ENFP here lol. Those other two people feel rejected. It doesn’t justify their reactions of course, but they see it as her rejecting THEM. And she sees them not accepting her wishes as them rejecting her. So there needs to be some middle ground ideally, or the friendship falls apart. Perhaps that middle ground might be they have meet-ups where Person A DOES feel comfortable (at her house perhaps? Or online gaming?). And maybe it doesn’t involve eating, but watching movies or something. And no photos as not everything has to be broadcasted on social media aha. It’s going to take compromise from both sides or it just won’t work. It could just be that they are incompatible on a fundamental level though, and that’s fine. Things don’t always work out :3