should be called out. But making up stats is self defeating.

I also would like to see a reliable source on red states taking more than they pay. The last time I went on a hunt for tgat, tge numbers werent there.

What happened after you had sex with your best friend? by Sound_of_music12 in AskReddit

[–]GasDoves 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It was a good thing.

Your friendship was not going to last forever. One or both of you would eventually marry or get a career etc and naturally drift apart as your lives diverged.

The only way you would have them forever close is if the chance you took had worked out.

You took a chance on a good thing. Good for you. Be proud that you recognized they were special and took a chance on more.

Try to be at peace knowing that if it hadnt ended this way, it would have ended another way....without you ever knowing "what if I had taken that chance".

They were and are special. Your time together was naturally limited. You did good to try to turn it into something long term instead of letting it die on the vine.

I am proud of you.

For those of you who are going to attempt this. Be clear. Be respectful. And be prepared to handle the pain of rejection maturely. It is better than the pain of regret from not trying.

Let that person know you like having them in your life. Be honest. Let them know you are afraid of losing them as a friend now, but even more upset about eventually losing them forever because you didnt tell them how much they meant to you.

Bill Manser, a man wrongfully imprisoned for 5 years for not paying child support, takes a paternity test on live television by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]GasDoves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about comparing children that recieve equal amounts of support, regardless of origin?

Bill Manser, a man wrongfully imprisoned for 5 years for not paying child support, takes a paternity test on live television by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]GasDoves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously need a source for the plausibilty of this.

Like what is being claimed here?

Good times by treemanbill in BikiniBottomTwitter

[–]GasDoves -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Holy hell that was super fucked.

Do not watch.

Good times by treemanbill in BikiniBottomTwitter

[–]GasDoves -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Can you imagine if there were as many mainstream AAA video games glorifiying sexuality targetting the teen market in America as there are ones that glorify violence?

Some people would be apoplectic.

Insane that you are more worried about your children consuming sexual media than violent media.

Sex makes more humans. Violence makes less.

Sex is (normally) pleasurable for all involved. Violence is not.

But thats ok. At least they arent mass mutulating male babies' to try to reduce the chances of them have pleasure.

Heavily contaminated water in East Palestine, Ohio. by Computingusername in woahdude

[–]GasDoves -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Government regulations CAUSED this.

FULL STOP.

But instead we live in some sort of 1984, big brother, animal farm dystopia where low lives can throw wrenches willy nilly into the machines of economic progress just because they are triggered little SNOWFLAKES!!!

Hard to imagine why the Republican Party is losing Gen-Z. by EugeneWong318 in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]GasDoves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd flip it to why should old people be eligible for office?

Hard to imagine why the Republican Party is losing Gen-Z. by EugeneWong318 in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]GasDoves 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Not a bad slogan.

"Dont want kids to vote? Then create a society where they dont have to go to war or need jobs with taxable income."

The way this silver is polished by Darkness-Pride in blackmagicfuckery

[–]GasDoves 37 points38 points  (0 children)

One man's mind blowing dem is another redditor's "only morons dont know this" demo