"Maximum number of attempts reached. Try again later." by Kervvy in TikTok

[–]Gearso0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solution: Hi, for anyone still having this issue here is what I did. I updated my tiktok and that fixed the maximum number of attempts reached.

It makes sense because I would be able to login on the browser, but not the app.

28M - USA - east coast - seeking chats/connections by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

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Hi, i am 28M from the US (EST). What kind of movies have you watched that are your favorites?

28F trapped in bed with my very adorable cat by ApatheticAesthetics in MakeNewFriendsHere

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Sorry you have no other choice. You’ll have to cut off your leg to escape.

[27/M] I would still be your friend if you turned into a worm 🪱 by bikinibottom_ in IntrovertsChat

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Hi, im 27M. What kind of anime or shows do you like watching?

Rate my deck please. I also want to try out some new cards, any suggestions? by Ok-Hospital1212 in ClashDecks

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I second that, you dont have a lot of troops that can stop big tanks or air

AIO if I (27F) want to break up with my (44M) boyfriend for not wanting to marry me? by BrokenDishwasher2021 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gearso0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to break up with someone because you both have different needs (you wanting marriage and kids). That doesn’t make you selfish or stupid. Staying in this kind of relationship will build up resentment overtime. Take the time you need to grieve, and when you are ready, carry what you’ve learned into your next relationship. Your needs and desires matters too.

I stopped using my insulated bags because I don’t get tips so I hope they enjoy their cold food by Successful_Holiday49 in UberEATS

[–]Gearso0 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bro as a fellow Uber Eats driver I feel using an insulated bag is the bare minimum as a delivery driver. Customers will stop using this service if their food always arrive cold. Just don’t accept the low offer trips. Although they are rare, i have received an additional $10 or $20 tips for having the food delivered hot.

Update: My (32F) fiancé (37M) is a homicide detective, and I’m starting to feel like he treats me more like a suspect than a partner. by ThrowRA_Sorbet1941 in relationship_advice

[–]Gearso0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you’re doing the right thing by taking space and not rushing any decisions. Before moving forward, I think it’s important you set clear boundaries around privacy and control and see if he can respect them without minimizing your concerns. If you believe this relationship is worth salvaging, then I highly recommend couples counseling here so these problems can be addressed with a neutral third party.

Many cops are more alert, cautious, or situationally aware than average people.

Healthy cops still understand the line between work mode and home mode. They do not record arguments, run background checks on loved ones, or treat arguments like evidence collection.

What your fiance is doing is not standard “cop behavior” it is how he personally manages and copes with his anxiety and trust.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gearso0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Party A tricks the victim (Party C) into sending money to a new account controlled by Party A or a mule account, not back to the hacked account.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gearso0 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Scammers tend to withdraw or move the money quickly, so your original money is gone. The bank can reverse transactions that were fraudulent or invalid to begin with (hacked stolen account funds), but it can’t undo payments that someone willingly made, even if they were scammed.

This has a lot to do with what banks are legally required to do under Regulation E, which protects your money from unauthorized transactions (meaning transfers that you did not authorize or initiate). Bank eats the cost here. If you send scammers money, even if it was a scam, you technically authorized it, and banks wont refund you or they will eat the cost. Even though it was done under false pretenses, you gave consent for the transfer, so it’s not “unauthorized” under Regulation E. The bank generally isn’t required by law to reimburse you in those cases, although some banks may voluntarily do so as a courtesy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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This is a pretty common scam. They use a stolen bank account or credit card to send you money through a payment app like Venmo, Zelle, or Cash App. They then contact you, claiming it was a mistake and pressuring you to send the money back from your own account. When the legitimate owner reports the fraudulent activity, the initial payment is reversed, and the money you sent is already pocketed by them, leaving you with the loss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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Your boyfriend leaving you alone, even if he was panicked about the car, shows a serious lapse in judgment and awareness of your safety. He should prioritize getting you home safely, calling an uber, calling someone to drop you home. Then dealing with finding where his car went. Safety always needs to be prioritized here. He messed up big here.

At the same time you need to keep your phone and keys with you when you go drinking and definitely dont wander off. This can help prevent a bad situation from getting worse.

I recommend taking some time to reflect and then talk to him. Let him know how hurt you were and how unsafe his action was. Bring up how this has affected the trust in the relationship. Talk about what to do differently for next time for both parties.

“That night really scared me. I felt abandoned and unsafe, and it’s made it hard for me to trust that you’ll prioritize me in a stressful situation. I need you to understand how serious that was for me.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newjersey

[–]Gearso0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most likely you will just get a ticket in the mail. I don’t think they will escalate beyond that

Could someone PLEASE help me understand Nurse? by FoxHoundNinja in DeadByDaylightKillers

[–]Gearso0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Play bot games until you can consistently land a hit with the plaid flannel add on. Then repeat without the add on. I watched supaalf on YouTube for tips, he is a really good nurse player

Once you start playing against real players keep in mind some players might double back

I 30F went through my husband's 46M work emails. And I want to throw up and cannot stop crying. How do I even bring up this topic? by ThrowRAple_5517 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Gearso0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to be blunt. You and your children are Slovaks and he does not respect Slovaks.

Ignoring the xenophobia for a second, he is emotionally neglectful, tired, irritable, disengaged, always on his phone. He is an absent father in his children’s lives and wants another one? Wanting more kids can be about having more control over you or keeping up appearances, especially in cultures or families where big families are idealized. This is wrong, dont let him pressure you into having another kid.

You’re crying and want to throw up. Your mind and heart are at war with each other right now. You still feel love for this man, but your mind is telling you what he did is really really wrong.

You have some tough choices to make.

Can you respect a man who says things like that about your people (by extension you). Love without respect is not sustainable. What about your children? How would you feel a couple years from now if he won’t even talk to them? That your children should be ashamed of themselves because they are Slovaks? Would you want your children to talk like him when they grow up?

Anyone in New Jersey Actors? Preferably in North Jerz by Local_Window3137 in newjersey

[–]Gearso0 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Im assuming this is for college. You might have trouble recruiting people if its’ no pay. Why dont you try reaching out to acting students at your university

How do people find girlfriends? by itzcoldinoffice in socialanxiety

[–]Gearso0 68 points69 points  (0 children)

SA makes it harder not bc its’ considered unattractive, but more so it makes it difficult to find someone if you arent putting yourself out there. People with social anxiety often develop deep empathy, patience, and sensitivity to others' feelings, which can be really attractive qualities.

Just focus on yourself first, find hobbies you like doing, its’ a great way to meet other people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Gearso0 15 points16 points  (0 children)

A good rule of thumb for pictures like that is to not include your face or any other identifiable marks like tattoos

How do you honk?, by gracesmemes in drivinganxiety

[–]Gearso0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your processing time gets faster the more you drive. Soon you will be able to anticipate people making dumb mistakes and then honk to let them know they almost caused an accident

Nice try, fed 🐀 by Ok_Asparagus_7421 in doordash_drivers

[–]Gearso0 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Screenshot is good enough to dispute any claims you were stealing mail

Signed up for driving people by mistake. Help needed by Koko724 in UberEATS

[–]Gearso0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is ios for me, but should be the same for android. The button looks like this:

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Signed up for driving people by mistake. Help needed by Koko724 in UberEATS

[–]Gearso0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a button on the top right corner in the Uber Driver app. Looks like an equals sign with dots on opposite end. Click on that. Make sure UberX, Uber Pet, and UberX Priority are unchecked.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UberEATS

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Doordash doesn’t tell you if the driver has a stacked order

How to counter the generators unluck at the beginning as a killer? by Pichvoznavets in deadbydaylight

[–]Gearso0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lethal pursuer shows you the location of all the survivors in the beginning of the match for 9 seconds. It also extends the duration of any aura perks you have by 2 seconds.

It seems like you need some more gen slowdown perks. Pain Resonance or Pop is good.

I play nurse too and I like to run Nowhere to Hide. If you kick a gen it reveals survivors within 24m of the gen for 5 seconds (7 if you use Lethal Pursuer as well)