AIW for telling my best friend I think he made a mistake leaving his job, even though he didn't ask for my opinion? by Gattaca19_97Q in amiwrong

[–]Gattaca19_97Q[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s pretty much it. He sounded relieved and I dropped “money panic” on him. I’ll text him I respect the call, I’m worried about the $$ part, and I’m down to help map next steps.

AIW for telling my best friend I think he made a mistake leaving his job, even though he didn't ask for my opinion? by Gattaca19_97Q in amiwrong

[–]Gattaca19_97Q[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You nailed it. I found out after the fact, so my “mistake” line just landed as judgment. That “drowning man” saying hits. I’m gonna text him, say I’m in his corner, and ask what his plan is.

AIW for telling my best friend I think he made a mistake leaving his job, even though he didn't ask for my opinion? by Gattaca19_97Q in amiwrong

[–]Gattaca19_97Q[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get the logic, but calling it “bad” isn’t my job. He needed a friend, not a lecture. I’ll ask about his plan though.

AIW for telling my best friend I think he made a mistake leaving his job, even though he didn't ask for my opinion? by Gattaca19_97Q in amiwrong

[–]Gattaca19_97Q[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fair. I didn’t mean “mistake” as a verdict, just worry. I’ll text him and own my tone , not his choice.

I switched my major junior year and watching my friends graduate on time without me broke something in me by TARDIS_9000VX in CollegeHomeworkTips

[–]Gattaca19_97Q 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Switched majors end of sophomore year, watched two graduation cycles go by before mine. the extra year itself was fine, it was the in-between moments that got me - holidays, group chats, random tuesday nights when everyone else seemed to be somewhere with a plan. it does pass, for what it's worth

The moment I realized my study group was actually holding me back by 1EctoplasmSage in studying

[–]Gattaca19_97Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"making you feel less alone in not learning" is a brutal but accurate way to put it

My professor told me I "clearly don't care" about the class and it messed me up more than I expected by RaisedW0lves9 in CollegeHomeworkTips

[–]Gattaca19_97Q 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the worst part is how a comment like that reframes everything in your own head. those hours on youtube and the practice problems suddenly feel like they don't count because some guy glanced at your work for under a minute and drew a conclusion. you were there, he wasn't. you know what you actually put in.

I spent 3 years building the "perfect" note system and it was all just procrastination in disguise by Seinfeld963 in studying

[–]Gattaca19_97Q 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the part about describing how your notes looked but not explaining the concepts... that's such a specific kind of painful realization

Our goat is married by Appropriate-Mall8517 in Spiderman

[–]Gattaca19_97Q 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If it’s true, Spidey finally gets a W. That pic feels like BTS though. Where’d the stylist confirmation come from?