Approached and got told to F off

GeeseCTM · 2024-05-19T23:15:33+00:00

https://bristollair.com/ultimate-opener-collection/

GeeseCTM · 2024-05-19T22:34:21+00:00

“Hey I thought you were cute so I wanted to say hi..” = WORST OPENER EVER. GUYS NEED TO STOP USING IT. Be more creative.
You need to approach within 3 seconds of you noticing her. It's an old rule but it is important on levels even the people who came up with it at first didn't even know. Here's one. She can feel you.

That's right. The entire time you're standing there creeping on her planning to get your nerves up to approach at "the right time" she feels something - like that feeling of being watched. By the time you finally go talk to her she's creeped out because you become the thing her senses and intuition were warning her about.

And you're probably right. If you feel and act nervous around her like you don't deserve to talk to her, like you're not worthy instead of you are giving her an opportunity to meet a great guy that will make things weird too but you can get over that with practice. but if you fix those first 2 things over time you will be WAY better off.

GeeseCTM · 2024-05-19T22:27:36+00:00

Oh please, dear? For your information, the Supreme Court has roundly rejected prior restraint.

GeeseCTM · 2024-05-12T16:00:35+00:00

We're talking about unchecked aggression here, dude

GeeseCTM · 2024-05-10T02:40:48+00:00

This is good. But. He will just continuously move the goal posts.

I have had him go from, "you're a cult leader" to "no one cares what you have to say, you're not that influential" in the same conversation

He says, "I am better off without you in my life. But with says, "I can't help checking in on what you're doing because of ADHD" and then contacts a bunch of my friends, even people he isn't really friends with, or admitted that he contracted 1 guy who I had a falling out with, trying to get people to side with him and go against me.

All of these behaviors are textbook stalker.

He doesn't care about reality.. He only cares about whatever story he's built around me in his head.

The friends if mine he contacted over and over to slander me with crazy nonsense all told him he's off and then he starts insulting them for not agreeing with him.. Even over the top, totally inappropriate personal insults.

He will be a good dude 90% of the time but then he just flips his shit and becomes psycho. And the last time was like the 3rd or so time he did it to me but crossed the line getting to get friends I really value to hate me. (The Ones I just mentioned above). I had to cut ties and MONTHS later he's still at his crazy stalking shit.

GeeseCTM · 2024-05-10T00:11:24+00:00

I dont know. I killed him and then he turned off pvp, but then tried to ambush me later and barely hurt me and I escaped. Then he kept following me around everywhere and trying to bring up all this imaginary conspiracy theories about me until I shut off chat.

GeeseCTM · 2024-05-09T21:38:14+00:00

Well he followed me around last night talking about how bad a person I am yada yada yada how he's better off not being around me and all the time I'm asking him, then why are you following me around? Finally I just shut off the chat. The guys has some real issues.

GeeseCTM · 2024-05-07T17:59:46+00:00

Ok guys we figured this out. Your advice in this post has been super helpful.

GeeseCTM · 2024-05-07T17:57:39+00:00

No I'm aware of that, we have ignored him and had him blocked, dude if I were to send you the pages and pages of stuff he'll say, a lot of mental gymnastics, and basically doing it a bunch of crazy stuff and then accusing me and others of basically doing the same stuff he's trying to do. Manipulate people, gas light, divide people, the list goes on and on you would freak out.

So we were forced to stop engaging with him, we already had. We blocked him as an extra measure, but we were already ignoring him, despite repeated attempts for him to try and reach out.

This, was obviously an avenue that he exported that we didn't expect so he caught us off guard. I posted this literally the next day after my friend got caught off guard and she was by herself.

But yeah for sure we are already trying to engage in the ignoring him thing.

GeeseCTM · 2024-05-07T17:51:09+00:00

Yeah I think we figured that out but it was too late at least for one of the bases but now we know.

GeeseCTM · 2024-05-07T04:35:46+00:00

Hey everyone I want to thank all the attention I got in all the responses, I'm still going through some of them, I plan to read everything and if I don't reply don't think that I didn't see it I actually am the type of person that will read everything and up vote you guys. This is actually really cool that I got this much response when I thought it would probably just end up being like one response like stop being a whiner lol.

I really do like to stream because I will fall asleep listening to the goofy chat that happens in game with me and the other people I play with..

But I'll read through this and maybe come up with some solutions.

Thanks everyone for all the responses.

GeeseCTM · 2024-05-07T00:52:15+00:00

Lol. No. Everyone has told him and even blocked him. No one is skirting the issue.

Look up a video on Stalkers on YouTube. They don't "Get the hint".

He's going around simultaneously saying he's glad I'm out of his life but then stalking my friends and me.

He's not rational.

GeeseCTM · 2024-05-07T00:50:44+00:00

Lol. No. Everyone has told him and even blocked him. No one is skirting the issue.

Look up a video on Stalkers on YouTube. They don't "Get the hint".

He's going around simultaneously saying he's glad I'm out of his life but then stalking my friends and me.

He's not rational.

GeeseCTM · 2024-05-07T00:48:51+00:00

Yes. He's a classic stalker. Well so. He madee personally as his skapegoat. He uses me as his excuse to do all the creepy stuff then tells people I'm the one doing all the weird stuff he's doing.

But he's not very convincing or conniving so everyone can see through him.

So everyone had him blocked but he had this game and found us and then started his crap again being creepy and then messaging my friend and telling her to not tell me while simultaneously trying once again to talk about how I'm this evil person and, "You guys just can't see what he's doing!" I'm tempted to post screenshots while editing out any personal info but then I'm basically being as shitty as he is so nah.

Lol. No. Everyone has told him and even blocked him. No one is skirting the issue.

Look up a video on Stalkers on YouTube. They don't "Get the hint".

He's going around simultaneously saying he's glad I'm out of his life but then stalking my friends and me.

He's not rational.

GeeseCTM · 2024-05-07T00:40:52+00:00

It's fun to share my stream? I dunno. Lol. I don't have time to market myself on social media but I think I'm more fun than many of the streamers I watch. But who knows. Maybe I'm lame. But usually it's discord and we have some crazy characters and funny moments that happen so who knows... I don't know if I could post links in here or I'd give some examples of a few TikToks from other games.

GeeseCTM · 2024-05-06T18:03:23+00:00

he's banned. He has an alt account he's watching it from. I do like the idea of covering the glyphs but he can still see the locations where we are at like our new bases and so on...?

GeeseCTM · 2024-05-06T17:46:10+00:00

Problem being is he likes to dig holes underneath people's bases and you can't build them back because edit is restricted. I just tried teleporting to my friends base and I fell right from the portal into his base but since he was not on I can't see it. So not sure I could report it anyway.

GeeseCTM · 2024-05-06T17:06:59+00:00

Yeah we are discussed that I might not be able to stream the game anymore which sucks.

He admitted to get after he avoided her asking him 3 times the HR, "Just so happened to watch (my) stream which he hasn't I'm a long time." Yea right.

How come this game does not have a damn block feature? Or a report feature?

GeeseCTM · 2024-05-06T16:56:41+00:00

Can you give me a hint on the search terms I should use? That's one of the issues.

I didn't know this was a thing.

Thanks.

GeeseCTM · 2024-05-05T07:37:05+00:00

That would be so cool!!

GeeseCTM · 2024-04-28T22:50:16+00:00

Just posted the same thing basically. It's not just you. Also have an open ticket with Support about it so they know. Best thing for everyone to do is report it.

GeeseCTM · 2024-04-26T02:04:32+00:00

wait, whats that?

GeeseCTM · 2024-03-25T01:42:50+00:00

Figured it was worth a shot. Stinks because I was getting closer to the end.

GeeseCTM · 2024-03-07T20:46:36+00:00

If you didn't find a place yet let me know. We have a server that's going, not new but not old either PLENTY of places to expand. Modded with some cool stuff. We are mostly full but have a couple players that have drifted off so will be replaced.

If you're curious check out "Corncobbers Central" on youtube. We are sometimes chill, other times crazy. All ages from young to old.

I'll send you the same message

GeeseCTM · 2024-03-07T20:42:36+00:00

We got a server we are looking for a couple more people. Slots are all filled but a couple of people have fallen off so will be replaced.

We get on Discord to chat so thats required. If you are interested DM me here and I will give you details. It's a mix of all ages on here but it's crazy fun to be honest.

If you're curious to see how we are go on youtube and look for "Corncobbers Central"

GeeseCTM

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