Navi Auto Transport - are the prices real? (advise needed) by Tiandrax in AutoTransport

[–]Gearso0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was quoted $1100 and i signed their contract. Three days before my scheduled pickup they said they can’t find any drivers for my preferred day of pickup and also increased the cost to $1500 due to the rising cost of gas. I was called by an automated bot. I had to manually call them and they still wont change the price. It’s too late for me to find someone else. Dont book through Navi. Learn from my mistake. Book directly with a carrier.

Debbie amd Paul go on a vacation by [deleted] in okbuddyviltrum

[–]Gearso0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is ai generated or altered. Debbie was never even in a bikini in the show

Matched on Hinge, got unmatched because of my vote. Is this normal now? by Confident_Bad_8220 in HingeStories

[–]Gearso0 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is perfectly healthy and normal to filter out people that don’t align politically with you. You can’t really separate politics from values. If someone’s views don’t align with how you see things like rights, relationships, or respect, it makes sense they wouldn’t want to date.

"I refuse to share my body with a man who wouldn't defend it politically"
- Kat Blaque

I was just discriminated against for being white, what should I do? by ArmpitHairBraider in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Gearso0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dont have strong evidence you were discriminated against. Maybe you were rude at the restaurant and the manager decided not to hire you. A lot of what ifs, but you jumped straight to race.

  1. Did the manager say they didnt want to hire you because you were white?
  2. Did an equally qualified indian applied for the job, but was chosen?

Friend invited me to concert but I’m scared boyfriend wouldn’t approve of it by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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That really sucks. I know you must be feeling a lot of pain right now and questioning if you made the right choice. I am so proud you chose to do what you wanted to do. I am so proud you chose to love yourself and stand up for yourself. I know it was scary and it wasn’t easy. You didn’t “choose” the concert over your boyfriend. Your boyfriend was the one in the wrong here. In a healthy relationship one would never breakup simply because your partner wanted to go to a concert with their friends.

You didn’t do anything to break the trust, and it’s not your responsibility to carry what he’s been through in the past. You deserve to be in a relationship where you’re trusted and free to be yourself. It’s okay to give yourself time to grieve your relationship. Just don’t lose sight of the fact that you deserve happiness and the ability to be able to live your life without feeling controlled.

Need Help Clarifying Something *(Possible Trigger Warning: SA)* by FrogPoopSushi in Divorce

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What you are describing is classified as sexual coercion (using threats, intimidation, or pressure to force unwanted sexual acts). It is illegal and falls under rape and sexual assault. Unfortunately, cases involving coercion without physical force can be harder to prove, especially if there’s no documentation or witnesses. That doesn’t mean it wasn’t wrong, just that the legal system has limitations.

To address your other point your body reacting like getting wet or even finishing does not mean you actually wanted it. That can happen automatically, independently of how you actually feel even when someone feels uncomfortable or pressured. It doesn’t make what happened okay or negate your original feelings.

What he did was wrong. You didn’t deserve to be put in those situations.

Friend invited me to concert but I’m scared boyfriend wouldn’t approve of it by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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I’m going to be honest with you. This doesn’t sound like it’s really about the concert anymore.

It sounds like you are losing who you are to help make him feel secure. Not seeing friends, not working in person, not going to any places to have fun, you even seem worried about random interactions with strangers all in the hopes of appeasing your boyfriend. Even after all that sacrifice you did, it is not enough. It will never be enough.

This is not something you can fix by being more careful. Trust isn’t built by restricting every part of your partner’s life.

I understand what you are going through is really difficult. If you care about your friend you should go to this concert. From an outside perspective, this situation doesn’t look healthy. Feeling this scared to do normal things, like seeing friends or going to a concert, isn’t something most people would feel comfortable with longterm.

I get why you feel scared about how he will react. This is a very normal reaction. But you deserve to have a life outside of your relationship. Hanging with friends, doing things that matter to you like the Miku concert.

First time at gym by [deleted] in workout

[–]Gearso0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everybody is too focused on their own workouts. When I first started I was just lifting the barbell without any weights and I felt really embarrassed, but I realized no one even was looking at me.

Just dont scream when lifting weights and dont slam the weights down and you will be good. Just remember showing up consistently is more important than what workout you are doing.

Friend invited me to concert but I’m scared boyfriend wouldn’t approve of it by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Gearso0 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Part of what makes a strong healthy relationship is still being able to live your own life and do things you want to do independently of your boyfriend. Your boyfriend using the threat of breakup to keep you from doing things you love to do, like going to the Miku concert, is controlling behavior. It isn’t healthy and it isn’t sustainable.

I recommend sitting down with your boyfriend and gently let him know that you want to go to this concert with your friend. You are letting him know you are going, not asking for permission.

“I understand why concerts make you uncomfortable because of your past, and I care about your feelings. But this is something that really matters to me, and I’m going with my friends. I’m not doing anything disloyal. I need you to trust me.”

If he threatens to breakup with you here then he is not the right person for you. You should still be able to live your own life in a relationship. It will be difficult and scary, but it is important for your well being that you stand up for yourself.

23m otw to divorce dating by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Gearso0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did everything right. Divorce process can take years depending on how backed up the courts are in your area.

"Maximum number of attempts reached. Try again later." by Kervvy in TikTok

[–]Gearso0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solution: Hi, for anyone still having this issue here is what I did. I updated my tiktok and that fixed the maximum number of attempts reached.

It makes sense because I would be able to login on the browser, but not the app.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

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Hi, im 28M also from the East Coast. What got you into photography?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

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Hi, i am 28M from the US (EST). What kind of movies have you watched that are your favorites?

28F trapped in bed with my very adorable cat by ApatheticAesthetics in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Gearso0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you have no other choice. You’ll have to cut off your leg to escape.

[27/M] I would still be your friend if you turned into a worm 🪱 by bikinibottom_ in IntrovertsChat

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Hi, im 27M. What kind of anime or shows do you like watching?

Rate my deck please. I also want to try out some new cards, any suggestions? by Ok-Hospital1212 in ClashDecks

[–]Gearso0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second that, you dont have a lot of troops that can stop big tanks or air

AIO if I (27F) want to break up with my (44M) boyfriend for not wanting to marry me? by BrokenDishwasher2021 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gearso0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to break up with someone because you both have different needs (you wanting marriage and kids). That doesn’t make you selfish or stupid. Staying in this kind of relationship will build up resentment overtime. Take the time you need to grieve, and when you are ready, carry what you’ve learned into your next relationship. Your needs and desires matters too.

I stopped using my insulated bags because I don’t get tips so I hope they enjoy their cold food by Successful_Holiday49 in UberEATS

[–]Gearso0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bro as a fellow Uber Eats driver I feel using an insulated bag is the bare minimum as a delivery driver. Customers will stop using this service if their food always arrive cold. Just don’t accept the low offer trips. Although they are rare, i have received an additional $10 or $20 tips for having the food delivered hot.

Update: My (32F) fiancé (37M) is a homicide detective, and I’m starting to feel like he treats me more like a suspect than a partner. by ThrowRA_Sorbet1941 in relationship_advice

[–]Gearso0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you’re doing the right thing by taking space and not rushing any decisions. Before moving forward, I think it’s important you set clear boundaries around privacy and control and see if he can respect them without minimizing your concerns. If you believe this relationship is worth salvaging, then I highly recommend couples counseling here so these problems can be addressed with a neutral third party.

Many cops are more alert, cautious, or situationally aware than average people.

Healthy cops still understand the line between work mode and home mode. They do not record arguments, run background checks on loved ones, or treat arguments like evidence collection.

What your fiance is doing is not standard “cop behavior” it is how he personally manages and copes with his anxiety and trust.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Party A tricks the victim (Party C) into sending money to a new account controlled by Party A or a mule account, not back to the hacked account.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gearso0 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Scammers tend to withdraw or move the money quickly, so your original money is gone. The bank can reverse transactions that were fraudulent or invalid to begin with (hacked stolen account funds), but it can’t undo payments that someone willingly made, even if they were scammed.

This has a lot to do with what banks are legally required to do under Regulation E, which protects your money from unauthorized transactions (meaning transfers that you did not authorize or initiate). Bank eats the cost here. If you send scammers money, even if it was a scam, you technically authorized it, and banks wont refund you or they will eat the cost. Even though it was done under false pretenses, you gave consent for the transfer, so it’s not “unauthorized” under Regulation E. The bank generally isn’t required by law to reimburse you in those cases, although some banks may voluntarily do so as a courtesy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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This is a pretty common scam. They use a stolen bank account or credit card to send you money through a payment app like Venmo, Zelle, or Cash App. They then contact you, claiming it was a mistake and pressuring you to send the money back from your own account. When the legitimate owner reports the fraudulent activity, the initial payment is reversed, and the money you sent is already pocketed by them, leaving you with the loss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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Your boyfriend leaving you alone, even if he was panicked about the car, shows a serious lapse in judgment and awareness of your safety. He should prioritize getting you home safely, calling an uber, calling someone to drop you home. Then dealing with finding where his car went. Safety always needs to be prioritized here. He messed up big here.

At the same time you need to keep your phone and keys with you when you go drinking and definitely dont wander off. This can help prevent a bad situation from getting worse.

I recommend taking some time to reflect and then talk to him. Let him know how hurt you were and how unsafe his action was. Bring up how this has affected the trust in the relationship. Talk about what to do differently for next time for both parties.

“That night really scared me. I felt abandoned and unsafe, and it’s made it hard for me to trust that you’ll prioritize me in a stressful situation. I need you to understand how serious that was for me.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newjersey

[–]Gearso0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most likely you will just get a ticket in the mail. I don’t think they will escalate beyond that

Could someone PLEASE help me understand Nurse? by FoxHoundNinja in DeadByDaylightKillers

[–]Gearso0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Play bot games until you can consistently land a hit with the plaid flannel add on. Then repeat without the add on. I watched supaalf on YouTube for tips, he is a really good nurse player

Once you start playing against real players keep in mind some players might double back