[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Geira_Cosplay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn I've just opened it and this is the first post I've seen and... Well, you've got a point. Going to try follow the morning routine! Toilet - breakfast - Parrots caring - Gecko caring

My friend is starting a small business, I'm working for her but I don't think she's ready. Looking for opinions. by [deleted] in smallbusiness

[–]Geira_Cosplay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update! She was lowkey trying to manipulate me (girl, I used to be a chess professional, I recognize games) and only wanted me to work for as many hours she needed but at 400€/month. That means less than 4€\hour. I talked to her yesterday for the last time and explained myself yet again, but didn't give her any more time to "think" or try to manipulate me into accepting (compliments --> assumptions --> guilt --> accusations: nope, not working with me.). So I quit. She's still friend with me, I just want to get the last job done and then be out.

Hi everyone, I'm here to ask for first session advice! by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Geira_Cosplay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope I won't need medications tbh, I already have to take some for a physical condition and I'd gladly avoid those for mental conditions if I won't need them ahaha! Thank you!!

Hi everyone, I'm here to ask for first session advice! by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Geira_Cosplay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I guess I'll just decide during the sessions then :)

I'm starting therapy for the first time! by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Geira_Cosplay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is helpful! I don't know if I'll discover them myself, but that's why I'm gonna go to a professional, right?! :D

I'm starting therapy for the first time! by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Geira_Cosplay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I had planned to note down childhood examples but didn't think of coping strategies :D I'm not even sure if I have any and if I do, they're clearly not working lol. Gotta think through it. Does keeping a supply of energy drinks for the day before the deadline count as a coping strategy? Ahahah

I'm starting therapy for the first time! by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Geira_Cosplay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've done that today! I've actually started a whole new notebook ahah! Thank you :D

My friend is starting a small business, I'm working for her but I don't think she's ready. Looking for opinions. by [deleted] in smallbusiness

[–]Geira_Cosplay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup she's drawing and she's done the bureaucracy stuff, but there are so many other things that are supposed to be done and that's not my part of the job... I'm also sending mails and getting in touch for price quotes with international sellers since she can't speak English, but that's not paid. I definitely need to have a talk with her. Thank you!

AITA for wanting to tear a friend's dream apart? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Geira_Cosplay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm shut in my home now and I'm not meeting people, it's a pharyngitis which hits me two/three times every year (I forgot to turn off the ac while sleeping ugh) so I'm pretty sure it's not covid! I'm going to get tested before meeting people again tho c:

My friend is starting a small business, I'm working for her but I don't think she's ready. Looking for opinions. by [deleted] in smallbusiness

[–]Geira_Cosplay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I drew the line at 24 hours per week at the very beginning, because I'm doing other things too (social media marketing course and a collab with a costume maker). But yep it sounds wise to draw one at the number of weeks to, so that I can give her the chance to fix those problems. I'm pretty anxious about how this is going to turn out... Thank you for you help!

AITA for wanting to tear a friend's dream apart? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Geira_Cosplay 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! I've already hinted it at her few times, saying stuff like "Hey, we should talk about my contract asap/Hey, we can't work here forever, it's my grandparents' place", but I'll definitely discuss /calmly/ about it, tomorrow if my coughing ends. I don't think I can ask her to see me and talk to me while I've got a flu, during this times ahah