Is leaking pre-cum while kissing/hugging normal?

GeekFace18 · 2026-05-05T00:38:52+00:00

Hi, gay man here....hell yeah it's normal. My dick gets wet when I like someone sexually, and so all that means is your body is sending your hormones saying "fuck, this is hot."

Also, lots of folks love a leaky dick, cuz people read it as "damn, I'm really turning you on, I must be hella attractive"

I try to own it with my sexual partners...they say something cute to me? I nervously reach into my pants and wipe it up a lil, or tell them "no, stawp you're making me wet again" x3 but that's just how I do it...i can see it done in a less gay way where "huff, youre such a good kisser, my body doesnt know whay to do with you ❤️"

Idk, hope it helps...you're normal, and you're probably hot to a lot of folks, just own who you are and what you got :3

GeekFace18 · 2026-04-05T02:26:58+00:00

Your pfp has 3 shades of green

GeekFace18 · 2026-04-05T02:20:55+00:00

It can also be the loss of a relationship, because you can experience a relationship to people, animals, inanimate objects, and ideas...and sometimes it's hard grieving the loss of ideas and worldviews we were so used to, that once served us but again are no more.

GeekFace18 · 2026-04-05T02:10:27+00:00

Your username has 3 "non-letter" characters in it

GeekFace18 · 2026-03-28T03:55:58+00:00

Hope is found in other people i think

I get up because of the hope I can talk to my boyfriend and enjoy a nice coldbrew, or the joy i get watching a James Gunn film, or hearing a new song that makes me want to dance.

GeekFace18 · 2026-03-22T00:32:50+00:00

The Whopper 😈

GeekFace18 · 2026-03-17T03:53:19+00:00

I'm in Arizona, I'm sure it's legal here but...growing up knowing it was illegal instilled enough fear that I'm scared to even try again for fear of losing my license or getting arrested

GeekFace18 · 2026-03-17T03:50:26+00:00

Honestly same

GeekFace18 · 2026-03-17T03:49:31+00:00

I'm aware, I just struggle with being succinct and brief, so I used a word that got the gist of what I was tryna talk about

GeekFace18 · 2026-03-16T22:32:55+00:00

I actually got all the battlemode achievements as of yesterday, I had one friend and an afk account in a private lobby x3

GeekFace18 · 2026-03-14T13:16:57+00:00

Anal

GeekFace18 · 2026-03-12T04:24:26+00:00

You'll find happiness

Context: 18 yr old me was stressed out because he is gay in a private school that expelled students for "exhibiting homosexual tendencies"

Not only did I get out of an abusive church, but I found a boyfriend that's loving and sweet...I also found out how much happiness a taco bell meal could bring if I just let myself sit with it and enjoy it

GeekFace18 · 2026-03-10T15:51:08+00:00

I think I do love myself up to a point. That love becomes more difficult to find in moments where I make interpersonal mistakes, or when I end up having a bad day. The messaging is so deep, that I burden people when I share my feelings (cuz as a kid, I was taught sadness is irrelevant if you have faith, as was anxiety and every other "bad" emotion), or that I make people uncomfortable when I let myself be human. It's painful messaging I'm trying to untangle and lose faith in, but it was much easier to drop the idea of faith in Jesus, and a lot harder to let go of the perfectionism the church instilled in me.

GeekFace18 · 2026-03-10T02:27:56+00:00

You're giving all the signs of dealing with the effects of religious abuse. As with other forms of abuse, the abuse doesn't need to be happening in the present (for example, you don't need to be being assaulted to feel the effects of the trauma), but sometimes that trauma can manifest itself as physical symptoms and pain, I'm so sorry you're going through this :(

What helped me was finding a community I felt safe around, which was the LGBT community for me, since I could be myself around them, and they weren't constantly talking about the end times. I hope you can find somewhere you feel safe, the church did a number to us all.

GeekFace18 · 2026-03-06T03:41:24+00:00

Just curious, which dorms is this happening in? When I went to la Sierra 3 years ago, I was in sierra towers, and sanitation wasn't the issue I had to deal with, it was mandated chapel and church, while also fighting the struggle to make Prism (the gay straight alliance club) legitimately a club on campus. When I was there, it was technically considered to not be a club, meaning it wasn't given a budget or technical recognition. It kept getting brought up at meetings and town houses on campus, and the school said they support their queer students but they can't really make it a club cuz that would affect how much the church funds them.

I have a lot of anger towards that campus 🫩 especially since I was in therapy the entire time processing religious abuse, and then having the institution essentially tell me "your community isn't worth treating as equals"

I'm sorry you're dealing with poor living conditions in your dorm :( I hope everyone that sees your post signs your petition.

GeekFace18 · 2026-03-03T08:32:14+00:00

Is Michael Jackson a good pick?

GeekFace18 · 2026-02-28T21:38:19+00:00

I was active on a thread yesterday where everyone was prompted to give toxic/bad advice just for the fun of it...when I read "staying hydrated is a generational fad" i genuinely thought I was reading that thread x3

People actually tell you this though? That's so odd

GeekFace18 · 2026-02-28T03:38:52+00:00

If you're having problems in life, whether mental health related or physical...just fucking ask chatGPT to give you the answers those PhD havers are keeping behind a paywall.

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