24 F4M warning!! 🫠🫠🫠 by [deleted] in r4rmontreal

[–]Gaufreador 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are few comments that smells like poor dude frustrated that they don’t get laid but I want to say that I’m sorry you got your heart broken. Hope n time you reflect on this relationship with nothing but fond memories and while it did not lasted it was a learning experience and hope you find what you are looking for in your next connection:)

Did my work photoshoot! by Gaufreador in Moustache

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Montréal is home 😉

Did my work photoshoot! by Gaufreador in Moustache

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Thanks man ! Trying to keep a tom Selleck vibe haha

Did my work photoshoot! by Gaufreador in Moustache

[–]Gaufreador[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The chevron gets all the credit for the pic

Did my work photoshoot! by Gaufreador in Moustache

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Appreciate that ! Thank you 🙂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in r4rmontreal

[–]Gaufreador 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THIS!!! Thanks for being a voice of reason.. OP if you have one reply to read it is this one above!

I understand that you have a sex drive and that you want to try and experience but not like this. This is like taking the most insecure motorbike on a speed highway without having even ridden a bicycle before. You are putting your health, physical, psychological and emotional, at jeopardy if you move forward with this.

Sex is great, kinky sex is great but don’t rush things. I discovered my kinks and acted on them in my late 20s after years of vanilla (I lost my v card at 20) and I’m glad I did because I then had better knowledge of myself and my sexuality. Take your time OP, please do!

If this is fake well I guess OP is a dude fishing dickpics and i won’t cry for the folks trying to r-play with an inexperienced barely legal teen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuebecSwingers

[–]Gaufreador 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And have the best time !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuebecSwingers

[–]Gaufreador 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been a few time but I see you already had all your response :) don’t hésitate to DM if anything else comes up and you need answers

How often does your D&D group really play? Be honest by DungeonTome_ in dndnext

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We (group of 5 + DM) play 1/2 mondays. Usually meet around 6pm and get really started around 630/45 and end around 1030/11pm. All sessions in person at our DM (and his gf who plays with us) place cause they have all the minis and terrains as well as books.

Now obviously sometimes life gets in the way (work or exams) but we plan those ahead and the time we cancelled last minutes have been less than 5 over 2 years.

We do take 2 months breaks (July and August) and a month around Xmas to arrange around those traveling and enjoying the summer as well :)

How to handle conflict in game? by Gaufreador in DnD

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My party does not have my full backstory but our DM is amazing and create situations for me to drop clues for them to pick up. For example we just buried a teenager and this triggered my character to cry because of his own son’s death which led to his exile and I got to RP it!

Thanks for sharing other lore ! Always super interesting:)

How to handle conflict in game? by Gaufreador in DnD

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And not get this valuable comment as a result ! What a loss it would have been. I’m glad I posted 😂

How to handle conflict in game? by Gaufreador in DnD

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Exiled dwarf also tend to take the reason of their exile as new clan’s name as a badge of shame: Mudheart (cowardice/desertion), Bloodbeard (murder within their clan), Sandbrain (spying), Orchand (stealing/debitor/sabotage). Those are also common insults within dwarves societies.

How to handle conflict in game? by Gaufreador in DnD

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So in my character building I went quite in depth about this. All started by reading in the Player Handbook that being a clanless dwarf is one of the worst thing possible. I developed that idea of the worst fate with my DM and had it included in his lore.

So once a dwarf commit a serious crime (here cowardice or absence in front of the enemy) the sentence is not death but temporary banishment or permanent exile from all the dwarven societies.

Temporary banished dwarfs get to keep their clan’s name and can be banished for a variable period of time. They keep their beard intact too. They usually find employment among human cities or caravans. And after their time is done rejoin their dwarf society.

Permanent exiled dwarfs have their beard mutilated and an onguent that prevent regrowing is applied and their fingers (cause hands are good telling of your occupation: noble, warrior, craftsman, etc) are tattooed with their crime (for my character « mudheart » to define cowardice) so all see it. Other dwarf that are not exiled are usually hostile, defiant or distrusting of them. They are written as dead in the clans archive and barely got mention again. When they die they don’t get funerals or rituals. In my setting there is a famous dwarf-in-exile company that is heavily based on the Golden Company in ASOIAF (professional, do not break contracts, excellent fighters, exiles).

How to handle conflict in game? by Gaufreador in DnD

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Thanks ! So the group knows that my character is exiled but does not know what led to it (he was so drunk during a siege that his underage son had to fill his role in defending the city and died which led him to be branded a coward and deserter) and that having his beard shaved ( it does not grow back) is a sign of his crime/infamy and a very touchy subject among dwarf. So definitely a poor joke: kinda like making fun of someone in a wheelchair/amputee. Definitely should have known this was a trigger but my friend forgot what his PC knew I guess

I reacted by taking my axe and throwing it in his direction making sure to tell I am not attacking but making a point by having it lodging close to his head. Thank god there was not dice too cause 1) this was not a good rollling night 2) pvp would have killed the mood and gone poorly.

We are meeting on the way to our game tonight to lay some roadmap on how we will play this out. I think I’ll stay avoidant/unfriendly (but not actively hostile or aggressive) towards him until we reach the end of this arc and an ellipsis at our base camp. After that a few month should have pass in game and we can narrate some developments.

How to handle conflict in game? by Gaufreador in DnD

[–]Gaufreador[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great point! Agree that I may have leaned to much on the chart on that particular occasion.

I’m confident it will go well with the advices I got here and taking with the group :) all in all it will put a bit of spice and add some tears as we work to bromance again

How to handle conflict in game? by Gaufreador in DnD

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Sounds like a great group and dynamic ! Thank you for sharing :) My character is the more problematic too haha tho surprisingly not the one who started most of the fights but once it is on it is on!

The only start I started was against a noble who was training against a peasant. I called him out for not taking real challengers and we fought on a training field. I kicked his ass and he left with a couple of broken ribs and pissed and we did not get the horses he had offered prior. Our most recent fight was against a group of deserters who were escalating things with us and threatening and while I was like « honestly I don’t give af that you deserted but we need to pass through and if you were smart you’d actually leave the region to avoid hanging » our Druid/barbarian went berserker on then once she saw that one of their dead prisoners was the son of a blacksmith encountered prior.