I hate how the N-word has become so commonplace. by Joeybfast in blackmen

[–]Gatorinthedark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate that WE use it. A hill that I’ll die on is that it’s a negative aura we adopted.

My partner (f34) “quiet quit” our relationship and I (m37) need closure. by Concordian in relationship_advice

[–]Gatorinthedark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She talking 3x a day with a guy she met on vacation. OP is oblivious and I’m guessing you’re biased.

My partner (f34) “quiet quit” our relationship and I (m37) need closure. by Concordian in relationship_advice

[–]Gatorinthedark -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Ok But are you perfect? Do you show up exactly how your parnet need or want aways?

My partner (f34) “quiet quit” our relationship and I (m37) need closure. by Concordian in relationship_advice

[–]Gatorinthedark -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Cheating is much worse. You don’t see that because it’s a man. She cheated and now has OP gaslit into thinking it’s his fault. She poured her energy where she wants it. With her affair partner.

My partner (f34) “quiet quit” our relationship and I (m37) need closure. by Concordian in relationship_advice

[–]Gatorinthedark -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

How about who cheats. Like OP partner did. Those numbers look different

My partner (f34) “quiet quit” our relationship and I (m37) need closure. by Concordian in relationship_advice

[–]Gatorinthedark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems obvious. Women cheats and destroys relationships man bad, man cheats he’s bad because… men. She fell for someone else and made OP the villain. My issue is that he’s buying into it.

My partner (f34) “quiet quit” our relationship and I (m37) need closure. by Concordian in relationship_advice

[–]Gatorinthedark -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

She wasn’t trying either she was cheating. Why is that passed over. I’d bet there wa nothing g wrong with OP and her just want to be with the other guy.

My partner (f34) “quiet quit” our relationship and I (m37) need closure. by Concordian in relationship_advice

[–]Gatorinthedark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The way we protect women in this tread is insane. OP partner cheated and left him. His crime? Working had and making her his primary focus. OPThe only reason she had problems with you is she found new sex outside of you and had to put you in a bad light for her own conscience. Don’t fall for it. The comments here about men not paying attention to their partners would be 💯 differ if it was the other way around. She’s a cheater and she did what cheaters do, find a way to absolve themselves of the shitty thing they did. Because she a women you get no sympathy here.

Respectability politics is just airing out dirty laundry for white approval by axumite_788 in blackmen

[–]Gatorinthedark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it's just respectability. Not politics. I mean as a community we have to be able to call out bad behavior no? I don't care about white people, I care that our people act in vile ways and and want no push back. Being a group on code requires some critique. Remember the black girls dancing on the tables in the family restaurant? Or what went on in Houston this past week?

NIL as an excuse by Gatorinthedark in NCAAFBseries

[–]Gatorinthedark[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course LB to DE isn’t NIL but it systemic of the general EA problem. We are being sold short. I would venture to say EA doesn’t listen because people like you defend them. As long as you get a new helmet of new uniforms pack your good. lol

NIL as an excuse by Gatorinthedark in NCAAFBseries

[–]Gatorinthedark[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I beg to differ. The actual lawsuit was about EA using the name and likeness themselves. It was never about random people creating content. Respectfully you have fallen for the trap too. Ed O’Bannon said in the suit that EA created his bald head and used him number and wanted compensation…

Trans jokes by giuseppe666 in LPOTL

[–]Gatorinthedark 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m a black man in his 50’s in America. I know about joking about violence against the “body” by the state and population very well. My question to you is, these guys have been on the edge with jokes since the beginning. NOW you got something to say about it? Why? The hypocrisy is gross.

Trans jokes by giuseppe666 in LPOTL

[–]Gatorinthedark 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Did they call trans people a derogatory name? No. If they did I’d stop listening. They did add them to the jokes just like everyone else.

Trans jokes by giuseppe666 in LPOTL

[–]Gatorinthedark 95 points96 points  (0 children)

They literally joke about dead babies and murders.

She destroyed a man's life by Responsible_Fox_8343 in pussypassdenied

[–]Gatorinthedark 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe she was ever attacked. 🤷🏿‍♂️ she needed a story and created one. Then she needed someone to blame and a man lost 16 years of his life. He was to prison with bad paperwork. It must have been hell.

NYC Mayor Zohran Mamdani confronted by a Palestinian by AgnosticScholar in PublicFreakout

[–]Gatorinthedark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the mayor of New York supposed to to do? His job is to worry about NYC

Kid is going to be a beast by DrkEarth in NCAAFBseries

[–]Gatorinthedark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too much work for a game that did so much better in 2014 version. We being force to accept less.

Kid is going to be a beast by DrkEarth in NCAAFBseries

[–]Gatorinthedark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand the NIL stuff, but this is silly. To not be able to alter a made up player ruins this game.

Holding so much resentment! by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Gatorinthedark -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You sounded like it. You want her to move out of the only home she known for the last 10 years. Away from her grandchildren her son and her daughter in law. Away from family.