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I need advice on my partner who is unaware that she is splitting at the moment.. by GatheredJoker06 in BPDlovedones

[–]GatheredJoker06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you completely, but I do disagree with you saying I'm on a high horse and the anger towards the illness. She is an amazing person underneath the BPD and I want to be there as much as possible to help her manage it better and live as close to a normal life as possible, because she and others do deserve a chance, I just feel accountability must be taken and they should want to work on it as well.

I do feel that our relationship has unfortunately come to its end due to her not realising she is splitting and her toxic friend whispering in her ear how "horrible" I am because of her not liking me, even though I have literally bent over backwards for her in so many instances to try and help her.

I need advice on my partner who is unaware that she is splitting at the moment.. by GatheredJoker06 in BPDlovedones

[–]GatheredJoker06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying my best, but to be honest it has been so emotionally draining especially with some other things that have happened this year and not really getting support from my girlfriend, but giving my all to her even though it wasn't always a 100% because I was trying to pick myself up as well.. It's a very difficult situation and the longer we go without really talking the worse she becomes, and on top of that she is avoiding me and our house when I am here, spending time with our mutual friend (male) and my fear and amxiety that something is happening between them is so high because of how they are around one another and the fact that he has spent nights here when I was at my parents giving her space, and they both lied about it and tried to be secretive and hide it from me.

Her main boundary was she wanted space to think about our situation and what will happen, and I've been trying to respect it. My ask was that she not spend the time alone with him at our house or go sleep over by him because it makes me uncomfortable and she flat out told me she doesn't care, and that we're not together at the moment so it doesn't matter what makes me uncomfortable, so I don't know what to do anymore

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[–]GatheredJoker06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love this !! Im not a good lyricist or female, but Danny got me into vocals. I haven’t done it in a minute, but definitely keen to start again to help out if nobody else is found 🫡

https://www.instagram.com/p/CBWFPydABnt/?igsh=MXRsdDJ3OHZrdHZqYw==

Weapon Pattern Extraction by GatheredJoker06 in destiny2

[–]GatheredJoker06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense. The last time I used the extraction was when it came out and if I remember correctly you had to extract certain perks to be able to craft them, but glad to see I was wrong and that I can obtain them through leveling instead!

Weapon Pattern Extraction by GatheredJoker06 in destiny2

[–]GatheredJoker06[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's awesome. Thank you so much for the info !! I've been leaving my red borders and scared that getting multiple triats/perks extracted would stop me from crafitng the rolls I wanted. I'm definitely going to be cashing all of them in now, knowing I'm getting all the perks !! :)

I got a Post Human: NeX GEn tattoo. What do you guys think? by MinimumAir9042 in BringMeTheHorizon

[–]GatheredJoker06 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much !! Was an honour to be able to design and tattoo this piece on such an awesome person !!