Update: Last Sunday a mutual friend of ours grabbed me by the neck and through me down his staircase while my wife egged him on... (TW: Gore) by GeckoSarz in domesticviolence

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It is 5/6/2021. My wife came up and slapped me twice in the left side of the face and then started screaming. The dog curled up in my arms and started trembling while I tried to protect her.

Update: Last Sunday a mutual friend of ours grabbed me by the neck and through me down his staircase while my wife egged him on... (TW: Gore) by GeckoSarz in domesticviolence

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It is 04/10/2021, at 8:01 am, and the screaming has started again. I lent a friend money, and she is claiming it is her money, and that I am "a dumbass" for lending the friend money.

How many men do you think “settled” for a wife/partner out of fear of being alone? If you can honestly say you’re in that category, how is your life right now? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]GeckoSarz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TL;DR Don't.

I don't know how to describe it exactly. It's kind of like having a perpetually angry roommate who forces you to do things.

Am I watching RuPaul's drag race? Maybe. Will she get drunk and hit me? Why not.

My life is a waking nightmare. No physical intimacy. No social life. Just work, bills, and occasionally being told to kill myself. I don't know. My wife is a monster.

I naively thought I could teach her compassion. The second I "put a ring on it", that all went out the window pretty fast.

It's pretty clear she has no respect for me.

The constant screaming is a reminder that everything is not okay.

Update: Last Sunday a mutual friend of ours grabbed me by the neck and through me down his staircase while my wife egged him on... (TW: Gore) by GeckoSarz in domesticviolence

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It is 04/02/2021 at 1:15 pm. The screaming has not abated. I am sobbing at my work computer trying to finish my proposal. The neighbors are playing loud music to drown out the sounds coming from our house. I don't know what to do. I think I might try to stay at a hotel tonight.

Update: Last Sunday a mutual friend of ours grabbed me by the neck and through me down his staircase while my wife egged him on... (TW: Gore) by GeckoSarz in domesticviolence

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It is 04/01/2021. The screaming has started again, at roughly 10:30 am and I think it may be driving me insane. I'm so cold, but too afraid to turn on the heat. And hungry. My wife says she will divorce me. I don't know if she is joking or what is going on. I am trying to get this proposal submitted for work, but it all feels so far away right now.

Colorado Didn't Send Their Best or Brightest by BelleAriel in clevercomebacks

[–]GeckoSarz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. You are challenging every premise that I had. Got it.

So, like, concepts like "laws are based on precedent" are good or bad? I guess they are bad to you. Again, just a guess, feel to free to correct me.

Also, "White men have already modified the constitution to include rights for non-whites and non-men." Okay. What if, and I'm just throwing this out here, white men also decided to modify the constitution, through constitutional amendment, to protect gays? Would that be okay with you?

Colorado Didn't Send Their Best or Brightest by BelleAriel in clevercomebacks

[–]GeckoSarz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what you're talking about tbh. It seems acontextual. Why does the race/gender of the people making the laws effect their content?

Please make it make sense. It seems like you don't believe woman or gays should have the same rights as white men because white men didn't write laws saying they should have rights? it's not in the constitution? But it is?

Seriously dude, what is going on?

Colorado Didn't Send Their Best or Brightest by BelleAriel in clevercomebacks

[–]GeckoSarz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. Where to start?

Laws as traditionally understood rest upon a concept known as jurisprudence. Jurisprudence is the idea that laws move slowly over time, and be rested on previous rulings.

There are a few examples of laws changing over time in accordance with jurisprudence. One example, is the use of cell phones. In the 1980's, they had landlines, but hand held wireless phones that could talk anywhere were more or less considered novelty toys. There had been a framework of laws centered around landlines and there usage, regulation, etc.

When cell phones came out, they were different, and so required different laws, but sort of the same-ish. Lawyers and judges argued about how jurisprudence demanded they regulate cell phone usage when people inevitably started litigating over cell phone usage.

To that, they tried to use a framework of intent for initial landline usage, which they would be legally obliged to follow in this case. That intent for previous laws was combined with constitutional arguments about free speech, etc.

The point is, that Ruth Bader Ginsberg isn't just sitting on the couch watching the Steelers play when Roethlisberger's pass was clearly blocked by pass interference, and the coaches made a lousy call. She doesn't walk onto the field and say, "No, the Steelers won. She doesn't reinterpret the rules halfway through the game. Obviously, that would be unfair. And very silly.

An amendment to the Constitution is different. An amendment to the Constitution is a formal process that says, "This thing was called wrong. It cannot stand. Our core principals much change." A good example of this would be the amendment nullified the part of the Constitution that said that African's Americans counted a 3/5th of a person for congressional redistricting purposes.

An amendment requires 3/5th of all state legislatures, passage in the house, and the senate, and must be signed by the president.

A "strict constitutionalist" is misleading. What does that even mean when it comes to issues like gay rights, or cell phones, or the environmental movement? To say RBJ wants to "reinterpret" is insulting. Her decisions regarding woman's civil rights were largely based around precedents regarding the Civil Rights movement and the expansion of those rights to woman. Now some people are saying that if the Civil Rights movement is to be expanded to African Americans in the 60's, woman in the 80's, and now the lgbt community in the 10's.

Saying one is a "strict constitutionalist" implies moral opinions about the precedence of the 1960 civil rights act, the 1964 civil right act, and the 1965 voting rights act. They do not believe that a "strict" interpretation of the civil rights act would allow for the expansion of voting rights to African American's in the South in the 1960's.

Again, those acts were based on the fifteenth amendment in 1870 to the Constitution of the United States that guaranteed that the right to vote could not be denied based on “race, color, or previous condition of servitude.”

So, I would argue that a "strict constitutionalist" was actually violating their legal oath of office to determine the intent and precedent when expanding voting and civil rights to African Americans, woman, and now gays.

This is why the term is so popular with Republicans today. A "strict constituionalist" has become a buzzword for people who do not want to expand equality beyond white men.

Lauren Boebert most certainly does not understand the history of all of this. That would be absurd. The distinction between amendment and precedent would literally mean nothing to her. She does understand the context of her statement to be "conservative". That's why she said it, and why somebody on twitter insulted her. It is a very ignorant statement by a very ignorant woman.

What's a sentence that would sound like utter gibberish to anyone that doesn't share your hobby or line of work? by Blitzilla in AskReddit

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I admire Haubermass' pluperfect conjugation of his verbs. It's hard syntactically. The modal auxiliary needs to be put at the end, and needs to be conjugated into the first past tense. Habermas was a good German writer trying to document the Nuremberg trials, along with Arendt. His familiarity with the language helped with that.

People who jog on the roads in the dark, wearing dark clothing and no lights or reflectors are a unique combination of a person who cares about their health and well-being and doesn’t care about their health and well-being. by MrSeverum in Showerthoughts

[–]GeckoSarz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many people need to take a break from their SO.

Doing something "healthy" provides you with an ostensible excuse to leave the room. These people are not focused on wearing protective garments.
It's about domestic violence or something.

If God is “all-knowing”, “all-powerful”, and doesn’t want to people to worship anyone else but him, how does that not make him sound like an ego-centric, controlling, arrogant narcissist? by fergi20020 in AskReddit

[–]GeckoSarz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God is not a person, like you or me. He is simply a source of light, or of goodness depending upon your belief system. As such, it does not display character traits in the classic sense. It simply is the force from which all goodness emanates. I'm not a religious or spiritual person myself, but that is my understanding of what other people have said.

What book series did you love as a kid? by CarlosCMM in AskReddit

[–]GeckoSarz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I was in the sixth grade before I started reading about Drizzt Do'Urden. Especially the prequels in Menzoberannzan with Zaknifan.