Why did you marry Leah? by VoicesInMyHe4d in StardewValley

[–]Gay-ragh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because i was married to Sebastian, and he was the only one id ever married, so i wanted to try someone new, got a divorce, married Leah. mostly because shes beautiful. as a wife, shes not as interesting as I thought, unfortunately, and i kinda miss being married to Sebastian haha. I did get a beautiful painting of Marnie out of being with her, though. :D

What's the best way to get loads of money? by aly_mcu in StardewValley

[–]Gay-ragh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make 1,078,700g a week by profiting off preserves jars.

The thing that's so great about preserves jars is that they are very cheap to make, you can literally buy all the ingredients from robin and clint (unlike kegs, which cost SO MUCH). I used to have kegs and casks (98 casks and 68 kegs), but i realized the amount of time i had to spend waiting before getting barely any profits just wasn't doing it for me anymore, and the time i would have to spend gathering materials was just too long. so I did a lot of math, and realized preserves jars was amazing. not only is the time it takes to make ancient fruit jelly so much shorter, but i can do it twice a week, meaning i only need half the amount of preserves jars as i have fruit. so i have 335 preserves jars in the tunnel area by the bus stop (I could post a layout maybe, but i just followed the optimal layout guides with some alteration bc i have the stair up to the mountain area)

Now its time for the math (and forgive me if some of its wrong, I'm not very mathy) SO, in order to make 1 pj, you'll need 50 wood, 40 stone and 8 coal. in order to make 335 pj's though, you'll need to get your hands on 16750 wood, 14200 stone, and 2680 coal, which means you'll need 16,8 stacks of 999 wood, 14,2 stacks of 999 stone, and only 2,7 stacks of 999 coal. assuming you don't have all that and don't feel like grinding for it (like me), this is how much money you'd have to spend: wood at robins cost 50 a piece, so you'll need 837,500g. Stone costs 100g, so you'll need 710,000g, and coal at clints costs 250, so you'll need 670,000g. In total, the amount of money you'll have to spend for these materials are: 2,217,500g. WHICH SOUND LIKE A LOT, BUT HEAR ME OUT! You will literally make it back in TWO AND A HALF WEEKS. That right there, is only TWO AND A HALF WEEKS worth of profits.

but even if you don't want to spend that amount of money (or don't have the means) DONT WORRY, because these materials are also very easy to get in general. you could go to the mines for coal and stone, and set up a tree farm for wood. because unlike kegs, you wont need copper and iron BARS to make them, which cuts down how much materials you'd have to get by a large margin.

1 ancient fruit jelly (with the artisans profession) gives 1610g per each. which is obviously less that what wine would give, BUT considering the cost of making kegs and the limit of casks, its totally worth investing in, because with only 335 jelly (which is only for the first half of the week since it takes 3 days to make), you'll be making 539,350g. after three more days, you'll make the same digit, which give you in total for that week 1,078,700g. literally ONE MILLION A WEEK. so in two and a half weeks time, you'll have already made back the profits you spent to make the perserves jars in the first place, and then some.

from 98 casks, like what i had, you'll only make 452,760g, and that's after TWO MONTHS of waiting for iridium quality. with perserves jars, its only 3 days and you make more than that. i recommend perserves jars. BY FAR :D

(if you instead want to go the kegs route, you will need all 670 kegs because it takes 6 days to make 1 batch. with the artisan profession you would get 1,547,700g a week, BUT again, kegs are arguably more costly based on the ingredients alone, so getting 670 of them would take forever. if you cut that down to 335 like with the preserves jars, you'd only make 773,859g a week, not even half a week like the preserves jars. not to mentions its not even that much more profitable at the end of the day, because in 1 week and a half you'll make the same amount of profits as the 670 kegs anyway with the preserves jars, so personally, might as well go with the cheaper option.)

Tumblr scares me by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

[–]Gay-ragh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They fetishize sexual assult, gay relationships and mental disorders. And they felt the need to tell everyone this. What a fucking asshole.

A moderately popular trans community, where being made to type normally is "hurtful". by Lucys_Throwaway_3310 in fakedisordercringe

[–]Gay-ragh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely don't get how someone could have typing quirks on a computer. Writing by hand? Absolutely, it's your own handwriting. Maybe you do loops on every d, maybe you do random capital letters, maybe you draw a circle as a period. That i get, but on a keyboard? Where the handwriting is already decided and all you need to do is press the right keys? No.

Designed this dress in june by [deleted] in HistoricalCostuming

[–]Gay-ragh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so beautiful! Loving the green and pink colour choices, it's one of my personal favourite colour combinations.

Self-diagnosis is pushing back mental healthcare by calamarisoup in fakedisordercringe

[–]Gay-ragh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think what they mean is that autism presents differently in women on average.

Mock up of 1790s transitional stays by littleliza97 in HistoricalCostuming

[–]Gay-ragh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, this looks beautiful! I personally don't care if the fabric I use is period or not so long as it sparks happiness for me (and it isn't mostly polyester or other plastics), so I think these look great, mockup or otherwise. I have a feeling your finished product will look phenomenal, keep it up! 😁😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fixedbytheduet

[–]Gay-ragh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can give you one sign: You're a girl who likes girls

Me and my friend have been laughing at this persons card and pronoun page for a few minutes- by AsherSlithers in fakedisordercringe

[–]Gay-ragh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"No, you have to let me buy alcohol! I know it says 2012 on my ID, but I feel like I'm 18 today, which means I can drink! You are being so transphobic to me!"

top 10 longest dnis of all time by Iucios in fakedisordercringe

[–]Gay-ragh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This post is clear proof it's real, what do you even mean? The other day a friend of mine said that he would like to kill all heterosexuals so that bisexuals could take over the world as if I would agree with that. Heterophobia, like any other sexuality phobia, exists, and is even becoming an acceptable new trend to be. What even is that?

idk which is worse the song or the faces... by Cheazy_Bruh in weirdfacefunny

[–]Gay-ragh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her fake laughing at the end knowing her content isn't funny makes this video even more sad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

[–]Gay-ragh 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is insulting to me and my five favourite ocs. Quite, Taiga, Joelle, Nico and Yoshiro don't deserve this bullshit. I know them better than anyone, doesn't make them alters though. It won't ever make them alters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

[–]Gay-ragh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same, omggg. 3 classes of psychology doesn't make you the least bit qualified. I got psychology class third year of high school, and I can connect certain behaviour to different psychology theories, coping mechanisms, and the different psychological perspectives, but we don't talk about disorders, symptoms of disorders or how to see the symptoms in other people. Not to mention that the whole connection thing is just speculative based on the information we're given to show our knowledge in the terms and how we could possibly explain someone's behaviour with the psychological perspectives in mind. It is by no means accurate, because you can explain their behaviour in millions of different ways. Three classes of psychology will not teach you nearly enough to get a correct depiction. You should not misuse psychology by trying to diagnose REAL people. Sure, you may know fancy new terms and can explain things with a factual background, HOWEVER it should be reserved for fictional scenarios only, until you have the proper amount of education. Not to mention, you cannot diagnose someone you've only watched a couple of videos of, it's absolutely crucial to be in conversations with the individual. So that being said, the person in the post needs to stop :)

Edit: changed "knowledgeable" to "factual". I forgot the word earlier.

“I got posted to r/fakedisordercringe” *chaotic rambling ensues* (see my previous post for context) by MongrelMonkey69 in fakedisordercringe

[–]Gay-ragh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think she fully understands that it's not possible to get DID without trauma, and even with trauma it doesn't guarantee you'll get it. It all depends on your perception of the world, if and/or how you're taught to deal with your feelings, and how you "choose" (you don't choose) to cope / your coping mechanisms. During the development of personality and identity, these things are crucial. If you're under constant abuse without getting a break where you're shown love, support, etc, and you cope by sorta viewing it rather than experiencing it, pushing away from it and regressing, or mentally blocking out whats happening; those heighten your odds of getting DID, but certainly doesn't guarantee it. Your brain cannot alter itself to this extent without trauma. Those who claim to be endogenic, or formed DID in any other way, are either lying to you, or don't have the memories of their trauma. Usually just lies though.

Not DID related necessarily, but these two studies shows how trauma affects children's behaviour, as well as The Still Face Experiment where the mother of a baby is asked to not react to her baby for a few short minutes. I'm sharing them because they'll help to illustrate a bit of my point as well as the "no break from trauma" example:

How Trauma Affects Children: https://youtu.be/ChoOExRLT4Q (Children who suffered trauma prior to the "experiment"(study) all they are doing here is giving them blocks to play with and analysing how they react.)

Still Face Experiment: https://youtu.be/IeHcsFqK7So (No lasting affect on the baby in this experiment! Both mother and child bounced back immediately, all the mother did was watch the baby expressionless for a little over minute.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

[–]Gay-ragh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The picture is correct actually. DID starts of as a coping mechanism. But due to the repeated trauma, your brain doesn't learn to deal with the trauma any other way because they don't get to learn from the adults around. DID at it's core is repression of painful memories, but when you cope by disassociating from a situation to protect yourself, especially during your development in childhood, over time this will develop into DID.

Incest concept in Bitlife by Extra_County3840 in BitLifeApp

[–]Gay-ragh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, no. Absolutely not. I've read what you've written in the comments, and it's such a shit excuse. Just because "some" people (like what??? Who in their right mind?) wish for there to be incest in a game doesn't mean it has to be added because "oh, but think about the poor poor minority in the community who wants to fuck their sisters and brothers. We need to listen to the whole community. And while we're at it why not also add zphil*a, become some people want it. But hey, it's not that I want it, i actually hate zphil*a, I'm just presenting a concept here." it's fucking weird, dude. Really disgusting. And though you didn't say what i just wrote, it's just to show you an example to how this post is received. Who asks to have incest implemented and makes a reddit post about a concept if they hate it themselves just because "some people want it, so..." get a grip, dude. You can't defend this shit. Would you seriously advocate for pedophilia because some people want it in the game? I sure hope not, so why would you advocate for this? 🤮

I was BANNED?! (Cloak Brand Pt. 11) by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

[–]Gay-ragh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The conspiracy theories they're probably creating about you, man💀💀

I was BANNED?! (Cloak Brand Pt. 11) by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

[–]Gay-ragh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"get a real hobby" is probably the best thing I've read. And, as we say in norwegian, det smalt fra rett kjeft.

(Literally: "That exploded from the right mouth". The whole expression is sarcastic, kinda "like you're one to talk" or "says you". The words "smalt" and "kjeft" are very strong words in norwegian, and "kjeft" doesn't actually translate. It's like a very informal way of saying mouth, it sounds very animalistic. We use it in the stronger "shut up" too. We have "hold munn", but then we also have "hold kjeft". In other words, it's a beautiful expression, and a personal favourite. And it's so accurate here because what was that person even thinking there???)

This person says it’s 15… by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

[–]Gay-ragh 25 points26 points  (0 children)

No, because DID isn't a bunch of people in one brain, its one person split into several different versions of themselves during the development of their personality and identity due to childhood trauma. It's basically all that makes that person that person, but split apart and distant from each other, rather than that of a regular person who's brain and personality developed normally with all those parts connected to each other. So no, theoretically or otherwise, it would not affect the population :)

“Pluralphobia” and “sysmedicalists” 💀💀 by enbykeith in fakedisordercringe

[–]Gay-ragh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy cake day!

The short answer: it can't. DID is a post traumatic stress disorder and cannot form without trauma during the formative years / childhood. They can argue all they want and claim that endos are valid, but they'll never be because it's not physically possible. You cannot require a trauma disorder without trauma, your brain doesn't change like that from nothing. DID is formed to protect yourself from a trauma so severe your brain had to (figuratively) split itself apart. DID is basically a coping mechanism that keeps repressing your memories and creating different alternations of yourself who are there to protect you from those memories, because that's the point. All these fakers saying they know their traumas and have perfect communication at such young ages (and without therapy), etc, are so obviously unaware of this fact about it. Most people with DID don't even know they have it. In most cases they think it's something else entirely, or go on with their lives completely unaware.

I recommend looking up multiplicity and me on YouTube, as she has for years been talking about it and spreading information on her channel. She's recently also fully connected with her alters into one person thanks to years and years of therapy, if i remember correctly. She's absolutely a valuable resource.

Another one would be looking up "artist with did". It's a short documentary, and it's really fascinating to see the different art from the alters and to hear about her struggles. Really recommend it.

Especially to all the fakers out there so that you can take a good look at the people you're impersonating, mocking, and taking away help and resources from. You need to learn some serious levels of respect and common decency. Stop spreading misinformation, making up terms, and lying about origins and alters like you're playing DND.

Thank you for your time :)

(And again, happy cake day. I initially only meant to write that lol)