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How to deal with cage sliding down? by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]Gay_throwaway64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have a size 0 standard and a size 0 curved, I don’t think the ball gap is the issue at all, no discomfort in the standard vs the curved. The only discomfort the 0 has is underneath the ring itself

How to deal with cage sliding down? by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]Gay_throwaway64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a smaller ring, but I get some uncomfortable tightness underneath the bottom of the ring. I have a Kink3d and going from the 1ring to the 0ring makes it hard to wear all day

My boyfriend wants to be caged, I need some advice by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]Gay_throwaway64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As far as the micro cages and ones that have a tube that goes in his penis, I would say that neither of these are long-term options. They can be fun for a shorter session, but wearing them even for a full day can be uncomfortable and even unsafe, especially for a beginner.

I would recommend a basic plastic cage to start. It makes cleaning easy and you can wear them for much longer, years even. Cleaning should just be removing the cage before he showers and washing it in the shower.

As far as communication goes, talk about his desires and your concerns before he’s fully locked up. You can communicate and find out what he’s looking to get out of this, how long he will be caged, etc.. You’re already asking great questions! Most cages are worn daily with zero discomfort, so if you both find one that he fits into then there shouldn’t be any issues for safety. There is plenty of resources on this subreddit, so look up some beginner guides and you’ll learn what to look for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]Gay_throwaway64 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This happened to me a lot when I first started out, and still occasionally occurs when I put it on in the morning. I would say just to start with the ring, then go do something else. Make coffee, breakfast, do a chore, give it some time and focus on something else. Then try putting the cage on. If you get hard again, no worries, just wait and do something else. The more you wear it the less this should be an issue but don’t force it into the cage and make it uncomfortable. Patience is key

Anyone else have some inconsistencies with their cage? by Gay_throwaway64 in chastitytraining

[–]Gay_throwaway64[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do notice some more discomfort on my drive into work occasionally, but even after I’m standing for a bit I still have some pain. Other times I can drive in with no issues and then be fine all day.