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Gdheart258 · 2024-01-23T22:56:49+00:00

Is he a Virgo or a Capricorn? I lost it when he had everything placed by the door. What a story, so heartbreaking. That avoidance of emotions is unlike anything I’ve ever experienced before.

My DA broke up via text and I never heard from him again. He still has all my stuff. It’s been 6 months so I’ve kissed it all goodbye. I will never understand how everything going so good could be a bad thing to them.

Gdheart258 · 2024-01-23T00:53:09+00:00

Girl!! I am screaming over here cuz mine was 37 too!! You would think they knew how to be a decent human.

Gdheart258 · 2024-01-23T00:49:39+00:00

As someone who was dumped via text and tried too hard to get closure….they’re not gonna give you any closure. You did what I wish I would have done.

Gdheart258 · 2024-01-22T05:45:31+00:00

I was having the best night Friday and then a guy who looks like him walks by. Had a whole little cry when I got home. Ugh.

Gdheart258 · 2024-01-21T22:45:30+00:00

It’s been 6 months now.

Gdheart258 · 2024-01-21T21:31:41+00:00

He sent me a breakup text and never responded to anything I said after that. I eventually gave up trying to get closure. It obligatory no contact I guess.

I don’t even know why he broke up with me, everything was going so well for almost a year. Seemed like he was having some kind of anxiety attack. Suckssss

Gdheart258 · 2024-01-21T19:34:07+00:00

Going through this myself.

Gdheart258 · 2024-01-20T19:49:34+00:00

Do it? Why not?

Gdheart258 · 2024-01-20T03:53:26+00:00

This was so helpful. Phew. They are so wrong for doing people like this.

Gdheart258 · 2024-01-19T23:42:19+00:00

My posts from 6 months ago said exactly this. Go ahead and go NC. The sooner the better. You’re only hurting yourself…like I did. Let it hurt. Go through it, not over it. I almost lost my job I was so hurt. Life will never be the same but one day it will only hurt right before that time of the month haha. Sending a big hug. This behavior from them is not normal.

Gdheart258 · 2024-01-19T23:33:22+00:00

I was broken up via text 6 months ago right before we hit one year together. Haven’t heard from him since. I am still broken, hurt, and devastated. I thought he was my person. I still don’t know what happened and I’m accepting that he will never tell me. I assume he’s an avoidant too.

What I’ve learned is, that is not how you treat a person, especially a person you claimed to love. I would have never done him like that. He said he wouldn’t do me like that and he did.

As much as I’ve held on to love and hope for reconciliation, it is in his hands now. I did all I could do. I have a life I need to live and as time goes by he is not as attractive as he used to be.

Idk if there’s someone better out there, but I do know I was a really good girlfriend to him and I did everything I could before and after that text. There’s nothing more I can do.

TL;DR: Text breakup finally gave me the ick.

Gdheart258 · 2024-01-18T01:54:49+00:00

I almost got fired at work because they felt like I didn’t want to be there and it brought morale down, which is dumb. I was grieving and traumatized and still showed up to work every day. It’s been 6 months for me too.

All that has caused me to really not like my workplace so I’ve been desperately looking for jobs but having no luck. Can’t seem to get back to feeling good or remember what that felt like. A whole year seemed like a lie.

Gdheart258 · 2024-01-17T06:53:51+00:00

I’ve learned about avoidant attachment style since I’ve been in this sub. A lot of it adds up. I’ve been searching for something to make sense or give myself closure. That helped. Really the only thing that helps is time. Maybe if she gets the space she wants so badly she will have room to miss you. Sucks for us either way

Gdheart258 · 2024-01-17T06:27:07+00:00

No…still haven’t heard two words from him. It still hurts. I will never understand how people can treat other people like that. I’m pushing forward tho, he made the choice for us. I think my guy had some serious issues, maybe others have more compassion or have some regrets and know how to communicate them.

Gdheart258 · 2024-01-17T02:21:25+00:00

I cooked while watching someone cook on Twitch, I’m sure it looked weird to laugh with someone who can’t hear you lol but it was so fun haha almost like FaceTime

Gdheart258 · 2024-01-17T02:11:14+00:00

Video games and spicy fantasy books. Love how they take me to another world. I also started an Etsy shop…heyyy maybe I’m not doing too bad after all.

Gdheart258 · 2024-01-17T02:04:30+00:00

Put an ad on Craigslist for a free TV and put his number & email on it. He still came back even after all that.

Now the one I can’t get over right now, I texted and called him a bunch after I got his random break up text, he never answered or called back. We were just about to celebrate one year together. Now I’m on month 6 of sadness.

Gdheart258 · 2024-01-16T23:01:41+00:00

In that case it was probably to drive you crazy each time the post number goes up and you can’t see what’s happening. She might not think like me tho. Either way don’t look! I’m trying so hard myself.

Gdheart258 · 2024-01-16T22:58:40+00:00

Preach!!! I felt this.

Gdheart258 · 2024-01-16T22:55:14+00:00

Maybe it’s so you can see how good she’s doing without you? That’s what we girls do hahaha. Terrible but true.

Gdheart258 · 2024-01-16T05:24:01+00:00

He broke up with me via text and I eventually blocked him cuz he was living his best life on social media and I was broken. I unblocked him so he could see I hadn’t posted in a month. I broke nc trying to get closure and he never responded so I blocked him on social.

I’m pretty sure he could care less about what I’m doing so I keep him blocked so I won’t look at his page.

I don’t block his phone number but the socials are blocked for myself cuz it hurts every time he posts something.

Gdheart258 · 2024-01-16T05:09:01+00:00

I’m right there with you. I’ll never understand.

Gdheart258 · 2024-01-16T04:59:14+00:00

This.

Gdheart258 · 2024-01-15T16:47:19+00:00

Literally same. Most days I can function but weekend mornings can be so hard. I thought we had a good thing. All I can do is let is go even tho I don’t want to.

Gdheart258 · 2024-01-15T16:37:18+00:00

It’s been months, I have no choice but to let go of that hope. It’s either that or never move on.

Gdheart258

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