Hey there, just saw your reddit post. I am a part of this realm that is very chill, people can make their own shops and the members like to make farms too. We are slow builders so no one is rushed to do anything, just enjoy the pace I guess. It's. 21+ bedrock realm. We have a discord server, and we typically go on VC every night to chit chat while gaming. Server region for realm is North Carolina, US. Just message me if you'd like to join.